Dating Tips and Advice

2012-02-10T06:16:00.001+07:00

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Secrets of Blissful Relationships: Is Fighting Fair?

2011-04-08T23:46:00.001+07:00

If your child came to you and asked if she could have a fight with her friend down the street would you tell her "sure, just make sure it is a fair fight"? If Iraq and Iran are fighting, do you think it is good as long as they are "fighting fair"?

Most people would say that they should try to talk over their differences and peacefully negotiate instead. So why do so many people say it is ok for couples to fight as long as they have a fair fight? That certainly sends the wrong message even though they might be using the word "fight" in a different way. We should be encouraging couples to negotiate instead of fight.

So, here are some points for negotiating a problem in your relationship.

# Wait until your temper is in control. If necessary, exercise, take a walk, work in the garden or do something that will help relieve the tension.

# Schedule a time and a place for the "peace talks" to take place. Make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to work through the issue. Pick a location that is peaceful and without distractions. Some people like to go to a restaurant or public place so they will be forced to not yell.

# Discuss the issue at hand. Don't wait until you have five or ten things that are upsetting you before you schedule a talk.

# The purposes of negotiations aren't to have your mate believe just as you do, but for them to understand your beliefs and feelings. People are different and that can be a good thing.

# Use "I" sentences to explain how you feel. For example "I feel hurt and neglected when you spend all Sunday with your golf buddies" instead of saying "you are a bad husband for always playing golf and ignoring me."

# Unlike fighting, in negotiations, no side has to come out "the winner." Both of you will win with deeper understanding and compassion for each other.

# Sometimes it is wise to compromise but other times it can cause resentment. Don't ask your sweetheart to give up golf just because he isn't spending enough time with you. Cut back, yes. Give up, no.

# If you find it helpful, write out your peace treaty and sign it.

3 Ways To Intensify Your Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking

2011-04-05T21:10:00.001+07:00

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?

It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. PROLONG YOUR FOREPLAY

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it gives you time to
build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just human nature. Think about a big event in
your life.

Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time under the sheets, make a
conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.

Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly
into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for both of you. And if you
want to feel the magic even more then...

2. TRY NEW THINGS WITH A "TWIST"

Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling, simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new techniquepack a picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. PLAY BEDROOM GAMES

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…
1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better way than playful game
that combines both prolonged foreplay and tryin new things.

Love Tips: Photocopy Shocker!

2011-04-04T21:52:00.001+07:00

Do You Want Your Man Back?

Take this quiz: What is the best thing to do to get him back?

A. Write him a letter (expressing your heartfelt emotions, reminding him of all the good times you've had together, what you think went wrong in your relationship, ways to make your relationship better, etc.)

B. Call him on the phone, tell him how you feel -- and get him to open up and talk about his feelings

C. Give him gifts and shower him with sweetness and love -- so he'll realize what he's missing by not having you in his life.

D. Call him and say, "No one will ever love you as much as I do."

Just thought I would let you know that my husband is very
happy about my discovery (from you) that tightening my muscles as he is
e.jaculating intensifies his experience. - Nicole

~~~ Tips ~~~

Make some photocopies of your diary entries that describe your lovemaking exploits and send them to your spouse at their office.

You can have a quickie in any room in the house. Just bend over (support your self on the kitchen counter, dresser, table, you name it) and let him go for it with his mouth or hot rod.

Take the time to give your lovers feet special attention. Get a pan of warm water and bathe their feet and then dry with a soft towel.

Once your darlings feet are clean, feel free to lick, suck and kiss it all over. Devote special attention to each toe and the area between the toes that is quite sensitive.

Dear Michael:

I can not orgasm with my man. I fake it all the time and I feel so bad about that. Any advice?

Anonymous

Dear Anonymous:

The cause is either physical or psychological. Or a combination. Many women have a clitoris that has limited sensitivity or is positioned in a way that the typical stimulation is not enough for a full pleasurable
experience. Also many women have low blood flow to that region.

I have had numerous women tell me that V Cream has been miraculous for them. It not only gives them 1000 times more pleasure, that they are now having multiple orgasms whereas they had difficulty reaching even one before using it.

Secrets of Blissful Relationships: Just Say No to Fighting

2011-04-03T10:50:00.002+07:00

Secrets of Blissful Relationships

When I went to Junior High School I said 'no' to drugs. When I went to the marriage alter I said 'no' to fighting.

Nancy Reagan's "Just Say No" anti-drug campaign was a huge success. Kids made a verbal commitment and a mental stance to avoid drugs before they were even of the age to be tempted. When they were introduced to drugs, they knew they could "just say no" and not feel alone.

Drug use among school age children plummeted in the 1980s and many have held up Nancy Reagan's program as the chief reason.

People who decide how they are going to cross a bridge before they ever get to it have a much greater chance of not falling in the water.

Why can't we start a "Just Say No to Fighting" campaign? I'll admit, we are against tough odds. It is perfectly acceptable (and often expected) in our modern culture for a husband and wife to fight. Many marriage and relationship counselors even encourage it in the name of "communication."

Yes, it is true. My wife and I have never had a fight. Not in our 20-plus years of marriage. I don't intend on starting. I made a decision when I was dating Athena that I would never fight with her. I saw firsthand how the curse of fighting destroyed my parents' and dozens of other marriages.

Certainly there are times when emotions get wrinkled, and the natural declination is to blow your top. I sometimes have to bite my tongue so I don't say something I would later regret (since when is self-control a bad thing?). Having a naturally calm personality has admittedly made it easier for me to think before I speak than it is for some people. But that shouldn't stop anyone from trying.

Unlike many other relationship experts, I don't see fights or heated arguments as healthy. I just can't imagine how hurting my spouse with verbal and emotional barbs (yes - they do cause serious pain) could ever be encouraged under the guise of "opening up and sharing your feelings." Baloney! I don't need to raise my voice or throw dishes to say I disagree or to explain what I am feeling. Neither does anyone else.

We don't fall for the drug pusher's lies that "everyone's doing it" or "just a little bit won't hurt" and we shouldn't be so gullible to accept the wives tales that everyone fights and that it is a healthy part of relationships.
Fighting is not harmless. It is addictive and if continued, it is likely to cause irreparable damage. It's time to get clean. Go and fight no more.

Secrets of Blissful Relationships

Romantic Tip: Im-Press the Memories

2011-04-02T11:39:00.001+07:00

As an incurable romantic, I firmly believe that Autumn is that magical

time when dreams are realized and hopes renewed and the turning of the

leaves brings to fruition all the promise of spring and summer.

My love and I like to collect a leaf to mark the turning of each

autumn, which we faithfully press in a beautiful hand painted heirloom

flower press given to me by my mother-in-law. Our leaf collection

started the year of our marriage in 1979 and has grown over 21 years,

each added leaf marking the passage of time and becoming in a strange,

mysterious way the embodiment of our hopes and dreams.

The flower press has traveled with us around the world, and includes

unnamed exotic leafy specimens pressed alongside those from an ancient

Pohutukawa that clung to a cliff in the Bay of Island, New Zealand, a

frond from a dainty English Willow overgrowing the River Avon and pert

Canadian Dogwood we carefully nurture in our own garden, to name but a

few.

God willing, we plan to gather many more, each carrying part of our

past into our future.

ClickBank's Top-Selling Love, Sex & Relationship eBooks

2011-04-01T21:38:00.003+07:00

Michael Webb is an internationally known relationships expert who has appeared on over 500 television and radio shows including Oprah, Men are From Mars/ Women are From Venus, NBC News, 700 Club, The Other Half, Iyanla, To Tell the Truth, ABC News and FOX News.

He has written over a dozen best-selling ebooks on the subjects of love, dating, lovemaking, marriage proposals, romance and relationships. Each ebook has its own sales page and many have follow up auto-responders which greatly increase sales conversions.

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Research has shown that the intensity and pleasure of orgasms directly correlates with the length and kind of foreplay. This ebook provides fantastic ideas for games that will have the reader having the type of passion and orgasms that they probably have never before experienced. Click here to see more

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Love Tips: How to Sweeten Your Stuff

2011-03-31T21:43:00.001+07:00

If you want to guarantee yourself some really HOT nights in the
days and weeks ahead, give your sweetheart some personalized Se.xy
Coupons that he or she can redeem for future pleasures.

Currently a bonus item for those who download the 100 Se.x Games
ebook.

My wife and I both subscribe to this newsletter and I look forward
to it every week because I know every Wednesday night will be
incredible. I basically have a boner all day thinking of what my
wife and I will be doing when I get home. Your emails are like
fore.play for her. It puts her in the mood and and she is VERY
ready to try out your suggestions. Sometimes we even email each
other to decide which of the tips we want to try out when we get
home. Trying new stuff isnt awkward any more.

You don't know how much you have changed our se.x life.

Try this out. Find the narrowest doorway and undress. Face each
other and try to have intercourse while each of you is leaning
backwards on the door jamb.

Play a game of *Name that Food*. Blindfold your spouse and have
him or her lick something off your body (put it wherever you want)
and have them guess what it is. They have to keep doing it until
they get it right.

If you want to sweeten your semen, eat the following foods up to 12
hours before love...making: celery, pineapples, melon, strawberries
or kiwi.

Does Your EXCESS SWEATING embarrass you?

I had a friend who was always sweating and honestly
it grossed most of us out.

Excess sweating can cause multiple problems

*    Loss of work promotions
*    Less desirable physical intimacy
*    Ruins clothes
*    Alienates friends

A few months back I noticed at the end of church his
shirt was not all sweated out like usual. I asked about
it and he shared with me how he found a cure for his
overactive sweat-glands.

Simple Valentine's Day Date Ideas

2011-02-11T23:36:00.000+07:00

For most couples Valentine's Day is the day of the year when they really want to spend time together with their partner and show them how much they care and love them. But quite allot of people have trouble planning a perfect Valentine's Day. This is probably due to a great amount of pressure on a person to plan a perfect date or because the person who is planning the date just does not know how to plan a good date in general and particular stressed about Valentine's Day as it considered to be such an important day. Whatever the case may be, here I will provide few Ideas for a great Valentine's Day date.

One of the classic ideas for Valentine's Day date is a romantic candlelight dinner preferably somewhere with great views and if possible the view of the sunset as well. The romantic dinner date will be quite well received no matter if you planning to cook a beautiful meal or go out to a good restaurant. Although you may think that a romantic dinner date may look like a boring and outdated idea for Valentine's Day date, you should remember that, just because it is not that original and has been done so often, it one of those things which never go out of style and always appreciated.

Another great idea for Valentine's Day is a night out dancing. In case you and your partner already good dances you can just go to your local dance club and spend the evening dancing. Another thing you may do to spice up an evening is instead of going to your local dance club, go out to town to a night club especially the one which has salsa dancing. This will make dancing date to be more exciting and more appreciated by your partner. On the other hand if you do not have much dancing experience you may consider organizing a ballroom or salsa dance lesson. This will help you both to learn something new and also will help you connect better with your partner. Otherwise you can just head out to a night club and dance the night away.

Another great idea for Valentine's Day and it is not often been considered but if done right it can be quite good. The idea is to rent a series of movies according to a particular theme, make sure it is something that both of you will enjoy, and then spend the evening watching movies and making popcorn. This will allow you and your partner to spend quality time together, which is really important in any relationship.

You can take you partner on a scenic helicopter ride, which can be quite romantic just pick a time so you can see the sunset towards the end of the flight it is very beautiful and romantic and will be appreciated by your partner. In order to get it right you should consider booking a helicopter in advance as there availability restrictions on such flight and they get booked quite fast as well. Also you may add a dinner after the helicopter flight, were helicopter would drop you off right next to the restaurant. If you do that you will score quite allot of good points with your partner.

You may also consider some sort of a cultural event as a play in a theatre or a visit to a museum or an art gallery. These types of activities would be especially good if you and your partner do not engage into them on a regular basis. And remember that these types of activities are only good and will be appreciated if your partner enjoys them and you and your partner don't do them very often.

When planning a Valentine's Day date remember to think about who you planning it for and what would they enjoy. And also make sure it is not something that you and your partner do on a regular basis otherwise if it is add some sort of a twist to it by doing so you and your partner will have a great and enjoyable Valentine's Day date.

Grab a copy of 300 Creative Date Ideas and get your FREE copy of "101 Unique Valentine's Day Gift Ideas" right now and make this Valentine's Day unforgettable.

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How to Get Her Back - Tips for Healing A Broken Relationship

2011-01-19T22:26:00.000+07:00

Want to get yor ex back? Discover the single greatest secret to effortlessly get your ex back, find more information here. Good luck!

When your girlfriend decides she's had enough and wants to move on to see other people, it can really hurt. I know it's not exactly "manly" to let it be known that we feel pain like anyone else, but that doesn't change the fact that we do. Well, there are plenty of ways to get over that pain and even get back together with your ex girlfriend, and I'm here to help you!

Getting back with your ex isn't going to be a walk in the park, but there's a system to it that can simplify things and make it way easier than it could be. Even then, there's no guarantee that it works for everyone, and honestly anybody who says "my way is 100% flawless and guaranteed" is lying. No single method works 100% of the time with 100% of the people, but this process I'm about to show you is one of the most effective ones out there.

First things first, when the breakup actually happens, don't go chasing after her begging her to come back to you. It's not very manly, and it's not going to get you anywhere anyways. She's made up her mind, she's probably angry or hurt or both, and seeing MORE of you right at this time isn't really on her list of favorite things to do.

Give her some space, some time to heal and get herself back in order. While she's sorting her own things out, you need to be doing some thinking yourself. Painful as it is, it's been made clear that the two of you as you both are will NOT end up working things out. SHE'S not going to change, so if you want to make it work with her YOU'RE going to have to be the one to change.

Analyze your relationship with her, and really figure out what YOU did wrong. If you already know what it was, that's great...some girls will tell you what the problems are when they break up with you. Not all of them do though, so you may have to do some thinking here. Once you figure it out and make a list of the things you did to contribute to the demise of the relationship, you have some more work ahead of you.

You have to take those flaws and errors you have or have made, and get rid of them. Stop doing the things that drive her away, and start doing things to draw her to you. A lot of this depends on the specific girl and what her individual needs and expectations are, so you can tell yourself exactly what it is you need to do better than I could, since you know her better than I do.

Whatever the case may be, you need to work your issues out and solve your biggest problems. When you're either done with that or are well on the road to being done with it, you can reinitiate contact with your ex. Remember to keep it simple and light, calling about the breakup or getting back together isn't usually met with much positivity. A pretty tried-and-true example of a first contact is to see how she's been doing since the breakup. It's light, shows you care, and doesn't start getting into "oh my God I miss you so much come back."
Once you've established contact again, slowly build back up with a few contacts here and there, light and friendly without getting TOO friendly. Eventually you two will probably start spending time together, and at this point it's important to spend this time doing things the two of you always really enjoyed doing before when you were a couple. Doing something fun and familiar should bring fond memories to the surface, and start to rekindle a little of what she felt for you in the past.

Really, from here it's just playing it by ear. Pay attention to her, listen to her, and watch for any signals that she may still be in love with you. Let her see for herself that the problems you had that assisted the ending of the relationship have been dealt with or are in the process of being dealt with. Be the guy she fell in love with, only without the faults that made her leave.

Following this procedure tends to have excellent results, guys. No other "technique" has as high a success rate, because this one actually fixes the problems. If she loves you, she WANTS to be with you, she just doesn't want to be unhappy while she is. That's why she left! If you make it so that you're not causing her unhappiness and she can see that you won't be, she'll be far more open to giving it another shot.

So give it a go, see what happens. I guarantee you'll be surprised at how much easier it seems. Good luck! =)

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By Erik Michaels

3 Ways To Intensify Your Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking

2010-12-31T22:45:00.000+07:00

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is by
having prolonged foreplay?

It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. PROLONG YOUR FOREPLAY

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just human nature. Think about a big event in your life.

Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the build-up and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time under the sheets, make a
conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.

Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then...

2. TRY NEW THINGS WITH A "TWIST"

Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling, simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new techniquepack a picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. PLAY BEDROOM GAMES

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…
1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying new things.

Click here to learn more 100 Sex Games for Couples

Flirting Formula Book Review

2010-11-17T00:08:00.000+07:00

At first I thought this was another approach from a sleazy guy who was going to try to tell me how I can seduce women so they will want to jump in bed with me on the first date.

I was wrong.

Michael has class.

The simple premise of this book is that some guys are naturally good around women and women are naturally attracted to certain guys (even if they are not comfortable with women). Michael teaches you the traits that women are looking for in a man so you can either build up your confidence to approach them, or do what he suggests so women will naturally gravitate towards you.

Sounds simple. Well, it is and it isnt. Many of the ideas in the book were like lightbulbs going off. A few were as simple as an article of clothing to put on (or wear a certain way) that will have women approaching you. Or a simple, yet sincere greeting next time you see an attractive woman. Those were so easy and indeed got immediate results when I recently went out with some friends.

The tips on interjecting humor into my persona were a little more difficult. They were great tips and suggestions but I'm not a naturally funny guy so those were harder to pull off. Some guys would have an easier time with that chapter than I did.

Would I recommend it? Well, I didn't have 6 girls in my bed last week. But neither was that my goal. I did strike up a few conversations when women began approaching me and I have two dates lined up next week to go paddleboating and to see a play.

My confidence is already soaring. Just wish I hadn't waited until I was 32 to get your Flirting Formula.

To see more about Flirting Formula, Click here!

Free Download eBook : 101 Romantic Ideas

2010-11-14T21:07:00.000+07:00

Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above your bed to spell out a message such as "I Love You" When the lights go down, your message will be revealed!

Want another? When you are in a romantic spot, ask your partner if she would like to dance. Place one earpiece in her ear and one in your own and enjoy your private dance floor.

This technique is particularly effective if the romantic spot you have chosen is somewhere where people would not normally dance, for example, the top of the Empire State building at sunset or on top of a mountain during a camping trip.

These are just TWO romantic ideas you can start using right awayinside you'll discover 99 MORE WAYS to express the love for your partner in creative and unique ways.

You'll also learn…

A unique "twist" to buying flowers (idea #3)

A creative way to cheer your partner up at work (idea #10)

7 'seldom used' words that really touch the heart (idea #14)

And many many more…

Click here to Download eBook 101 Romantic Ideas

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“Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?”

2010-03-30T22:35:00.000+07:00

Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying? For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men.

Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very good at what they do because they’ve had a lot of practice!

These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.

Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.

The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I need to find a man who will hurt me.” Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man. The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.

What if there was a way to effortlessly attract men that were both exciting as well as dependable? Not simply a technique, but a manual that showed how successful women captivate men in such a way that they never get mistreated.

What if information was available to transform you into the woman that men adore? Thankfully such information is available and it’s just one click away. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” shows every woman the secrets to attract and keep the man of her dreams. Click here to see for yourself!

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can Too!

2010-03-28T23:15:00.000+07:00

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this:

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me. They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around. Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying. They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love. Was it me? After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape. So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house? The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner? Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door?

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men. I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them. What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?”

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

I’d like to share with you the secrets that men find irresistible and powerless to resist. The dirty little secret is that having a perfect body isn’t nearly as important as you have been led to believe. You can discover this incredible information by simply clicking here.

“If Only I Could Understand Men….”

2010-03-27T22:14:00.000+07:00

Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do?

Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.

1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.”

2) Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.

3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful.

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What Do Men Find Attractive in a Woman? It Probably Isn't What You Think!

2010-03-20T23:27:00.000+07:00

Ask ten women what they think men find attractive in women and nine will probably mention a specific body part or something to do with sex. Certainly, it's true that most men are visually stimulated by the physical characteristics of women, but when it comes to a long term meaningful relationship, looks aren't everything! So what do men find attractive in women? It probably isn't what you think!

Of course, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and every man has his own tastes and preferences. But are there some specific things that men look for that are common? Absolutely:

Men seem to be almost universal in agreement that they love a woman who has her own interests and life outside of theirs. This reassures the man that he will get to keep his own independence. She won't be reliant on him for her sole source of activities. Also, most guys don't realize this, but when a woman is busy a lot with her own pursuits it makes her harder to get and men always want what they can't have!

Another big turn on for men is a woman who knows who she is and where she is going. A self confident woman naturally draws people to her and this will no doubt also make her desirable to men seeking romance. When you obviously love yourself, it makes it much easier for others to love you.

And men feel very strongly about women who make them feel loved and wanted. They want you to have your own life and be confident about who you are, but still make them feel like they are the center of your universe at the end of the day.

So now you have a great insight into what men are ultimately looking for. But how do you draw a man to you? How do you make him crazy with desire for you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated?

Actually there is more; a LOT more! There are some secrets about men that you probably don't know. Secrets that will draw them to you and allow you to create a solid and powerful relationship. The relationship you've probably dreamed about! If you want to learn more click here to see it for yourself!

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By Elizabeth Andrews

Ideas to Surprise Her on Your Marriage Anniversary

2010-03-14T22:10:00.000+07:00

Celebrating a marriage anniversary with your partner is one of the most exciting events of your life- the day to fall in love yet again, the day when you can just hold her and feel the warmth of the year you have so joyfully spent together. Of course, being together for one good year means so much for both of you and indubitably you will try your best to make it one of the most treasured and unforgettable events of your life. After all- you love her, you care for her smile, and surely you will do anything on this day to see her fly with joy, holding you in your arms and saying yes...I am so lucky to have you.

The most difficult thing is to decide as to how to surprise her on the marriage anniversary- doing something for her which she wouldn't have ever imagined. Gifting her beautiful card with lots of love notes is one of the best ideas, but this card can be made more lovable if you write the love notes on your own, describing how your life has changed, how happy you now feel to be in her company, how she completes your inner being. The idea is to be true to yourself and to your feelings.

Surprise her by singing a song in her honor (in case you never sing a song). She will be watching you with wide eyes open. Yet another way to surprise her is to organize a party in her honor, where you can invite all of her friends but care should be taken to keep this a secret, she shouldn't have any idea about the party or else entire enjoyment will fade away.

You can also try this one- The most treasured of all the memories should be compiled in an album form, with special comments on each occasion which has been pasted there. This should start from the wedding day photographs followed by all the other snapshots which you might have taken over the years. Try to add all the personal memories associated with the events. Just sit together and have a re look at the days you have spent together and relive each day with the album.

Spending a night out is also a chilling idea, try to take her to her favorite restaurant, get the music on and yet again propose to her by gifting her beautiful diamond ring. Try to have her favorite food on the table. Just make her feel special in the best way possible. You can also gift her bouquet of her favorite flowers.
Jewellery is said to be the perfect gift for every occasion. If she loves wearing it, then this can be a viable option. Or else, try to gift her some beautiful dress accompanied by chocolates, perfumes or anything which she loves the most.

You can even surprise her by taking her on a long vocation to an exquisite holiday destination. Try to keep it secret and on the day of your wedding anniversary, simply give the tickets in her hand and watch your loved one shout in happiness.

Marriage anniversaries come and go but the main aim should be to rekindle the love, to atone for any of the past wrongs- may be for hurting her or not giving her enough time. This is one special day where you can simply be yourself and you can make it special for her by giving her care, love which she desires. Try to spend the entire day together, take her out for a movie or just to a silent place where you can share your love. It is your day and you need to make it memorable and worth remembering, after all it happens just once in a year.

About Author: The writer is a free lance journalist based in Aligarh, she is also an staff writer for Mangaljodi.com, a Indian matrimonial site based in Bhopal. She can be contacted at shadaan.alam@gmail.com.

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What Women Want in a Boyfriend - Know This and You'll Beat 97% of the Guys Out There

2010-03-11T21:44:00.000+07:00

Many guys complain about how women seem to be unpredictable when it comes to their preferences in men. The truth is that women really are not complicated at all. And if you happen to know these things that women want in their men, you will be instantly ahead of most guys out there today. Read on to discover the traits that women want in their partners...

Ability To Play Professional Golf.
Just kidding (well, sort of). The truth is that you don't have to be Tiger Woods in order to really hit it off with beautiful Swedish blondes and party with Geylang hostesses. However, if you have a special skill that she can show off to her friends with, then the happier she will be.

Be Presentable.
Sure, you don't need to look like Brad Pitt or Tommy Page, but try not to look like you've just slept under the bridge in your underwear. You don't need to rearrange your face to look like George Clooney, but there's no excuse for dressing sloppily.

Be Strong.
You will need to lead in the relationship - don't expect HER to be the boss, even though she might be the CEO of an investment bank at her day job. It's YOUR responsibility to be the one who bosses her around - and guess what - most women like being bossed around by the men they love.

Be Laid Back... Sometimes.
Look - while you need to be the dominant one in the partnership, you don't have to always shout at her to get you beer and give you foot rubs, back massages and other physical favors. Chill and relax sometimes. As Joker would say, "why so serious?" Learn to take some time off and have fun with her - reward her from time to time, but don't overdo it!

Be Controlling... Emotionally.
You gotta always remain in control - and one easy way to do this is to dominate her emotionally. One trick to do this is Fractionation http://www.FractionationFormula.com.

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By Derek Rake

Boomer Dating - Want to Fly Into Mr Wonderful's Arms? Try Flapping Your Wings

2010-03-06T23:56:00.000+07:00

Apathy - sitting and waiting for love without exerting the effort to make it happen - just may be the number one cause of single woman loneliness.

Consider the robin. Could she fly if she perched apathetically on a tree branch waiting for a favorable breeze? Not likely. Robin knows that if she fails to flap her wings, an earlier bird is going to catch the worm. So with a flick of her feathers, she's airborne.

We know a woman in Colorado who - after her husband's passing and a year of breakfast-for-one and supper with the six o'clock news - murmured a silent prayer as she walked in the cool mountain air: "Please, Lord, open my heart to a new love.

A few days later, her landlady rang her bell. "A new man just moved in a couple of doors down from you. Tall, kinda good-looking, and I'd say early 60s. Keep your eyes open." Joyce did. When she saw him head for the mailbox, she picked up her key and followed. A 20-minute conversation led to other conversations. "But," Joyce complained to her son-in-law a couple of months later, "this relationship isn't going anywhere. I'm out of practice. What do I do next?"

"For heaven's sake," he declared, "this is the 21st century. Invite him to dinner." But before she did, he did, and a few months later he asked a more serious question. "My answer was yes," smiles Joyce, "and now only one of us has to go out for the mail."

Joyce is a natural-born wing-flapper, but for some of us apathy is a malady difficult to overcome. There were probably half a dozen women fantasizing about Victor as he passed their apartment windows that first week of his arrival on the scene.

Unlike Joyce, they were too timid, or too afraid of rejection, to flap their wings.

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By Howard Eisenberg

How to Regain His Trust After Cheating

2010-01-30T23:37:00.000+07:00

Trust is important in any relationship. Cheating or having an affair is a quick way to erode trust fast. The good news is that once gone it isn't always gone for ever. Many relationships can and do weather the wild storms that adultery brings about. Can your relationship handle the heat? These tips will help you win back one of the most important things that cheating takes away: his trust.

Actions Speak Louder than Words
You've heard this age old adage many times in your life but its truth is timeless. You can talk all you want but if you want him to believe he can trust you, you are going to have to show him - not tell him.
How do you accomplish this feat? You prove that he can trust you again by earning his trust. It takes time. This isn't something you can do, apologize for, and go back to the way things were right away. Honestly, the way things were wasn't all that wonderful if you were cheating anyway.
Be where you tell him you're going. Come home after work. Stop going out with the girls for a while. Have the girls come over to your house. Change your routine and make your lifestyle more open to his scrutiny. In time he'll trust that you are going to be where you say you are. Once you regain that trust, guard it carefully and don't risk losing it again.

Expose Your Soul
If you're like most people there's always a little something you hold back and keep close to your heart. When you've reached the point where you're trying to win back the trust of someone you love a good start is to show that person how much you trust him.
Open up to him in a way you've never opened up to him before. You might earn more than a little of his trust back in return. Regardless of that you'll be sharing a part of yourself you've never revealed to him in the past. It's definitely a step in the right direction.

Understand that it may Never Fully Happen
Men protect themselves in different ways. It's important to understand that he may never fully trust you again. That doesn't mean that he won't trust you on some levels or that you can't have a long-lasting and loving relationship. It simply means that there will always be some part of him that has doubts and insecurities.
It will be up to you to make him feel better about himself and your commitment to him. Remind him often how much you need him and do your best to make him understand how much your respect, admire, and want him. These things go a long way towards creating a happy and healthy relationship today and in the future.

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By T Dub Jackson

Marriage : Keep Your Marriage From Being Destroyed and Avoid These Marital Mistakes

2010-01-24T23:36:00.000+07:00

Is a lasting marriage that is exciting, passionate, kind, warm, and caring a fairy tale or an obtainable dream? Does a marriage like that really have what it takes to grow and sustain? Of course, most people believe that is what they are marrying into when the say their "I do's." But with the country's high divorce rate, can it really happen? Despite the fact that some marriages end because of physical, emotional, or substance abuse, the rest are destroyed over "irreconcilable differences."

So if you feel you and your partner are growing apart, you could avoid the whole ugly mess of divorce by taking heed of the following advice.

1) Make each other a top priority.
With our busy lives filled with mind-numbing jobs, elderly parents and children who need our constant care, and the daily running of an entire household, it is entirely too easy to ignore the needs of your partner. If you do not want to lose your partner because you allowed other factors to take up all of your time, you need to immediately make your husband or wife feel loved, treasured, and appreciated through engaging in special time, and that does not mean physical intimacy necessarily. Special time also means getting out of the house for a walk or a date or anywhere you both can communicate without life's pressures butting in. You both must remind each other every once in a while that you are not just parents and breadwinners, you are two people who romantically love one another.

2) You have to maintain your marriage.
You are completely different in your thirties and forties than you were during the time you first became husband and wife in your twenties, so the question is during this time have you grown closer together or further apart? If you want your marriage to be a success, you must take time once a year to evaluate the state of your partnership and set new goals. One excellent question to ask one another is if there is anything either of you can do to enhance your connection; that question can help you jump start a meaningful discussion.

3) Only engage in positive marital behaviors.

Now this is not to say if you are experiencing abuse of any kind or if your partner is addicted to abusive substances that you should stay in the marriage. But in any other case where your you or your partner engage in behaviors that take too much time away from your marriage then that must stop. What does that mean? Some examples of this type of behavior can include watching an excessive amount of television, becoming wrapped up in a hobby or pastime, or being excessively involved in your kid's lives. So if you have allowed any of these factors to take away necessary time with your spouse, you are effectively destroying your marriage. In the case of dealing with over-scheduled children, once those children have grown and left the nest and you are left with your partner, more often than not, you will be left with a virtual stranger, not a friend, lover, and confidante.

4) Get professional help before it's too late.
Do not wait until you have hired divorce lawyers to go to marital counseling because by then too much damage has been done. During the course of counseling, you both will learn how to communicate with one another in an effective manner, not a destructive one. So if you are bored, upset, or disappointed, you will know exactly how to express that to your spouse. Receiving marital counseling in a timely fashion is the best way to maintain your marriage.
There is no need to become discouraged, you can save your marriage as long as you do not put it off any longer. If you are worried about the excessive cost of traditional counseling or that your partner is not completely on board, don't be. There are many resources online that can help you get your marriage back on track, spice up a boring marriage, or improve the way you both relate to each other on a daily basis. The best part about online help is that it is much more affordable than traditional avenues and of course, it all comes with a guarantee.

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By Alex Ottis

How to Dominate a Woman

2010-01-10T22:26:00.000+07:00

Men with average looks never seem to get women to turn their heads - though this mostly has nothing to do with their actual looks, but due to the low confidence and self-esteem that seems to come therewith.

The minute such men see women who are beautiful, they instantly think that they have no chance with them. This has nothing to do with the women's mindsets, though; if women behave like any other man, they will be perceived as regular.

Additionally, you need to remember that the skills of a man in the world of seduction actually holds much more importance than his looks. Keep reading to figure out which techniques to use in order to be perceived as special by the opposite sex, for a change...

How Dominate Women in No Time...Whenever You Want (Three Techniques Of Surefire Seduction Domination You Must Know)

Technique Number One: Take it easy. No matter how beautiful a woman might be, it would be possible to get her to fall for you, regardless of how you see yourself - remember that. Although there is no real explanation for this, it actually happens.
If you really want to, you can try to find out the explanation, but it would be much easier to just do something about it right away. Once you want to take things to the next level, just let her know and also make sure she knows you do not want to push her into anything she doesn't want to be pushed into.

Technique Number Two: Play hard to get. Remember that women naturally like challenges - conversely, they will not value things which are easy to obtain. So how do you use this fact to your advantage?

Pretty simple, really. Just make it hard for her to win you over. Always be slightly unattainable - and play mind games as often as you can. When you are able to make her submit to your wishes, it makes it so much easier to dominate her.

Technique Number Three: Hack into her mind. If you truly wish to dominate women, you need to get into their minds and tap into their hot spots. If you have no trouble with the thought of using subtle techniques of psychology, you really should learn about mind control and the like.
One of these techniques is known as fractionation and comes with two steps that are easy to use. Even men who aren't experts at seduction can pull this particular technique off with ease.
The best thing about fractionation would be that, after mastering it, you can attract women by the truckload without being a professional sports man or having a well-known name. With fractionation, you can also attract and completely dominate any woman of your choice. Outstanding stuff indeed!

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By Derek Rake

Dating Tips For Men - How to Make a Woman Never Forget You!

2009-12-31T22:07:00.000+07:00

I think that all men know that they have to be able to make a pretty god, lasting impression on a woman if they want things to evolve. If you want to make an impact and make her never forget you, then there is one mistake that you can never allow yourself to make with a woman. And that is...never be BLAND.

A lot of men, especially those that are bot really confident in themselves kind of jst stick to being bland and as a result, blend into the background whenever they are around women. Of course, this will only guarantee that you do NOT make a lasting impression on a woman.
So, what's a guy to do?

Now, I wont tell you that you should try to become an outrageous personality or anything like that. You do have to get yourself noticed, though. Don't shy away from holding a conversation, even being the one to initiate the interaction with a woman.

You have to be able to get off of the wall, and start making yourself known to women.
There was a time when a few buddies of mine were complaining about their lack of success with women. So, one night, we all decided to hit this little bar nearby where a LOT of good looking college girls go to.

So, we get inside, and what do my friends do?
They grab a table, order a drink, and that's about it.
Of course they were not having any luck. They weren't doing anything at all to get ant attention. Of course, I got up out of my seat and found a couple of women that were by themselves and invited them to come sit with us.

Long story short, my buddies had a better time that night than the last few months combined. You don't have to be a silver tongued smooth talker to do this. Just a simple opener, and an invitation to come and join you is often more than enough.

To make the impression last, you have to be able to get into a conversation or start flirting with her right away. You want a woman to feel like she is not just having a great time with you now, but that she wants to experience MORE great times with you.

This is how you are going to create a lasting impression on a woman. Get of the wall and start to approach women.

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By Chris Tyler

Does Holding Off on Having Sex Really Improve Your Relationship's Long Term Potential?

2009-11-27T21:38:00.003+07:00

Are you skeptical that holding off on having sex will really have any impact on the success of your relationship? Are you quick to jump into a physical relationship only to be left disappointed when things don't work out? When is it the right time to have sex? Holding off on having sex really can strengthen the foundation of your relationship.

There are many reasons that delaying sex is a good idea for both of you. First, it helps you separate the men who are just looking for a fling from the men who have real relationship potential. Having sex too soon tends to cloud your judgment about the man involved. You may overlook things that would normally be a red flag or you may fall into the trap of believing that sex itself will lead to love.

Additionally, delaying sex puts you in a unique category. Men have no problem finding women who are willing to have sex without any strings attached. So when a woman sets boundaries in this area it grabs his attention and fuels his anticipation which then drives him to prove that he is worthy of you. And if you believe that you are worth the wait, most men will too.

So when is the right time?

It's definitely not before he has made an exclusive commitment to you. And you can't make any assumptions here. If he hasn't specifically informed you both verbally and by his actions that he only wants to be with you, then you don't have a commitment. Don't let him slide on this. It's very important that you steak your ground clearly and then stick to it. No doubt it will be hard to do when the chemistry is intense, but it can be done.

Ultimately the decision to hold off on having sex is yours to make. Just be aware of the pros and cons of each choice and make a decision that you are comfortable with rather than allowing pressure from others to dictate your choice for you.

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By Tina L. Jones

Dating Guide - How Do You Do the Best Background Check on Your Dates?

2009-11-24T22:24:00.000+07:00

It is sweet to trust in a dating relationship. It is smart to make sure your trust is deserved. Is your date being honest in the stories they tell you about their past and present life, or are you being conned?

How do you find out if your date is hiding a dark secret or giving you misleading information about their life story?

Before you get involved in a serious relationship with someone you're just getting to know, it is wise to do a background check using the best services available.

How do you find the best background check service?

It is an alarming statistic that out of 100 background check sites you find on the internet, 80 percent of them cannot deliver the background information you request. As consumers complained of being scammed by background check rip-off sites, Consumer-Advice.org decided to help people avoid the rip-off sites and find the most reliable background check services.

Consumer-Advice.org polled 1000 people with complaints or success stories and they did follow-up tests of each site to verify the results. They concluded that not even the best background check sites can provide 100 percent of the information you seek, but the best sites will have 95 percent of the frequently-updated records you need for your investigation.

Based on consumer reports and their in-house research in 50 states, Consumer-Advice.org recommends the 3 best background check sites:

Consumers Top Choice
Net Detective was chosen by the consumers majority as the best resource for in-depth unlimited background checks. Their service features criminal, marital, motor vehicle, and birth records, as well as legal judgments, or information on alimony and child support compliance.

NetDetective has access to credit bureau and financial records that are out on the internet, but usually very hard to find. They provide many resources, ease of use, good customer support and a one time price of $29 for a 3-year membership with a 90 day money-back guarantee.

Second Choice
Instant Background Report came in second in consumer votes. The site provides reports comprised of State Criminal Check, Nationwide Criminal Check, Marital Status,Phone Number(s),Date of Birth, Address History, Neighbors' Names, Neighborhood Info, Alias Names.

The site does not provide information on credit and vehicle records or legal judgments. Instant Background Report membership fee is $29 with a money-back guarantee.

Best Reverse Searches
You may want to search by a specific address, phone number, email address or SSN record to find who is the owner. The Reverse Records site can access owner information, address history, and location details for any phone number. Their database coverage includes cell, toll-free, residential, business, pager and unlisted numbers.

The Reverse Records site only provides basic information on background checks for the same cost, $29, and money-back guarantee of the top two sites.

Whether you meet potential matches on dating sites, through matchmakers or by chance, it is smart to choose one of the best background check sites to help you make sure that your potential relationship partner is someone you can trust.

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AN ISLAMIC PROSPECT OF PERSONALITY

2009-11-22T13:46:00.001+07:00

There are mainly two things which are the basis of a balanced personality in Islam. First it is; to be fearful with Allah and to be fearless with the rest. Secondly; it is to follow the true, accurate and factual Sunnah of the Prophet of Islam (SAW). Allah’s fear is the most prized thing in the human world which determines, explores, illuminates, and builds a true human personality to its greatest extent. It not only helps mankind to explore his own personality rather it leads towards a universal human oneness. A single smallest unit of Allah’s fear is capable to cover all kinds of pain and miseries of our life and can illuminate the true picture of our mind revealing them all in our own personalities.

The people, who have had fear from Allah; in return to that very fear; they definitely gain an unbeaten, brave, fearless, courageous and a victorious wining personality; which never meets sorrow, fear, misery, pain and grief. Allah says that He makes room in all kinds of miseries and pains for whom that fears Him. What is a personality? A true and real personality is the illumination of the ambitions, achievements, goals, emotions of a human being to which he is made for. Else is the distortion, bend and alteration of the personality. Nobody can illuminate his real personality unless he has faith on the Almighty creator of the universe, feels His prominence and is always fearful with Him.

To be fearless for all is one of the main personality traits in Islam. When fears remain, personality collapses. Nobody can imagine a personality which is full of fear. Boldness emerges from the fear of Allah; as and when it enters the heart it kicks out all kinds of fears and phobias. From the first day Islam teaches to be fearless to everybody. It teaches its followers to be bold enough against all the rest than the Creator. Fearlessness and courage is based on the fear of Allah. If someone is not fearful with Allah, he will be fearful to all the rest. Without Allah-fearing mankind is nothing more than an insane. Boldness creates peace and cowardice leads to anxiety. Cowards always live in a constant state of tension which damages their soul and body.

Islam approves boldness, because it brings peace to the human nature. Boldness cannot be attained unless someone has fear for Allah and regards Him as the absolute reason for all kinds of profit and loss. As such a faith prevails is a heart; and someone regards Allah as the absolute reason for all kind of profit, happiness, pleasure, peace and also knows him as the supplier of loss, harms, pains, sadness, and sorrows he comes out from the fear of all creations. They say that Allah’s fear is the source of wisdom. The second basis of an Islamic personality is to follow the true, accurate and factual Sunnah of Prophet of Islam (SAW). As Allah says that the Messengers has been sent for nothing less than to follow them: ? ?? ?????? ?? ???? ??? ????? ???? ???? [I have send messengers for nothing more than to follow them by Allah’s wish].

With the submission of self to the Messenger (SAW) a sober, sound, self esteemed, self- conscience, loving and a gentle personality emerges from the ruins of our behavior and it creates a noble unbeaten psychology of peace into one’s self and for everybody who is eager to join this path of peace. The way or Sunnah of the Messenger (SAW) puts powerful effects on human psych. It makes him bold, faithful, tranquilant, decision making, brave, kind to everyone, and anxiety resistant.

Sunnah personifies a man with good moral habits and makes him free from all kinds of human bondage. A true practice on Sunnah makes a man bold enough to face any kind of unfavorable situation. Whenever he faces hardships or challenges he remains quite, free from all sorts of anxieties and worries. He remains too normal in every uncommon tragic situation. Even he gets free from the worries of everyday life. His heart turns out to be a heart of humanitarian. He seeks pleasure and comfort for everybody. He likes all human being to live in peace.

A true practice of Sunnah amends the self image of a person. It turns a common man to a humanitarian. It throws out the ill feelings of a man. It makes him caring for all, from his relatives to the whole mankind. Sunnah creates depth in the personality. It motivates a man to safeguard others interest. It teaches him to adjust with all the rest. Sunnah is the greatest model for the whole mankind to lean adjustment. Sunnah is the best way of adjustment; approved, accepted and rewarded by Allah. Sunnah brings for everybody the finest way to act or react. It has the best solution for all human problems. Ultimately; Sunnah is the way of life which creates balanced and enlighten personalities in the Society.

So as it was said in the beginning of this article that a model Islamic personality cannot be formed without the two basic things and that is the fearfulness to Allah and acceptance to the Way of Mohammad (SAW). There are more Islamic values that determine an Islamic personality but I have chosen the fear of Allah as the most tremendous value of Islamic faith. Only the fear of Allah can be said to have been the most important thing which leads a man towards righteousness.

I have faith to say that, being a Muslim, if you feel that your personality is not a balanced personality, you let not regard yourself as a satisfied person, if you feel depressed, you have ill feelings, you are ill-contented and are often frightened by your destiny. It is sure that you are lacking such a stage of Faith that you ever have tested before. The answer to all sorts of personality disorders lies in the strong faith on Allah and in the Sunnah of Mohammad (SAW). The fear of Allah is something great that covers all sorts of weaknesses and leads a man towards a perfect, bold, unfolded, self esteemed and fearless personality. It let him feel a sound heart in his body and a sound mind in his head. xxxxxx

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Single Men Looking for Women on the Internet Dating Websites

2009-11-19T23:34:00.001+07:00

Free singles sites are the best manners of finding your companion of heart because you do not pay anything. One recommends to him to employ the completely free sites in line of dating to find the singles women and men on the Internet. The great free services of dating have million people of the country singles so that you choose to leave. You can come into contact with as many women and men like possible. You should not simply send a message to a person. You must send more to obtain more chance. There is no limit of the quantity of you singles can come into contact. Seek just all the only men and women who answer your criteria such as the range of age, education, lifestyle, and other buildings. You should send a message to all the people whom you love. You will on a date on line soon. Good luck!

The unmarried women seeking of the man-in-the-loops to the free services of dating of Internet have just a goal. They want to seek a date on line to share their life with. The romance and love you will find on line is true and faithful. Naturally, there are some rich married men who want just to seek a short-term relationship with singles beautiful young girls. This occurs but seldom. Several of unmarried old women want just to find young men singles to fill their empty hearts. These types of singles are very limited. The majority of them east choose which seek the true love. Where will you seek a free service of dating? You should seek on search engines of Google to find the best sites. The first will of page shows that the popular free sites of dating for you chose.

The men seeking of the women or the women seeking of the men to the free sites of dating become a phenomenon in last years because of this market bursting of Internet. Many great services of dating announced with national televisions find approximately a date on line. Thus, there is no doubt that the dating on line functioned well for thousands of couples in the United States and other countries as well. The dating on line is recreation and cannot be erroneous when thousands of couples and reports/ratios produced of. To date from the online services is a connection between the singles women and men to meet the ones with the others on line. Connected singles is on line a principal task for which the services of dating develop. There is no fee when you employ the completely free sites of dating on the Internet.

Your isolated heart must heat with another singles heart. The best manner of finding for a singles heart is on building sites of dating of Internet. In fact, the singles thousands of men seeking of the women on line to the free sites of dating wait to meet their associates. There is no fee to join the service. It means that the singles men can find women for free or charge. The great manner of finding your companion of life is free Web sites of dating of Internet. You can find the friends or the associates on line on these sites too. There is not a limitation of which you seek. Many people can find new friends, correspondents, and associated activity on the Internet easily. However, the majority of the women seeking of the men are for the report/ratio and the romance.

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Attracting Women - How to Pick Up a Woman

2009-11-06T20:00:00.001+07:00

When you think of a guy that is good at being able to pick up women, what are the usual image that pop into your mind? The classic 1970's swinger or the 21st century PUA (pick up artist) with the flashy clothes and the metro sexual personality? Well, guess what? You don't have to be either one of these kinds of guys in order to pick up women. Attracting women is NOT something that you have to adapt a fake personality to learn how to do. In fact, in most cases, it's much better to be just an average guy that happens to know how to seduce and attract women.

What are some things that you SHOULD know about picking up women?

1. Most women are resistant to ANY man that they think is just out to "hook up." You don't want to give off the impression that you are out to collect phone numbers of women or just to get some random encounter. You want to be able to make the impression that you ARE just a normal guy that happens to be out looking to get to know people.

2. Lines are NEVER the answer. When you try to rely on a classic line to pick up women, you are really just looking for a crutch or a magic bullet. And these kinds of things do not really exist. What you have to be able to do is to learn how to use conversation to build attraction with a woman. This way, you don't ever have to be one of those guys that is guilty of using cheesy lines.

3. You have to be a NATURAL with women. Now, this may not happen overnight. But, when you can appear comfortable and natural around women, no matter how beautiful she might be, your success with women will start to improve.

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How to Talk to Women - Creating Sexual Attraction With Words

2009-11-05T22:54:00.001+07:00

One of the secrets to attracting women is knowing how to talk to women. You don't want to just start any old conversation with a woman IF your goal is to create sexual attraction. You have to learn how to use words that speak to HER emotions. It's not a secret that women are more emotionally driven than men are when it comes to what triggers their attraction.

So, how can YOU create sexual attraction with words? How should you talk to women?

1. Stay away from touchy subjects like politics and religion. Your goal is to build attraction with a woman, not start an argument. You don't want to have a woman hooked on you, only to lose her by talking about the WRONG things. Many men will put their foot in their mouth when they are talking to a woman.

2. You have to be able to tease her in some way. Men that fail to do this, fail to trigger playfulness and chemistry with a woman. You want to keep her on her toes and to feel excitement when she is with you. The worst thing that you can do is to bore a woman to death when it comes to conversation.

3. She has to be moved by YOUR words. If you cannot make her FEEL anything when you are talking to her, it will be hard to create sexual attraction with her. You have to be able to move her emotionally, especially if you want to advance the relationship physically. Being able to talk to a woman is a key to being able to create real and intense chemistry and attraction with her.

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Tips on Dating: 5 Ways to Screw Up Royally

2009-10-31T12:58:00.001+07:00

The moment has finally arrived. That person you wanted to go out with gave you the green light.

Took them long enough. Keep that thought to yourself but it did take them long enough. Nonetheless you were patient and persistent without going overboard; at least that is your story and you are sticking to it. But a few things are clear. The other person is not going out with you because of pity or a desire to get you off their back. They are going out with you because they like you and want to.

Yet sometimes when we humans get exactly what we want, there is a tendency to consciously or sub consciously self sabotage the moment. Or in plain English screw it up royally.

Naturally you want to make a fantastic and lasting impression on the person. The whole aim is make a connection to get more dates and possibly grow a relationship.

However if your goal is to create a lasting impression and not the good kind then try the following.

1. Exaggerate Your Worth

In some countries including this one it is known as lying. And it does not have to be the super duper kind that get your date looking at you funny. Just little shades of gray that do not add up can have the same effect.

2. Did You Mention That...?

Commonly referred to as hogging the conversation. You are excited about the date. Terrific. As a matter of fact you are so excited that you have talked thru the entire date. The evening is over and you do not know anymore about the person than you did before the two of you went out. Oh that's right you do know a couple of things about them. One is they don't talk much. And two they seem to have a lot of tension in their jaw muscles.

3. Your Sphinx Impersonation

Are you happy the person is going out with you? No doubt about it. Except you are not quite conveying it. No you do not dominate the conversation which is good. The problem is you have no conversation; which is not good. No jokes, no topics of discussion and your response to anything your date says is unresponsive. Still it's curious to you as to why they wanted to go home early.

4. Fashionably Late

You are going to wow your date when they first lay eyes on you by dressing to the nines. You look so good that you can't stand it.

Neither can your date because in your quest to knock their socks off, you were late. Very late. No biggie because look at the end result. You look great but you were still not on time and your date is still ticked off about it.

5. You Agree

Your date says their favorite color is blue. Yours too. Your date says their favorite sport is ice hockey. Yours too. Your date says their favorite hobby is to go swimming in the Nile River; upstream. Yours too. In fact you agree to everything they say. This is a clear sign that you are either their long lost twin (in which case you should not be dating) or that you are trying to make such a impression that you are agreeing to just about anything and everything. Not a good idea.

Yes you are excited about this date. You should be. You should also want to make a good impression. No problems there. But if you want the date to end on a sour note with no chance of ever dating this person or any other person successfully by all means follow any or all of the five tips listed above.

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by DARYL CAMPBELL

My Husband Had an Affair and I Don't Think I Can Ever Get Over It - Tips and Advice That May Help

2009-10-29T22:13:00.001+07:00

Almost on a daily basis, I get emails from wives who tell me that they feel pretty sure that they will "never, ever" get over the fact that their husband cheated and had an affair. They may well still love their husbands. They may be 100% committed to keeping their family together and staying in the marriage. But, they have resigned themselves to a life that is not everything that it can be, and to a marriage that is sort of just limping along and going through the motions because the wife can not let herself trust or go "all in" again.

Understandably, she's guarded and she's resentful. Sure, she's making the best of it for the sake of her family, but she doesn't believe that she'll ever be truly happy in her marriage again, and this is mostly because she can't "get over" the affair. I'm about to tell you something that I know from experience. You may not believe me right now, but I hope that you can at least keep this somewhere in the back of your mind. The truth is, you don't need to focus so much on semantics. You may not even "get over" the affair. But, you can create a new marriage that is somewhat separate from this issue. I will discuss this more in the following article.

You Can Make Your Own Rules After The Affair. You Don't Need To Follow Some One Else's Path: I can not tell you how often people write to me and tell me that they're sad to admit that their marriage is doomed after infidelity because they know that they "will never be able to forgive" or just can't see themselves "getting over it." Often they will say this before they've even made a complete attempt to do this. Sometimes, we just take our preconceived notions and hold onto them like a huge crutch.

But, let's say that this is true (even though I believe it rarely is.) Let's say that you can't forgive. Let's say that you're never able to get the affair completely out of your mind. If this is your case, you certainly are not alone. This is true of many people. But, people are able to work around this each and every day. You really can not just proclaim how you are going to feel tomorrow or next year. This is a process. Just because you're unable to forgive right now doesn't mean that you won't see this differently once you've done some things that will help you begin to heal.

Don't get too caught up on what you "should" do or feel. This is not a process that follows along one specific path. The really important thing is that you commit to keep moving forward no matter what is happening around you. So long as you vow that you're not going to let this squeeze out every ounce of happiness that you deserve, you will eventually make it and come to a place where you wake up one morning and know that you are going to be OK. Don't become frustrated if you're not feeling better as soon as you thought you might. This is a very difficult situation. If you are doing the best you can and are focusing on doing just a little bit better each and every day, then you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Why You Can't Just Decide To Get Over The Affair: I often have people tell me "OK, I've made up my mind. I'm going to forgive him. From this point on, I've decided that I'm going to 'get over it.'" Usually, I will hear from these same people a little while later and they feel like failures or they are frustrated because they are regressing back to their old feelings. They wonder why they can not just control their own feelings. They worry that they are doing something wrong or that they are not a good enough person to offer forgiveness.

Few of these things are true. It's just that they're trying to rush the process and they often have not begun to do the work that is necessary to begin the healing process. Many people (myself included) do not understand at first what they are going to need to be able to begin letting go of the anger. Often, you are going to need reassurance that this will not happen again. You will often want to understand what things lead up to this so that you can prevent them. And, you will need to work on your relationship with yourself (to restore your self esteem) and with your spouse so that you are building up the relationship rather than tearing it down.

In this eventual process, you will eventually realize that your relationship with your spouse is stronger partly because your relationship with yourself is stronger. Often, we just need some time to evaluate this when the feelings and emotions are not fresh and spinning out of control. It is usually only at this time are we able to remember the good things that do matter in the end. But, when you're angry, hurt, and betrayed, you're often just not able to see these things.

Don't feel pressured to "get over it" or to forgive if you just are not ready. You will know when you are, if that day comes. Until then, don't be so hard on yourself. Just vow to take care of yourself and to try to evaluate things with an eye toward healing rather than prolonging the hurt. Healing may mean that you decide to be alone or it might now. Whatever you decide, always evaluate things in terms of your own emotional health and what is right for you without apology.

Although it surprised me, what was right for me was sticking around and working things out. But, I worked on myself too and this made a huge difference. Although I never would've believed this two years ago, my marriage is stronger than ever after my husband's affair. It took a lot of work, and I had to play the game to win, but it was worth it. Because of all the work I did on myself, my self esteem is at an all time high. I no longer worry my husband will cheat again. You can read my very personal story on my blog at http://surviving-the-affair.com/

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By Katie Lersch

Three Tips to Find Out Who Your Wife Lover - Is her Cheating?

2009-10-24T08:55:00.001+07:00

One of the most difficult things that a man will ever have to go through is coming to the realization that his wife may be cheating on him. This is something that no man wants to deal with, but if you suspect that your wife is cheating on you, then you must find out who it is. Here are 3 tips that will lead you to the person your wife is cheating on you with.

1. The first thing that you must do is notice any signs that she is displaying. Is she mentioning someone that she works with or socializes with excessively? Obviously you have reasons to believe that your wife is cheating, so just make sure that you pay attention to all the signs, to help narrow your focus as to who the culprit could be.

2. Another thing that you could do is hire a private investigator. This method works well, but can be really expensive and is not always necessary. You may feel the need to keep tabs on your wife, but make sure that you do not stalk her. If she gets the sense that you are always around then she will probably just leave you right then and there.

3. The best method that I have found to bust a cheating spouse is to conduct a reverse cell phone search online.This is a simple, yet extremely effective way to catch a cheating spouse, The reason that it works so well is that you can literally get the first and last name, address, and even a google map the the persons house for each number that appears in her phone.

Using this single method, you will be able to take a huge step in the right direction to find out who your wife is cheating on you with.

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By Halia Pendergrass

Five Sweet Things to Make Her Feel Special and Fall For You Tonight

2009-10-17T14:01:00.001+07:00

We can't help but get a little tongue tied around girls even on a date --- hey, you should be happy and take advantage of this opportunity in any way you can! Dating a girl would be the perfect way for you to get to know each other plus, the flirting fun begins! But wait --- if you want to get a little close for comfort, nothing beats reciting a few sweet lines to make her blush and feel a little giddy inside. So if you're planning to have an all-out romantic night tonight, here are five sweet things to say to girls that will definitely take your relationship on the next level. Here's how:

"I wish you were my girlfriend." A lot of confidence is needed to say this out loud --- and make sure both of you have reached a certain level of comfort for each other that it'll make it sound smoother and more romantic. Of course, you don't blurt this out on your first date together --- she'll definitely flee from you the next minute. So be patient.
"You look real pretty when you smile". Ever wondered what makes a girl go totally weak to her knees? Tell her she looks pretty when she smiles. One of the many soft spots of women is when you compliment them about their good looks --- it's a sure way to make her blush.
"I want to hold your hand." So you're both getting a little flirty and you can practically feel her breathing on your neck --- go ahead and pop the question. Or better yet, gradually inch your hand toward hers and then say that you want to hold her hand. Believe me, 90% of the time, she'll say yes.
"I feel very happy when you're around." Let's say you're almost on that level when you're almost a couple --- this is probably the sweetest thing to say to a girl --- not to mention that this is going to be beautiful start before asking her to be your girlfriend. Hurray!
"I think I'm falling in love with you." Surprises can be romantic and girls love them. Nothing beats drama if you want to keep up with a girl. So catch her off guard by saying this line out of the blue: "I think I'm falling in love." Well, don't expect her to say the very same thing right away. Give her time. But heck, who knows? Maybe she's been waiting for it forever.

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By Mark J Hamilton

How to Tell If a Girl is Interested - Sure Fire Keys Which Will Reveal Whether She is Interested

2009-10-10T23:59:00.000+07:00

By Jason Leading

You can never learn to read a woman. You just can't tell if the girl is into you or not. What kind of game is she playing? Or am I just blind to the signs? Check out these three tips to finally tell if a girl is interested in you.

She's jealous: If you notice she starts tapping her foot rapidly when you take too long on the phone with a woman, then watch out! This girl is totally into you if she seems jealous when you spend too much time on another girl.

Confirm your suspicion by talking about another girl when you're with her. If she starts fidgeting or making a sarcastic remark, she's interested in you. Once you've confirmed it then stop! If you go on and on about the other girl, you'll lose this one.

She's always trying to get your attention: Have you noticed she's always trying to talk to you? Maybe she comes over to your desk at work to show you what she's been working on. Or maybe she calls you up to go for a movie or some coffee.

If the girl is trying to spend more time with you and doing things to attract your attention, she's definitely into you!

She looks at you when you talk: When you are having an interesting conversation and speaking your mind, have you noticed she can't keep her eyes off you? Maybe she's softly gazing into your eyes or staring at your lips.

If her eyes are on your mouth, she is very interested in you. She's attracted to you and won't think twice if you kiss her then and there. If you're not careful, she might just lean in and steal a kiss from you first!

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The Crucial Element in Successful Dating

2009-10-03T22:28:00.001+07:00

"A wise man should not fear losing anything in life if he is able to preserve his peace of mind," taught the Roman philosopher Epictetus two thousand years ago. When you are out there looking for the right person to share your life with, you should remind yourself that maintaining your balance and self-esteem is going to put you way ahead of the game.

When it comes to dating, each of us can easily make a list of unpleasant situations that we would rather avoid in order to keep our tranquillity. For instance, most men and women would consider themselves happier if they could avoid dealing with nasty people altogether. The same preference applies to averting unwanted criticism. Last but not least, wouldn't our days be easier if we never had to comply with silly rules?

The crucial element in successful dating is rational persistence. The question is how we can sustain our motivation long enough to achieve our romantic goals. Indeed, looking for a soul mate would be less complicated if we could keep away all those inconveniences, but let's face the truth, the world is not going to turn into paradise tomorrow morning. Negative personal interactions are particularly aggravating during dating, since love seekers who invest themselves heavily in their search often place their egos in the line of fire.

The good news is that you can minimize your dating annoyances if you grow a thick skin, that is, if you become more philosophical about life. Learn to enhance your psychological resiliency and this knowledge will serve you well for the rest of your life. The techniques are not difficult and you can practice them on your own. During your dating adventures, you will have ample opportunity to test the validity of these theories.

One can only wonder why mental resiliency is rarely taught at school. Every little elephant in the savannah knows how important it is to grow a healthy thick skin for protection against weather inclemencies, viruses, and infections. In the same way, human beings need to develop a sound psychological armour against the inevitable frictions of social life.

Which techniques can you use to build up a psychological protection layer as thick as the rugged skin of an elephant? In the case of dating, my choice of methods would go towards cultivating deliberate slowness and purposeful indifference. Let us see how these two techniques work in practice.

When you meet new people with romantic purposes in mind, some of your new acquaintances will be great, others will leave you cold, and a few will personify everything that you can possibly dislike in a human being. If you are attending a social event or have been invited for dinner by friends, you might not wish to leave right way, but on the other side, you really don't want to drag along all evening in conversation with obnoxious strangers.

In those cases, adopting a strategy of deliberate slowness can work wonders. By the way, this is an approach that you can take to defuse many exacerbating social situations. Deliberate slowness is the ideal defence mechanism on those occasions when someone is verbally distressing you or bothering you at a party.

Should you find yourself in that situation, the perfect way to play is not to get angry. Instead of arguing and reacting with indignation, you can pretend that your brain needs hours to absorb the simplest information and stall. Very often, people will succumb to their own impatience, rate you as a hopeless bore, and leave you in peace.

The second technique, purposeful indifference, requires longer training, but its field of application is much wider. Occasionally, during the dating process, you won't be able to escape nasty, unfair criticism, threats, or warnings, either from friends, family, or strangers. Don't let them ruin your day. Remember that it is great that people are free to express their opinions even if they don't know what they are talking about.

Put on your best poker face, say that you take note of their comments, and walk on. As soon as you are away from the scene, shrug your shoulders and don't let anxiety take control of your mind. Reserve your energies for the next date, where you might meet just the right person for you.

Looking for soul mate is difficult enough. Let us not allow ourselves to be affected by nonsensical remarks from other people. As Epictetus observed in Ancient Rome, "some men find joy in fishing and others in hunting, but for me, there is no greater pleasure than living my days with measure." Take advantage of your dating experiences to develop a thick skin. In addition to facilitating your search for love, you will be making yourself an invaluable present.

JOHN VESPASIAN writes about rational living and is the author of the novel ”When everything fails, try this.” He has resided in New York, Madrid, Paris, and Munich. His stories reflect the values of entrepreneurship, tolerance and self-reliance. See John Vespasian's blog about rational living.

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Dating With Dangerous Consequences - Is She Worth the Risk?

2009-09-25T22:23:00.000+07:00

By Matt D Fuller

Whether it is the boss's daughter, perhaps you (secretly) fancy the girl your friend likes, regardless of the predicament, beautiful women are everywhere you go, with the possibility of dangerous consequences.

Your friend's sister.

Why not to: Blood is much thicker than water, and by going there, you are seriously jeopardizing their relationship that has been established for many years, and there is no guarantee yours will last.

Why you should go for it: If there is mutual attraction and you both have common interests, it's a sound foundation for any relationship, according to Dr Pam Spurr, author of Fabulous Foreplay. "If your friends sister is younger than you, which is normally the case in these situations, there is every chance she has had a secret crush on you".

Are you a bit of a love rat? well you run the risk of your mate becoming protective of his little sis so she doesn't get hurt. You need to prove you're not out to simply put another notch on your belt. You need to prepare your friend by discussing how career focused you are, and indicate that you have the ability to provide for her. Big brothers are typically over protective of their little sisters, so your friend will feel more comfortable if his sister dates someone he knows really well, which is you!

Your child's school teacher.

Why not to: Parent-teacher nights can take the focus off the purpose of the meeting if your child's teacher is giving you bedroom eyes at the same time as assessing your child's report card. The ramifications can be damaging if the teacher is a heavy influence on your child's life, who will suffer if the romance goes sour.

Why you should go for it: If there is some chemistry building between you and the teacher, and you're a single parent, apart from using online dating sites , the opportunity to meet new singles doesn't come up all that often, and given that you have already established common ground, it would be hard to pass up the opportunity.

You only have a few minutes to seize on this window of opportunity, so utilize your speed dating skills after you have been through your child's report card, the fastest way to make an impression - according to Harvard psychologist Dr Zick Rubin, is to "establish 5-6 seconds of eye contact, and to divulge personal information", something really simple like, favorite foods or recreational/exercise habits.

The boss's daughter - tread very carefully with this one!

Why not to: Your boss controls your finances and could make your life very uncomfortable both financially and during work. Undressing your boss's daughter with your eyes is one sure way not to get a pay rise.

Why you should go there:

It pretty much goes without saying that she is off limits, many will look, but touching is risky. She holds power by affiliation, and bedding powerful women is high up on the list of 'must do's' for sexually active men. You can count on the fact that most of your competition will be too scared to go there, so you will have a clear and unchallenged run, and she will appreciate your audacity and risk taking - best of luck with your new father in law.

Matt Fuller is a full time online dating webmaster and author of Free online dating sites Australia. Meet new and exciting people online @ Free singles chat rooms. Visit us today and get all the latest tips when it comes to online dating.

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How to Be a Girl Magnet - Be the Guy Every Girl Desperately Wants to Be With

2009-09-17T23:02:00.001+07:00

By Jason Leading

What is a girl magnet? In the very basic of terms, a girl magnet is a guy who is capable of naturally drawing women towards him. A girl magnet can attract any girl he's into, and make her fall for him without so much an effort. In a world where girls get to choose and never have to make a move, and guys have to be under the pressure of trying, and being rejected, it is every man's dream to just be a babe magnet by not doing anything out of this world. You can actually be irresistible to women with three simple things.

The right scent. When a girl smells nice, she makes people sniff in admiration. It's the same thing for men. Apart from meticulous hygiene, a guy who wants to get girls without the effort must smell sexy. A shower and clean clothes are staples. Then choose a scent that you can identify with. Scents with hints of spice are for the sophisticated man. Sporty scents are for the athletic and the go-getter. You can choose mild, natural, fresh scents for an everyday spritz. Be careful not be spray too much as you might be sending the ladies away instead of drawing them closer.

The right attitude. A man's self-confidence is irresistibly sexy. Do this little trick when talking to women. Lean back, look right into their eyes and smile. This projects positivity and tells the girl you know your stuff, and you're not rushing into anything serious. Smiling means you're approachable. A straight stare lock with a girl tells her you are sincere. Leaning back and not getting too close implies you're not desperate and there's more to you, and she has to work for it if she wants to get to know you. If you've got her on a hook, she most definitely will.

The right luck. Finally, stop comparing yourself to other men who can make girls swoon when they walk by. When your insecurities get the best of you, just think that these men have just had better luck than you have. One of these days, with the right attitude, and some sexy after-shave, you will have your right stroke of luck.

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5 Types of Flirt Signals to Decode Her Body Language

2009-09-14T22:04:00.001+07:00

If you want to know if a woman is flirting with you and if you want to know how lucky and how deep you are in this game of flirting then it is time that you sat back and read this piece. Here I have brought together 5 types of flirt signals that any woman would give out and this will help you decode her body language.

• When a woman is flirting with you, you will notice that most of her remarks would not be directed at anybody in general in the crowd. Her gaze will be on you, a smile will light her face and the remark would be more of a challenge that is being stated to your face.

• If a woman is flirting with you she will be very subtle about it. It will look like she has been in the game for a very long time and that she has mastered the art of flirting.

• Women who flirt will also tend to toy with something or the other. They will have a compulsive need to keep their fingers occupied when they flirt with you. It could be a stirrer, a pen or even your fingers.

• You can easily detect if a woman is flirting with you by the way she moves around you. If she is very relaxed but seemingly in control of the direction in which the conversation is headed, then she is outrageously flirting.

• The most outright flirting signal a woman could employ is to ask you out straight! She could ask you out for dinner, a cup of coffee or even a night cap at her place.

Now, memorize these signals and remember them the next time a woman talks to you. Now even you will be able to differentiate a flirt form a normal conversation and avoid undesirable endings!

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Stop Your Divorce! 3 Amazing Tips on How You Can Stop a Divorce and Live a 2nd Honeymoon! By Juliette Christian

2009-09-12T22:28:00.001+07:00

So, you think your marriage is heading towards the dreadful end - but you want to stop your divorce. How to do that when everything seems hopeless? I was in your shoes a while ago. I thought I had tried everything I could, but still nothing changed. I couldn't move my spouse an inch - everything seemed hopeless. But I was taught to do the right things afterwards and stop my divorce from happening. So here are some very important tips:

1. Be Inaccessible: I know that you are either thinking of begging to your spouse for your marriage, or you have already done that. Whatever the case, you should AVOID doing that at all costs. Why? Simple - it's because people always want what they can't have. When you're begging your spouse, you're actually screaming "I am easy to have!!" and this works against you. Cut this out, and make that principle work for our advantage instead of your disadvantage.

2. Be Absent: This goes hand in hand with the first one. Do not be in front of your spouse's eyes all the time - your spouse is already fed up with you and your marriage. Do not move out of course, but just don't be in front of your spouse the whole day. In Sundays for example, you might consider getting out of your home in the morning and not come till it's late in the evening.

3. Outside Advice: Begging is the wrong thing but I know it's tempting. It's because of your mental state - it will make you do the wrong things all the time. So if you want to stop your divorce, the best step to take is to acknowledge that your own emotions take you nowhere, and ask for some outside advice. It is how I stopped my divorce!

My marriage was failing on every aspect - it was such a troubled marriage that I thought there was no hope.

Yet, now I am still with my husband and I have saved my marriage. Click here to visit my website and see what I did!

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Here is How to Get Your Ex Back Within a Week! You Most Definitely Don't Want to Miss This at All By Rahul Talwar

2009-09-10T21:20:00.000+07:00

So you just cried your recent bucket of tears! You faced the worst nightmare you never expected to happen to your relationship - breakup. Even if you were the one who decided to let go, you soon realized that the decision you made was the worst you had. So you are currently plotting a very important and perhaps complicated plan to win that special person back. So how do you proceed with the plan? Here are extremely effective tips that you should include and perhaps replace other means that you have already set to win your ex back before the calendar sets on the 15 day of the month.

- Absolutely refrain from digging around the past and flaunting it to your ex - open the lines of communication but do not cut nor spoil the thin thread by bringing up old wounds. Also it is not fruitful to constantly brag your ex to come back to you with all those pitiful and conscientious statements. These will only push then farther away from you.

- Do not make promises - in as much as you want to reassure your ex that you will transform your old ways for the betterment of your relationship should your former partner be convinced to go back to you, making all those promises will only spoil the whole thing. Instead of broadcasting it, keep it to your heart and mind and make sure to fulfill it in the best way you can. In this way, your partner will not be frustrated if you can not perfectly avoid old mistakes because you simply did not make a verbal promise.

- Heal your wounds first - before convincing your ex to turn back to you, be emotionally stable first. You have to get out of the depressed state and start anew. If you look so down and uncollected, your ex will find a hard time deciphering whether what state you are currently in. Because you are not stable it is likely that he/she will not be enticed to come back to you.

So if you want to win your ex back heal your wounds first and don't nag about what happened with your recent relationship.

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Dating Tips For Baby Boomers

2009-09-09T23:48:00.001+07:00

If you're reading this you are probably in your late forties or fifties and considering a new partner. The reasons why are not important, what is important is how you approach dating again.

For many over forties re-entering the dating arena is scary. What we took as common place in our teens and twenties just doesn't hold in today's society and it's wise to take precautions. Here are a few handy tips.

Tip One: Where to find the right match.

There are a myriad of dating sites but they come with their own problems. Not everyone online is honest about their intentions and, if you're new to online dating you can easily fall prey to those who may not have your best interests at heart.

Look at your current social circle including family and ask yourself if they could introduce you to people - even just friends. Networking works and with today's social media like twitter and blogs you could soon find yourself connecting with strong possibles.

Tip Two: Define what you want.

Do you really know what you're looking for? Take time out and write down five of the characteristics you need most in your next partner like kindness, financially stable, mature. Each time you make a connection refer to your list and if the date doesn't fit, move on.

Tip Three: Stop wasting time.

We've all read the book or seen the movie 'He's just not that into you." Recognise the signs and move on. The longer you have 'flotsam' in your life, the more tied down you are and the harder it is to find the right partner.

You could trip over the perfect partner but not be in a position to get to know them if you're still hanging on to the wrong one for fear of being alone or simply because the devil you know may be better than the one you don't. Move on!

Tip Four: Be Honest.

Being honest about who you want in your life means being honest with yourself as well as others. Don't let friends badger you into dating someone you know isn't your type. Don't be afraid to excuse yourself during a date if the situation is awkward or uncomfortable, there is a polite way out of it.

If you're online make your profile as honest as possible but be careful of what you say. If you do meet someone you like let them know that you are seeking a meaningful relationship. Be honest in your appearance by putting truthful images online and dressing as you normally would. A visual lie will catch you out instantly and create upset. Honesty expects respect.

Tip Five: Have a back up plan.

In any situation request a visual meeting. No one can tell what a person is like just from a picture or a quick telephone conversation. Avoid text messages and emails as they are the easiest places to hide your true self. Meet, and quickly.

Arrange a short meeting first and be sure to advise the other party that you have exactly ten or thirty minutes - just enough time to form a true impression. You can always arrange another meeting and anticipation is good.

Ask a friend to phone on your mobile after ten minutes so that you have an out. You can always ask them to call back later if you're enjoying yourself.

Tip Six: Re- evaluate.

After a few different dates take time to evaluate those people you've met and see if they uphold the five important values you assigned to your perfect partner. If they only matched up to some then agree to see them again to see if there are others on the list you didn't notice.

If they don't match up to any then scratch them off your list totally.

If they match up to all of them then let them know you are looking for a long term relationship with someone like them but don't be over pushy or you could spoil it. Just be honest. If they feel the same way, they'll respect that and move forward with you to accomplish it.

Tip Seven: Watch out for abusers.

There are always those who abuse systems like online dating and take advantage of people who are serious about seeking a long term partner. Be aware of this and try to pace your dating and date more than one potential partner to start with.

Dating isn't having sex. It's having fun and getting to know someone. Meetings can be short and engaging without getting physical. Physicality lowers our survival instincts and sends mixed messages. Wait before you get physical, you can show interest in many other ways.

Tip Eight: Listen to your friends and family.

If you believe you have connected with a good potential partner take them to meet friends or family. Engineer a meeting where they feel comfortable and where your friends and family can see them in a social environment.

Whether we like it or not, friends and family often see a side to someone that we don't when we are enamoured.

Tip Nine: Keep the children out of it.

As an over forty you may well have children. Consider their feelings when you start dating again and, whilst they be aware you are dating, keep them away from all dates until you are certain you are entering a strong relationship.

Children become attached very quickly to single parents new partners and this can be damaging if the relationship ends quickly after starting. Introduce a new date as a friend but preferably keep them away from your home life until you are sure things are going well enough for it to warrant an introduction to your children.

Tip Ten: Have Fun!

Whilst dating is not a scientific experiment our world has ensured that we need help to meet the right people. It's not as easy as in our twenties. We don't go clubbing, bar hopping or partying at this age so alternatives are necessary.

Make it fun for yourself. Join in activities that you'd do anyway like hiking, yoga, dancing, DIYing, racing, horse riding. It makes sense that you'll find like minded people doing things that you like within the boundaries that you set. Above all, have fun!

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By Jane Van Velsen

Spiritual Discernment - Miracles or Deceptions?

2009-09-08T21:23:00.001+07:00

Many people are fascinated with the supernatural, and drawn to miracles to provide a quick solution to problems or crises. Inspirational and influential religious leaders abound with claims of healing and deliverance, and multitudes follow without understanding the dangers. Claims of miracles and other supernatural phenomena are growing widely in many different religions and cultures. Also, we have entered an age where people seldom acknowledge any objective standard of truth, and the vast majority believes absolute truth does not exist at all.

Most of us are aware of cults and individuals who have given themselves over to following a belief system that sounds glorious on the surface, but where the surprise outcome for followers is disillusionment, despair, and destruction. Unfortunately, many religious leaders are secretly motivated by money and power instead of the well-being of their followers, and use every means available to entice the unwary. Today, we must become spiritually mature enough to discern truth for ourselves, and not blindly trust in religious leaders. The spiritual health of us and our families is primarily our own responsibility, not our church or pastor.

Spiritual deception is much more effective using candy-coated but poisonous half-truths to destroy people from within rather than outward attacks, since such insidious attacks go largely undetected. The antidote to this deception lies within the Christian Bible, which indicates that miracles will be the greatest form of deception in the last days before the personal return of Christ, and that these miracles will eventually lead many to unwittingly worship a counterfeit Messiah known as the Antichrist. Right now, the world is being prepared for his reign by a focus on spiritual experiences, and miraculous signs in particular, both within the Christian church and in other religions. These signs will continue to increase in scope and power as Christ's return approaches.

According to Christ Himself, multitudes of people and institutions believe they are following Christ, and doing good religious works in His name, but they are in fact deceived, and were never known by Him. For multitudes, miracles will be the Pied Piper that unwittingly leads them to eternal separation from God, so it is vital to understand how to avoid spiritual deception in this area. With no standard of truth, and the enticement of exciting and seemingly good experiences, how can one distinguish between genuine works of God, supernatural signs and wonders of occult or demonic forces, and faked miracles via men’s sleight of hand?

It is essential to recognize and avoid spiritual deception. There are numerous sources of information about miracles from religions and men, but the authoritative source of truth is found in the Bible. To avoid deception when looking at our experiences and information about miracles, be sure to rely on sources that align their beliefs and experiences with God's standard of truth.

About the Author:

Rory Roybal is the author of Miracles or Magic?, and has over 10 years of experience leading church and home Bible studies. He has more than 15 years of executive management experience, leading groups of up to 400 people and $33M+ technical business units. Rory has been featured on the cover of VB Tech Journal and served as editor-in-chief for the Unix System Price/Performance Guide.

More information on Miracles or Magic? is available on the book website http://www.miraclesormagic.com, complete with in-depth webcasts/MP3's Discerning the Works of God in Today's World, with Dr. Noah Hutchings and All About Miracles, with Dr. Theresa Veach !

by RORY ROYBAL

Amazingly Effective Tricks to Get Your Ex Back!

2009-09-07T23:14:00.002+07:00

You Don't Want to Miss This at Any Possible Cost

Breakups are just bumps along the way to a stronger relationship and can be easily dealt with. As a matter of fact, some say that most breakups are healthy for couples, as long as it is properly handled. In order for you to accomplish this, check out these tips.

Have a Positive Outlook - Decide with all conviction that the reason as to why you want him/her back is because you deeply care about that person and you want to share the rest of your life with him/her. Let your ex know about your good intentions and he/she will surely realize your importance and get back with you.

Be Real - Be the real you and not someone else. Keep in mind that the person you are confronting is someone who has been with you and knows a thing or two about you. Your ex can tell if you are telling the truth or just yanking his/her chain.

Take your Time - The wounds one acquires from a breakup can be healed through time. Both of you most probably have had a share of pains that are caused by one another, so just take your time and wait for them to subside. With this, you will see that it is easier to talk and get back with someone whom you do not have any frustration or anger with. Give yourselves time and respect each other's space.

Walk. Do Not Run - When you are traveling the road to recovery, take it one step at a time. Never go in too abruptly and strong for it might frighten your ex away. Again, just remain calm and just be you. Try to do the things you normally do prior to the breakup; things that you know he/she likes. This can be a great way to start a new relationship with him/her.

Make Your Ex Return Your Phone Calls! You Don't Want to Miss This

Picture this - you are already drowning in your own tears and hurting from the pain, and to make matters worst, your ex does not even bother returning your calls. Sounds pretty cruel, right? Then again, maybe you are just thinking too much, or maybe he/she is just taking his/her time to contemplate on things and is trying to straighten his/her life a bit. Whatever the reasons, you can try out some of these tips so you can have your ex holler back at you. Read on.

Ready a Plan - One thing you can try is to trick your ex boyfriend or girlfriend to return your calls. With this, you will need an action plan up and running. Remember though that whatever your plan is, avoid sounding too desperate for your ex will surely not answer back. He/she will most likely ignore you more if you sounded too needy. Just make the trick as believable as possible.

Get Your Ex Curious - Make out something that will arouse your ex's curiosity. What do you think makes a person get back to another person - Perhaps, an emergency? Remember to avoid those overused excuses. You of all people should know this because you have been a part of his/her life for a long time. Start your message with statements that you know will grab his/her curiosity so that he/she listen to the entire message.

Motivate your Ex - Look for ways that will make your ex feel that he/she needs you, rather than the other way around. Thank your ex for the little things that he/she does and your ex will surely die just to know what it is that you are thanking him/her for.

The Follow-up Game - Now that you have your ex calling you back, ask him/her if they could follow-up on you just so they could be updated regarding your state. You will definitely be rewarded with a call from your ex every now and then.

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By Rahul Talwar

How to Make Any Girl Like You Within Seconds? You Will Become the Ultimate Ladies Man From Now

2009-09-06T20:24:00.000+07:00

Keep this in mind - girls do not just rely completely on the guy's looks. For you to be attractive, you also need to have the brains and a good personality. Having lots of money and being able to take her to fancy restaurants or a luxurious hotel is also no assurance that all girls would like and want to go out with you. Just being able to take her to some place decent is already enough to earn her respect. Here are six more tips that can help you make any girl you want to like you - fast!

1. Develop your Personality - Girls really like passionate guys and also someone who can make them laugh. Try to work out on being a cheerful and humorous person. Just remember never to be shallow and too frivolous.

2. Be Trustworthy - Being reliable and dependable will always be attractive to girls. If you happen to be working in the same vicinity as she is, make this known by always being there.

3. Be Considerate - If you are a thoughtful and considerate person, the chances of girls wanting to be with you is very likely because they want someone who they know they can be comfortable with.

4. Have a Shaped Mind and Body - Take proper care of your personality and of your physique. Be concerned about your well being; keep your body in good shape.

5. Be Fashion-Sensitive - Dressing up is not just for girls nor does this make you look gay. Always look well-groomed and clean. This also does not mean that you only have to wear clothes that are expensive and branded. Just be neat.

6. Be Chivalrous - Girls really dig a true gentleman. Always treat a woman with the respect that she deserves and you will be a true ladies-man in no time.

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By Jason Leading

How to Get My Ex Husband Back After Cheating

2009-09-05T22:31:00.001+07:00

You couldn't believe it when your husband walked out on you could you? You never, even in your wildest dreams imagined that he could be so nasty to you.

Come of the things he said still hurt you and it's been months since that fateful day. But let us accept the simple fact that yes it did happen.

Learning to accept the fact that your husband walked out on you is very important. But then, if you want him back badly, if you decide that you love him enough to risk going through all this pain again, then here are five pointers which will help you snag him once again!

• Clear your head. Get out of the depression. These negative thoughts cloud your mind and you aren't able to think straight. As a result of this, you end up looking stupid. Stop wallowing in your misery and get back to normal life.

• Accept that your relationship with your ex-husband, in its previous form is over. I can sense you violently disagreeing to this statement, but it is very necessary to accept this fact. Moreover, with time, you will understand that your previous relationship wasn't perfect anyway, that is the basic reason why he walked out on you.

• Do not call, text or email him umpteen number of times. Respect his privacy and give him his space. Maybe all you two needed were some time apart! So do not cry on the phone or show up at his doorstep in tears. It'll only drive you two further apart.

• Get a make-over. Many people tend to neglect themselves once they get married to each other. This is a huge mistake. You need to look good to feel good about yourself, you need to boost your damaged self-esteem! On the upside you'll be looking like a million bucks the next time you see your man.

• You can "accidentally" bump into him in a public place or get your mutual friends to call both of you over to their house for dinner or something. But take it slow and when you meet him, keep your physical; contact to a minimum.

Drop subtle hints about the good times you've shared and make sure you let him know that you are living a normal life and are not suffering from depression. This will get him thinking and ultimately back into your arms!

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By Ricky Lim

How to Know If Your Spouse is Seeing Someone Else - Sure Shot Tricks Which Always Work

2009-09-05T00:11:00.000+07:00

Do you think that there is something wrong with your marriage? Instances when you realize that your spouse is spending so much time away from you without even bothering to check if you are okay may sound the alarms that he/she is seeing someone new. To settle the doubts, you need to take action and verify whether he/she is seeing someone new or not. With that in mind, here are ways for you to find out if your spouse is seeing someone else.

Check your spouse's car. Some of the action that your spouse is having with his/her lover may be happening in the car. Therefore, it is the one of the best places to look for evidence that your spouse is cheating. Inspect for hair strands that are not yours, check the glove compartment for suspicious items and receipts, and check the trunk for stashed clothing. You can also check the seats for suspicious stains.

Follow your spouse. If your spouse tells you that he/she will go on another business trip again, secretly follow him/her to verify if he/she is making things up or telling the truth. Have a close friend join you for support and to serve as your witness.

Take a peek on your spouse's credit card statements. Look for information that can give your spouse away in terms of expenses that you do not even know about. Look for information indicating that money was spent on gifts, hotel or motel bills, restaurants, flowers, or vacations that do not concern you.

A change in behavior and attitude. There are cheating spouses who display significant changes in their behavior. He/she may act aloof or cold towards you but there are those who will act overly generous and attentive to avoid suspicion. Be wary of these changes and treat them as signs that he/she is hiding something from you.

An Extremely Effective Way To Track A Cheating Spouse- There is an extremely effective trick which will help you spot a cheating spouse within seconds...No matter how sneaky your spouse is...He/she definitely can't fool you when you use this trick. I strongly urge you to follow the instructions on the next page right away- Click Here.

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By Jason Leading Platinum Quality Author

Of Love, Marriage, Magic, And Music - And Money Making, Too

2009-09-03T23:19:00.002+07:00

Although more than fifty years have gone by, the magic moment that Mary Patricia came into my life is as fresh as the morning dew, as clear as spring water, and yet just as warm as a mild fever.

In my freshman year at Columbia College, with the pressures of final exams upon me, as I looked for a secluded spot to study I found myself in Avery Hall, where the music practice rooms were located. Mozart's magical music flowed from one of the rooms; it was the adagio of Piano Sonata No. 12.

Of course I learned that bit of information much later, since in those years I had no idea who Mozart was. Noticing that the pianist was repeating the adagio over and over I sat on the floor right outside the door and listened to it. Two hours later, the budding and determined concert pianist stepped around me, for I was glued to the spot, and gave me a quizzical look.

"I didn't want to disturb you," I said. "What is the name of that song you played for two hours?"

"It's not a song, and you've been here two hours?"

Oh, heavenly bliss! Her voice was even sweeter than the music I had just heard. My musical ignorance, my heavy Spanish accent, and my less than imposing appearance gained her trust, for from that magic moment on Mary Patricia and I became inseparable lifetime sojourners.

Today as we enjoy our golden years, three children on their own, and two grandchildren to lavish love and gifts on, I feel that --free will notwithstanding- the touch of an angel nudges us humans in different directions. When Mary Patricia and I discuss the statistics that more than half of the people who get married end up divorcing, we are seized with infinite sadness.

I cannot imagine for one second life without my beloved partner.

This is a story narrated in first person voice, so I cannot tell you about other people's feelings, thoughts, and attitudes toward life are. What follows are some of the canons that have guided my life in my marriage.

Because Mary Patricia likes to eat fruit every day, I made it a point to always bring home an apple, bananas, grapes, or cantaloupes. Of course I knew she went to the market and picked her own fruit. My gesture, though, was more spiritual than nutritional-never come home empty handed.

Early in our marriage I learned that Mary Patricia wished to be consulted in all my decisions, no matter how petty or insignificant. So, I made the promise to myself that not only would I consult with her, but I would over consult.

Over consult I did. Except for that one time when I impulsively bought her a second piano. Not that she wasn't appreciative, but she let me know that had she been consulted she would have told me that she was pregnant with our third child and that it was time to save rather than to spend.

"With three children to support and put through Barnard College, you need to earn more money," she said.

Having already two girls, she was looking forward to a third one. "Why not Columbia College?" I asked, sounding like the ever macho-man from South America.

At that point in my career (30 years ago) I had been promoted to corporate controller and was earning a little under $100,000 a year. To my accountant's mind, that was a pretty good darn amount. And I considered myself a good provider. Yet hubris overcame my good sense and for a couple of weeks I chewed on the cud of resentment at the implication that I wasn't earning enough money.

Then one good day, Mary Patricia noticing my moodiness, said, "Money making will come easily to you when you think of those about you-not yourself. If I can see that you can, too."

That did it! I had been thinking of my own wonderful self and not of my loved ones. So I told Mary Patricia I would give up my job and I would become an investment banker. Without hesitation she agreed. That same day she went to the Coliseum Bookstore (Columbus Circle, long gone by now) and purchased all the necessary textbooks for me to study and pass the registered representative exams.

That evening she handed me the books and I handed her a colorful dish of juicy, sweet, diced cantaloupe, honey dew, and water melon--all laced with Merlot. To cap the evening she played for me the Mozart's adagio that had sent chills up my spine that fated day when I saw her for the first time. What did I see in her? Did I see the face of an angel, or the face of my mother whom I had left behind to come to this country? God only knows. If every man has an ideal image of a perfect woman, Mary Patricia was and is my "imago."

Today Mary Patricia no longer plays the piano, for her arthritis has invaded her legs and arms.

The good Lord smiled on me and made me an even bigger provider, for my career blossomed and I retired a wealthy investment banker. We've sent our children to Ivy schools, have college funds for the grandchildren, and we live in a grand neighborhood with fine neighbors. Mary Patricia --a child of an old patrician wasp family from Boston-- reassures me that she married up when she married me - "a poor immigrant boy from the Andes."

Last Sunday after church we went to the street fair on Madison Avenue, not far from where we live on Park Avenue. To tell the truth, I can't think of a better way to spend a glorious afternoon in New York City than at a street fair.

And I pushed Mary Patricia's wheel chair the whole length of the fair-all twenty blocks.

Retired. Former investment banker, Columbia University-educated, Vietnam Vet (67-68). For the writing techniques I use, see Mary Duffy's e-book: Sentence Openers. To read my book reviews of the Classics visit my blog: Writing To Live

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Can Your Marriage Last Through an Affair? - Ways to Help Save Your Marriage

2009-09-02T22:48:00.000+07:00

Sometimes couples can find them selves asking each other "can our marriage last through an affair?" And there are times that this question can be to answer. There are so many factors that are involved in determining if a marriage can continue when an cheating has caused waves within a relationship. It really depends on the couple and the reasons that caused the cheating. Did the husband go outside the marriage to look for a new sexual partner? Or did the wife start with holding intimate favors because of a sickness or out of spite for her partner. Or maybe the husband started cheating because the wife was weak, in mental anguish and was looking for something that her spouse could not provide her a warm shoulder to cry on.

When it comes down to the health of a marriage, it does not matter if one of the spouse did cheat, economic woos or just plain discontent for each other. Every marriage can be fixed if both partners are willing to start the rebuilding process of their marriage.

Here are a some things you can use to help you rebuild your relationship with your spouse.

• Begin talking with your partner. Take a seat and start a dialog about the situation. Take turns talking by using a stop watch. If it is your turn to lend an ear and listen, do just that. Do not interrupt in on the conversation to correct your partner. Let them vent everything out that they need to. Then you will get your turn after the time is up. Keep the conversation easy going and calm. There will be no finger pointing. Spend this time to try to identify why your husband had the affair and how the two of you can make sure that it will stay in the past and not happen again.

• Forgive your husband. This is the most difficult part of the process, but it is the most crucial thing to do. How is your relationship going to be able to continue if there is no closure? Forgiveness can happen without putting your trust on the line. Simply acknowledge that you have an understanding why the cheating happened and that you forgive your husband. Your trust will need to be earned back over a period of time.

• Get back the love again. Now this can be where the process gets fun. Get out of the house on dates and learn why you both feel in love in the first place. Remember that you are both human beings and we all need some time to reconnect with your husband. Work together to obtain that glimmer that the two of you once had for each other when you first met.

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By Douglas Quinn

How to Avoid Premature Ejaculation - 3 Tips That Really Work

2009-09-01T22:36:00.000+07:00

Every man would like to last just a little bit longer in bed. Premature ejaculation is a slightly embarrasing problem that men face. When you know it's over after only a few minutes you feel how shameful it can be. Even if the woman your with tried to console you, there's nothing she can do. Fortunately, I have 3 great solutions to help you last longer in bed.

Stop - Go Method

Nothing is simpler than the stop - go method. During love making, all you have to do is stop when you feel the need to ejaculate. At first it can be very frustrating so keep practicing. There are some times when you will finish even if you don't want to. This is a common occurrence, but it should not bring you down.

Practice

When you masturbate, don't just do it for the pleasure, start masturbating to improve your sex life. Try to finish as quickly as possible, but hold back the ejaculation as many times as you can in a single sitting. This will work to strengthen your resolve. Also, you could try to put an extra large amount of pressure on your penis. This will reduce sensitivity and help you last longer.

Open Communication

I know talking about the problem with your lover is hard, but if it really bothers you she won't mind. Tell her that you need to stop every few minutes. Woman don't know how sensitive your penis is to ejaculating. Some men who want to try to stop - go method will fail because the woman tells them to keep going faster. This is something you want to avoid. You can pleasure a woman just as well with slow sensual intercourse. Once you've lost some sensitivity you can speed up.

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By George Christodoulou

How to Know If You're in an Abusive Relationship

2009-08-31T22:43:00.000+07:00

You may be in an abusive relationship and you don't know it. Many people are in one especially women and children. Very few voice out when something is wrong with their partner. As terrible as it is, one stays in such a situation for the fear of losing support from the partner.

Abuse is in different forms. Here is how to know if you're in an abusive relationship.

• One of the signs of abuse is when you give up on what you enjoy doing in order to please your partner. Unfortunately, most women think they have to submit to a man. The moment you start doing things so that the other one doesn't get upset with you, there's a problem. You'll then get frustrated and eventually lose interest in the relationship.

• Do you find yourself lying about your partner's behavior? Does he beat you or throw things at you when he's angry and all you do is keep quiet? I did that for many years. It is hard to get help because you want people to think you've a perfect relationship and everything is fine. Just ask yourself how long you'll go on like that. When this happens, seek help immediately. The earlier you deal with the problem the better.

• I don't know about you, but I find it very unfair when you can't express your opinion to your partner. You can't sit and talk about anything. All the decisions are made by one person. I understand that certain decisions can be made by the man but even then you both have to agree.

• Jealousy and possessiveness. You should know when this is acceptable and when it is not. A jealous man will make you feel like you're in jail because your privacy will soon be invaded. Jealousy becomes a problem when you're not allowed to see your friends, relatives or go out by yourself. Take nothing lightly.

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Agness mumbi has been an author and entrepreneur for the past 5 years. She is interested in relationship issues and has used her experience to help others live life to the full. Visit her blog and learn more about relationships at 4realladiesblog.com

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By Agness Mumbi

Seduce Asian Girls - What's The First Step?

2009-08-29T20:08:00.000+07:00

What is the most direct way to get an Asian girlfriend? The first thing to do is you have to get out there and meet Asian women. Initially you need to get yourself prepared mentally and emotionally. You have to work on your inner game so you don't let any opportunities pass you by.

Say you're going about your business and you suddenly run across a cute Asian girl, what runs though your mind? Do you think about how she looks and what you would like to do with her? And then what's the next thing that occurs to you? Maybe something like, she's easy on the eyes, but I'll never be with her because... Do all these excuses and barriers come up at once that's holding you back? And maybe she notices you checking her out, but because you nervously hesitate because you can't get up the courage to do anything on the spot, she can sense all that with just a glance so that as her initial curiosity passes, she ignores you. The moment passes and the window of opportunity has closed for you to get to know how to seduce Asian girls. Timing is everything. When you watch her walk away, do you feel like kicking yourself for not at least trying?

So the first step in learning how to seduce Asian girls involves not letting your self-doubt and fear of rejection get the best of you before you even make your approach. Consider it practice, a necessary investment of a few moments. Just move on, find a way in your mind to make it fun. The more you do it, the easier it becomes it, to where anything that happens is like water off a duck's back. You're not afraid any more - you just don't care. Because every time you face the situation head on, you build your confidence for the next time. After while you say to yourself, I've done this all before, it's no big deal. It's what I have to do to get to know how to seduce Asian girls. If I don't click this time, they'll be always others and I got to chat with that fine Asian babe.

Everything in your life depends on the story you tell yourself. Whenever you hear that voice in your head telling you why you shouldn't talk to her, take a moment to remember when something has gone right for you with absolutely no stress or strain on your part. Or think about what you could gain, what your rewards could be. (If you have ever made love to an Asian girl, you know what I'm talking about. That makes it all worth it to educate yourself on how to seduce Asian girls.)

On the other end of this motivational model's pleasure or pain spectrum, you could tell yourself what you could be missing out on - do you really want to go through life being a wimp? Do you want to continue to be a loser when it comes to having what you say you really want, to achieving your deepest desires by taking the steps to get to know how to seduce Asian girls? What is separating you from your fantasy? Are you going to let what pops in your head or what people around you say or what you think society expects from you stop you or hold you back? How bad do you want it? Because when you get it, no matter what happens in the long run, you'll always remember it. Are you willing to do what it takes to learn how to seduce Asian girls?

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By Biffrod Ginsenguy

How You Can Get Over Insecurity In Relationships

2009-08-28T22:05:00.001+07:00

How can you overcome insecurity in relationships?

Having insecurity in relationships is zilch to laugh about. Almost always, it comes as the result of heartbreak. If your heart has been broken ( whose heart hasn't, really? ) or is broken now, you know exactly what I mean. Besides the depression, all kinds of negative feelings pile up on an already stressed body.

At about that point, you are so unfocused on the positive and so concentrated on the negative that it's a wonder you can function in any way. You go against the Law of Attraction that states that you get what you focus upon. That implies that instead of being relieved from your agony, you are getting even more of it.

Never you worry, though. The Universe is very forgiving and always claims YES to you. So, no earlier you shift your focus, your fact will shift as well, from the negative, to the positive.

There are 3 steps to take to begin your journey to recovery from insecurity in relationships

1.Grieve

Grieving straight after your heartbreak is the only way to go. Don't put off this important step. The more you take to do it, the longer it'll take you to fix. Dive head on.

You are not just grieving for your lost love or lover. You are mourning for your loss of trust - before you can heal from insecurity in relationships, you must first accept that it exists at all!

Go deep into your wound. Cry, scream, punch your pillow, kick rocks, go to your underworld if you must ( just like Orpheus ). Face the darkness. Do what you need to do without pretences. You must be true to your hurt, to your emotions. Your acceptance that you are hurt is your biggest step for your true healing. You will come back from it a much stronger person and ready for the second step.

two. Plan

To recover from insecurity in relationships you want to go on a journey, your healing journey. And like with any journey, you need to plan. You don't go on a trip without knowing what's going to occur beforehand, do you? Even if you are following folks's plan, you want to know what is going down. This is planning.

When it's time for the healing journey, many of us hop on an unplanned trip, because they do not know better and they make many mistakes along the path. Don't fall in that trap. Plan and date what you need to do to fix your broken heart and you'll find that slowly to begin with your insecurity in relationships begins to fade.

Plan time for yourself. Plan something that doesn't involve thinking,eg a good massage. Plan your work in small chunks at first - if you do not feel you can get through a day, plan your diary an hour at a time.

3. Take action

After you plan, the following logical step is to take action. Here are some steps that you may take to make sure the path you selected is the best for you. Here are some proposals :

one. Shoulder responsibility for your healing from your insecurity in relationships.

two. Take time for yourself - do things that cause you to feel good. Remember your worth!

3. When you're inspired, take action

four. Remember that'Today is a gift; that's why they call it the present'

five. Excuse each and everyone, past and present - this can be tough, but if you're to recover from insecurity in relationships you'll need to find a way!

six. Understand the Law of Attraction - and use it to attract good folks and events.

7. Release negative folks from your life

8. Dive into your religious work

9. Do your affirmations and visualizations

10. Be grateful. Appreciate. Bless

eleven. Expect miracles

So here you are. You may have had a broken heart and have some residual insecurity in relationships now, but recall this too shall pass. And when it passes, you'll be so much stronger you'll appreciate the journey you went to. And you may bless it.

http://www.trust-in-relationships.com. Trevor is a who discovered a program of recovering from heartbreak and insecurity in relationships after his 2nd marriage ended in 2001.

by SHELTON HOPKINS

Catch Cheating Girlfriend - 3 Questions to Ask Yourself

2009-08-27T23:00:00.000+07:00

Are you suspicious of your girlfriend? Maybe you realize that she is behaving oddly recently? Therefore, you suspect that she is cheating on you?

Well, if that is the case, you probably want to find out the truth. Catching a cheating girlfriend is easy once you know exactly what to look out for.

Here are a few questions you may want to ask yourself.

1) Are There Any Rumors About Your Girlfriend?

Rumors are not always true. Every wise man knows that. On the other hand, rumors don't arise without reasons. If you have been hearing rumors regarding your girlfriend dating someone else, then there may be some element of truth.

Don't jump to conclusion though. You should never wrongly accuse your girlfriend of cheating just based on some rumors. You need to gather more evidence.

2) Is There Any Unusual Change In Her Appearance?

If you see a drastic change in your girlfriend's appearance, then something may be wrong. Obviously, if she is trying to dress up for you, then you should be very happy about it. But if you sense that she is dressing up for someone else, then it is definitely a cause for concern.

3) Is She Getting More and More Distanced From You?

As lovers, both of you should be very close. Perhaps she used to confide in you but no longer does so now. Maybe you can sense that she is hiding something. You just feel the distance between both of you. Why is that so? Is it because you have been neglecting her? You may want to find out more.

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By Ai Qin

Sad Boyfriend and Girlfriend Break Ups - When Neither One Ends Up Happier

2009-08-23T21:45:00.001+07:00

Millions of couples break up every day. Why? Probably because we are so sophisticated and self-conscious that we forget to actually love and understand those close to us, because we are brought up as little princesses and princes and now we settle for nothing less. The smallest mistakes lead to a boyfriend and girlfriend break up. And in most cases, neither the boy nor the girl is very sure that is what they really want. They simply do it because they are afraid of failure, of imperfections and low standards. And they end unhappy.

I'm sure you know the kind of boyfriend and girlfriend break up I'm talking about. And you have probably just been through a boyfriend and girlfriend break up just like this one described, one in which you have no idea who made the final decision, but you know for sure you had something to do with it.

When a boyfriend and girlfriend breakup occurs for no real reason, both parties are going to end up wondering who went wrong, and because they are educated to believe they deserve better each time, they will automatically decide they are not the ones to blame, leaving the other party with all the fault. When both are thinking this way, there is no change of getting the two back together. Someone has to make the first step towards reconciliation, and that can only be done by recognizing and identifying self mistakes.

Perhaps even lowering standards is a good idea in some situations, because some "love" standards are way too artificial and material. People all over the world are discussion these issues with friends, family and over the internet. Some have even wrote perfect materials that can guide a young person towards their ex, teaching them how to overcome society issues and how to get back together. But the first step lies with you, because you are the one that needs to admit a part of the blame.

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By Rachel Crawford

Getting Your Ex Back - Think Like a Man to Get Your Ex Back

2009-08-22T13:26:00.000+07:00

The biggest mistake women make when trying to win their ex back - thinking like a women. Instead of thinking what would I want my guy to do if they wanted me back? you should be thinking what does my guy need from me to know I am the one for him?.

If you feel like he should be fighting to get you back or miss you enough to come back on his own, believe me I hear you. But guys operate differently and they are never going to be the romantic knight on white horse bearing flowers and love letters. Realistically if he was you probably wouldn't like him all that much.

First- take some space, put the phone down, and let him miss you a little. It doesn't help you to have him thinking that you're desperate.

Second- you need to do is get advice on how to handle conflict, break ups, and the relationship as a whole in a way that is satisfying to you and works for him.

How can you do this?

This is the internet and some of the best advice can be found to help you repair your relationship and help understand you lovers psyche. Get some expert help and pointers and start making some changes. Learn to be confident in the choices you are making by learning what he needs. Knowing is half the battle.

Trust me- when you start learning all the ways guys think differently then women and start applying that knowledge, you won't believe how different the response will be. It will benefit you too. You will be able to get what you want out the relationship while still giving him what he wants.

You may be making decisions based on what you want as women- without even realizing. You will be amazed at how well thinking like a man can help you to get your ex back Learn what it takes- get the answers on how exactly you can do this and enhance your relationship like never before. http://www.dontloseyourman.info has the answers you need from an expert.

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By M. Alana Ryan

Sensual Bliss For Women Over 50 - 7 Simple Ways to Unleash Your Sensual Side and Rev-Up Your Libido

2009-08-20T22:36:00.001+07:00

There's a lot of negative sex talk and relationship confusion going around within the 'women over 50 group'. When lust starts fading away, complacency sets in. And the next step is a full blown 'I don't care' attitude. Obviously this is a place where you don't want to stay.

And then there are women who have leaped from sexual depression into an exciting, sensual life of their own creation...with revved up libido as a side order.

Don't be a victim of our culture's expectations of aging. You can enjoy the magnificence
of intimate relationships for the next 30 years or more!

How to Enjoy Your Bonus Years at Your Full Sensual Potential:

The only solution: you need to recharge. So, take time for yourself and try these 7 ways to sensual pleasure and you'll see: it's like continuous foreplay!

LEARN TO TEASE AGAIN: Surely you remember how to do this. Make an innuendo and then back off. Just a little. Women have been masters of this art for centuries. It's in our DNA. Remember: just the act of teasing is the same as 'teasing yourself'. That's how to get the excitement going. The TEASE is powerful and can be better than physical sex.

TREASURE AROMAS:Our 'smell memory' is more acute than our other senses. You know a rose by smell, even without seeing it. We love scented candles, the hint of a luxurious perfume and most of all we're attracted to the familiar scent of our lover's warm neck while cuddling in bed. Special blends of essential oils can help give you that extra 'zip' or a calming effect when used in a diffuser, candle or mist. Savor the smell.

EYE TOUCH: Your eyes have feeling. Just look at a photo of your pet, grandchildren or someone you love. Now, look your man in the eye and say 'I Love You'. Certainly the feeling is warm and deep compared to shouting the same words from across the room. Don't just 'see' with your eyes. FEEL with your eyes. This is why the long gaze of flirting is so enticing.

YOUR SONG: A sharp, demanding voice will never rev-up your libido. This goes both ways. Speak kindly and softly. YOU start the conversation. Ask "how was your day?" Or "how do you feel today? I feel great!" Even your own affirmation will do wonders for your own feelings and desire.

EMBRACE THE NOW: Caress, hug, kiss, lick, stroke, pat...touching throughout the day keeps the coals smoldering. This is the easiest way to make a 'connection' with your lover and your own sensual side. Most couples touch only in the bedroom and then expect the fire to start, like turning on a stove. Nope! Doesn't work that way.

THE TEMPTRESS: Speak to each other. Be kind and be considerate. Remember, what you give is what you get. AND when the time is right, tantalize and tease with sensual words, a woman's skill. So give yourself a seductive refresher course. You'll be surprised how this foreplay affects YOUR sexual desire.

BODY LANGUAGE: Touch yourself in a seductive way, wink, stare, moisten your lips... in public! No one will notice but you'll feel a little dangerous. This is like seducing yourself. Remember: your mind is a woman's sensual organ. Don't be surprised if you get that 'tingling' feeling. Try it, it works!

And now, for more tips and examples, I invite you to download my free report, "The Truth About Your Libido and The Rev-up Secret No Body Talks About!" http://www.SensualBlissForWomenOver50.com/fr.html.

Rebecca Eisele (60+ herself) shows 'women over 50' fun, creative ways to unleash their magnificent sensual side to reclaim their passion and sexual desire. Visit my blog and join in: http://www.SensualBlissForWomenOver50.com.

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By Rebecca Eisele

How Can I Tell If My Ex Boyfriend Still Likes Me - 3 Absolutely Positive Signs He Still Loves You

2009-08-19T23:18:00.001+07:00

After you have made the conclusion that you are still in love with your ex, what would you most likely do? First of all, you must know what he feels about you. Does he also wish that things would have been different between him and you? You are probably not sure that is why you ask, "how can I tell if my ex boyfriend still likes me?"

Your ex boyfriend still likes you if:

#1 He's always there when you need him

If you are feeling down or you just need someone to be there and give support, he is ready to do it. If knowing that you are not okay means and he calls you constantly to check up on you, is a great sign. Even though you are not together as a couple, he still makes you feel that he is a crying shoulder you can rely on.

#2 He acts out of character when you are around

Do you feel like your ex boyfriend is not being himself when you are in the same room? It's either he is desperate to call your attention or maybe he is trying to impress you. It easy to recognize when he is acting odd, because of your time spent together. So you already have an idea who he really is.

#3 He contacts your family and friends

If he is maintaining a good relationship with you as well as with your family and friends, means that he wants to be a part of your life. He hasn't let you go yet and has no plans of doing so. Ask yourself who wants to be close to the family and friends of the ex anyway? Only those that are still in love with them of course!

It's easy enough to get the answer to your question of "how can I tell if my ex boyfriend still likes me?" because the three pointers are great indication of how much he still cares.

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By Melissa Haworth

Dating Tips for Women - What Men Really Want

2009-08-19T00:24:00.002+07:00

Romance books full of hot tips today. David Kamau is an online dating expert who also writes online dating reviews.">Listen up ladies to the best dating tips for women.

So Ladies; have you ever felt like you just do not understand what men expect from their dates? We're here to help you out with our set of the best dating tips.

First, you should keep in mind that men are more emotional than popularly thought. Mind you, most men are not the type to cry when watching a romantic movie, but their passions are deep nonetheless. When a man gets excited about football or about the newest car, that emotion is no less real than your tears at a sad movie. If you treat those feelings like they are "silly" or "stupid", you will offend them no less than if he treated your movie-created tears the same way. Passion is passion, even if we men will not usually admit that we are emotional.

Second, you ladies need to talk to us and explain things to us! That is honestly one of my best dating tips for girls. When we tell you we honestly do not know what is wrong, or if it seems like we are oblivious, we really do not notice or know. It is not that we are callous heartless monsters, we just do not know what is wrong or what you want ... and we will not unless you tell us.

Third, men generally do not like being put on the spot with "trick" questions. What may seem like a nuanced, but simple, question to you seems like a confusing female version of the Spanish Inquisition to us! That is not the say we are not aware of shades of gray, but men often have a difficult time answering "fuzzy" and "girly" questions. This is often because we do not understand what you are actually asking us. (See the tip before this one.)

Finally, try to avoid nitpicking things about your man that may irritate you. We men tend to call that "nagging", even if you call it "honesty" or "feedback". If your date perturbs you that much, stop dating him! Few things will put off a man like the impression that a woman is trying to change him. We do not mind a little feedback now and again, but do not try to "fix" us.

These types of things are obvious to most men, even if we are horrible are clearly expressing them. A little more effort from both sexes to understand the other can go a long way. If you keep in mind these best dating tips for girls, you will find yourself making a much better impression on the boys you date.

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by DAVID KAMAU

Ready to Take Your Relationship to the Next Level? Make Him Commit to You!

2009-08-17T22:40:00.001+07:00

Are you in a good relationship and now find yourself ready to make him commit to you? Are you tired of relationships that never seem to go anywhere? Are you afraid of him rejecting you if you talk to him about commitment? Most women are afraid of pushing the man away when she talks to him about committing to a relationship. However, if you do it the right way then you can make him commit and find a meaningful relationship in the process. Continue reading this article to find out how you can do this in a natural way.

Be confident

You don't have to be aggressive to be confident. A confident woman is able to get a guy to turn around to her way of thinking by being positive without being controlling. An aggressive woman is pushy and takes things too far without regard to anyone else's feelings. Even when a guy wants a commitment, he doesn't want to feel as though he was pressured into making it. If you push too hard, he can start feeling trapped and caged and that might actually scare him off.

You want your guy to actually want you around. If you are always talking about commitment and the long-term he might tire of the same conversation over and over. Instead, focus your energy on being confident and letting him get to know you. Enjoy the journey instead of always focusing on the destination. Soon, he will be begin to see that being around you is fun and that he misses you when you are gone.

Be optimistic

Don't constantly nag him about committing to you, whine when he doesn't call, and harass him in general. This is a surefire way to turn him off. You can't force him into committing to you. If you did that, then nobody would be happy.

As an alternative, be positive when you are talking to him or spending time with him. Be an optimistic person and don't bring him down with all of your talks about relationships and where yours is heading.

Treat him the same way that you treat your friends. When you and your girls are out for the day, do you constantly wear them down on where your relationship is headed or do you just have a good time? You just have a good time because it doesn't matter where you'll be in 3 months.

By following these two simple rules, you will soon show him how wonderful you are to have around and this will make him commit to you. If he can naturally see how positive you are and how confident you are in yourself, he will not be able to imagine his life without you.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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By Tina L. Jones

The Rules of the Game - The Best Dating Advice For Men

2009-08-15T22:31:00.001+07:00

By Dave Pellegrini

Dating advice for men is something that most men will not care to admit that they require. But it is sorely underestimated by men, because most men really do need it. Have you ever experienced that sinking feeling when the woman of your dreams says " Umm... I really like you but..." and you know she's blowing you off! But there's nothing you can do about it. Moreover, it hadn't seemed to you like you had done anything wrong but yet, your lady wants to have nothing to do with you.

Firstly, forget everything your mom taught you about women! Very important. Your mom always told you to be nice, kind courteous to women. All very well, but it doesn't work when you're trying to get them to date you. If you follow mom's handbook, you end up looking like the "nice" guy, and hey, we all know that women are not ATTRACTED to nice men, they just think they're good friend material!

Women love a challenge, much like men, though they valiantly deny it. So talk to her, but also communicate that you have other things to do. Say something witty about her appearance, not necessarily something which can be interpreted as a compliment. Most of you are of course aghast by now, but it really is true and it's worked for me!

Moreover, when you're out to date her, you should not, I repeat SHOULD NOT take the snail's pace! Seriously, no one has that much time or patience, she might just get tired of waiting for you to act and hence lose interest. We can't have that happening, at the same time don't come on too strong! That would just scare her off, strike a balance between the two.

Now when you've finally wriggled a date out of her, you need to look your best and be ON TIME! Seriously, punctuality is a big plus; women hate it when their dates show up late! Try to find out what she likes talking about and talk to her about those things, but at the same time, don't put on some fake personality to attract her, be yourself, just give her more importance on the date!

Be chivalrous, this is a very big plus, if you've mastered the art of chivalry then you know she's going to come back for more! Try out these tips next time you're out on a date or trying to woo a lady, they're bound to get things moving.

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Tips for Finding the Perfect Date over the Internet

2009-08-08T22:07:00.001+07:00

by FABIOLA GROSHAN

In the course of this article I will share information, which I have gathered in years of both using and operating internationales online dating sites from all over the world. Dating in America, dating in Asia, and dating in Europa is not the same thing. The cultures are very different from one another, and while most speak the English language, getting to someone’s heart or at least getting their attention if only for a couple minutes takes different amounts of effort and approaches. Here are some of the most important tips anyone can give you to maximize your efforts of finding someone special abroad, or even in your own country.

First off, you must remember that research is very important. So, when you think you have found someone somewhat interesting, do a little research to find some facts about his or her country, customs, and cultural interests. You will find it pretty interesting, and some of the things you will learn will either blow you away or at least make you smile and want to tell your friends, so you could start learning interesting things about different countries even before someone catches your interest on a dating in Europa website. In addition, knowing precious information about many different countries may lead to you wanting to focus your efforts of finding someone special to a specific country. Such information about dating in Europa, for example, can prove to be quite inspiring, so you should really take the time to learn a thing or two through research about internationales online dating.

There are many websites for internationales online dating and dating in Europe, both paid and free. If you really want to use a professional website, thus greatly improving your chances, then you must go for the paid subscription websites. Do not worry, such internationales online dating websites do not charge small fortunes, in fact the fees and rates for these sites are pretty low and you will not feel them in your wallet. In the mean time, take the opportunity and set up accounts for all the various social websites, like MySpace, FaceBook, and for dating in Europa, visit Hi5, which is the European counterpart of MySpace. Create complete profiles, so you get the maximum exposure. Do not hold back on the pictures and share your interests and opinions with the world. The chances that no one finds interest in your description are slim to none, so prepare to receive a lot of personal messages and comments on dating in Europa websites.

The next step is to starting visiting profiles and adding friends. The more, the merrier. Find groups that focus on your preferred interests, sports, music, movies, and so on. This way you maximize your chances of finding someone that is compatible to you on internationales online dating websites. Now you can start chatting with as many people as you wish. You do not have to concentrate on only one person, because you might get disappointed, so try and find more than one interesting people on dating in Europa websites. After a longer period of time you can start making plans to meet them in person. The last two pieces of advice are not to get your hopes up immediately to avoid disappointments and to never ever send money. If someone asks you for money after a few weeks or months of meeting them on an internationales online dating website, then the chances are that they only want to scam money out of you. I wish you the best of luck!

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How to Strengthen Your Marriage in Tough Economic Times?

2009-08-06T22:38:00.003+07:00

by DRS. CHARLES AND ELIZABETH SCHMITZ

There is an old saying that many attribute to a Chinese proverb that goes like this – “May you live in interesting times.” To say that is an understatement of our world today is, well . . . an understatement! We are experiencing unprecedented economic times in the USA today. Oh, sure, we have experienced higher unemployment rates before. There is no doubt that the Great Depression of the 1920’s and ‘30’s in our country was a negative economic experience far greater than what we are experiencing today, make no mistake about that.

But the simple truth is, these are very tough times for many of our brethren. If you have ever been unemployed (we both have), if you have ever wondered where your next meal was going to come from (we have), if you ever wondered how you would feed your children (we have), and if you have ever struggled with paying your monthly bills from time to time (we certainly have!), you understand how gosh-awful it is to be faced with economic uncertainty – without the resources required to maintain your accustomed-to standard of living.

We wake up every morning thankful for the quality of life we have been able to achieve for our family and ourselves over these past 43 years of life together. And make no mistake about it; our hearts go out to those that are struggling with their finances and with their marriage. We have been there, done that.

More importantly, however, those struggling marriages – those marriages that are feeling the challenges of economic uncertainty – must rise to the occasion if they are to save their marriage. And after all, isn’t saving your marriage a highly important thing to do? We think so. We think you agree. So, how do we do it?

Clearly, there are no easy answers. These are highly complex issues, for sure!

So, what are the “rules of engagement” in these tough economic times?

It seems clear to us that the most important question of the day for marriage is this – “What can you do to strengthen your marriage in tough economic times?” Our interviews over these past 26 years with those who have had successful marriages of 30-77 years would suggest the following.

1. Re-establish your marital relationship. Say what, you say? Here is what we mean – take time to “start over” in your marriage. Spend time to feel the emotions and feelings you had when you were dating way back when. Hold hands more often. Kiss more often. Touch each other more often. Engage in intimate acts more often. It is important for the two of you to rediscover the flame that burned when you first started dating, when you first got married. Rekindling the flame that brought you together will go a long way towards re-establishing your marital relationship. Our hope is that you will re-establish the parameters of the relationship you had when you fell in love in the first place. Try it, you’ll like it!

2. Renew your marital relationship. We think that these tough economic times represent a perfect time to do the sharing exercises that appear in the back of our book, Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage. It is so very important that you regain familiarity with your marital relationship. This you must understand – renewal of your marital relationship is of paramount importance to the survival of your marriage during tough economic times.

3. Share the bill paying. How are you going to handle the bill paying - together or separately? You must keep your family’s financial house in order as best you can if you are to save your marriage in tough economic times. Paying your bills together and making decisions about your finances together will go a long way towards eliminating the destructive arguments and disagreements that often occur when times are tough. In difficult times, you must share decision-making in your marriage like you have never done before! If you want to preserve your relationship with each other – if you want to stare economic challenges in the face – do it together. Tell the Lone Ranger to stay home!

4. Establish parameters of civility in your interactions with each other. The blame-game doesn’t work very well when it comes to finding solutions to the economic challenges facing you. Telling your spouse that your financial woes are his or her fault does absolutely nothing to solve the problems that you are facing. More than ever, you and your spouse must create an emotional environment that encourages conversation, minimizes the blame-game, and encourages open and honest two-way communication. In a popular movie about the female baseball leagues during the Second World War starring Tom Hanks, the refrain used by the team’s manager was, “There is no crying in baseball!” As a corollary, there is no crying in marriage during tough economic times. Leave the blame-game behind. Leave the hysteria behind. And more than anything else, bring civility back to your marriage. You and your marriage have a much better chance of surviving these tough economic times when your interactions with each other are civil, kind, caring, and supportive.

5. Be honest with your children above all else. If you have children in the house, they need to understand that Mom and Dad are facing severe economic challenges. There is no point in hiding this fact from them. And don’t underestimate your children, especially if they are beyond toddler age – they will understand what is going on. Your children will understand why the family cannot maintain “business as usual” in a financial sense. Too many couples hide the realities of life from their children – they hide the harshness of life from them. Big mistake we think. You must be honest with your children. When you have to restrict the expenditure of funds on their behalf, they are much more likely to understand if you have been honest with them. Tell it like it is!

The simple truth is this – your extra efforts to save your marriage in tough economic times just might lead to happiness, contentment, and long-lasting love. Isn’t it time to give your best to address the challenges that face you? Isn’t it time to strengthen your marriage now more than ever? Think about it!

By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz

Author Information: Learn how you can find love and have a successful marriage using the advice of over 15,000 years of collective marital wisdom. Enjoy receiving our new hardback book Simple Things Matter in Love and Marriage at no cost with the purchase of our multiple award winning book Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage with the publisher's closeout of hardback versions.

How to Get Your Ex Back - Great Ways of Getting Back With an Ex For Good!

2009-08-05T22:36:00.000+07:00

By Rob C.

Are you looking for ways on how to get an ex back? Then I can help you, because I got my ex girlfriend back with very counter-intuitive methods. I say counter intuitive because they are exactly the opposite of what I thought should be done when you are dumped by your girlfriend or boyfriend.

When my girlfriend dumped me, what I thought that I should do was to simply and sincerely apologize to her, and if that failed, buy her some flowers and gifts. And if those failed too I didn't have anything more to do. This was very wrong! That is why I call those methods counter intuitive.

The methods I talk about employ the inaccessibility principle in human psychology. This principle states that if a person can not easily achieve something, he or she is going to want that even more. And this can be translated into relationships. You shouldn't beg or apologize firmly to your girlfriend. This will make you only more easily achievable in her eyes.

What you should do instead, is to act like you actually accept the breakup and think it is a good idea. This will move you from the "easily achievable" status to the "unreachable" status and will have great effects in getting your ex back to you; because now she knows that she can't have you any moment she wants. This is known as the inaccessibility trick since you're making yourself inaccessible for your girlfriend, and this is indeed a very counter intuitive method.

To get my ex back, I used a lot of methods utilizing the "make yourself inaccessible" and "invoke your ex's curiosity" principles. I did it by following a "complete game plan".

I have made a webpage on how I got my girlfriend back and my story. If you want an ex back, be sure to see my site by clicking here - see a story and "how to"!

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Review On Online Philippines Dating

2009-08-03T22:45:00.001+07:00

By CARRIER WOLDOLF

Filipina dating no longer has to be done in The Philippines itself. Plenty of Filipino singles upload their profiles online to seek potential partners. Filipinos are a friendly bunch of people ready to show their care and concern to you if you'd let them. Will you? Dating Filipinos is a memorable experience as it will most definitely filled with much joy and laughter, song and dance. Philippines dating is therefore highly sought after both in The Philippines and abroad.

Many single Filipinos in The Philippines and abroad are passionate in their endeavor of finding the right one they want to spend the rest of their lives with. Philippines dating, whether online or offline, is very popular among Filipinos and other nationalities who are very intrigued by Filipino culture. Online dating is hence a viable option for meeting very interesting Filipino singles, who may very well share similar interests with you!

Gone are the days where you have to depend on Mother Fate or Lady Lucky to meet the right Filipino single. With online Filipina dating, you can look for potential partners right in the comfort of your own home! You even get to browse through thousands of profiles online, something you cannot really do in meat space. Engaging in Filipino dating will prove to be a fulfilling experience, and you can get to know thousands of Filipino singles instantly!

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Trying To Heal A Broken Heart?...Focus On Yourself

2009-08-01T23:38:00.000+07:00

"We either make ourselves happy or miserable. The amount of work is the same." -Carlos Castaneda

There are many times when ending a relationship that our self-esteem suffers. Self doubt and insecurities may surface.

Because you are in, shall we say; a fragile state right now, it's important to continue to make good choices for yourself.

By taking care of yourself and trying to do what makes you feel better; you are allowing yourself the opportunity to really begin to heal you heart.

Although you are feeling bad there is one very important thing you must remember not to neglect or forget. It's the one thing that will guarantee your feeling better..."Don't forget to take care of yourself."

Indulge yourself. You are going through a tough time right now so take extra care in being easy on yourself. Treat yourself to all of the little niceties that will make YOU feel better.

New hair-cut, color, make-up, facial, manicure or massage. Buy yourself something you've been wanting. Go and do something you enjoy. Do anything that makes you feel great about yourself. Do anything that you love doing which you've been putting off.

Join a gym, if you can't afford it, go for a walk and commune with nature. Go on a vacation or go out with your friends again. Occupy yourself with positive activities and stay focused on things that make you happy.

If someone you love was going through the same thing, how would you treat them? Well, that someone you "should" love is yourself. Spoil and pamper yourself just as you would someone you love.

This is the time to be nicer to yourself than you've ever been before... You're worth it!

What you may not realize yet is this: As time goes by and you are starting to feel good again, the person that is going to emerge will be the new and improved version of you. Take this opportunity to start to love yourself more. You have the power to create your future. Choose to live it well!

There is a saying, "With every door that closes another door opens." Begin to believe in a better life. Change isn't always easy but...with change comes growth.

The door that is opening for you is to a new life. As you begin to accept that your relationship is over...you can begin to look forward instead of living in the past.

As you start to focus more and more on moving on...make sure you are moving on to the life you want. As you know; the choices we make determine how we live our lives.

Take this time and use it to your advantage. As difficult as it has been to go through, I'm sure you don't want to make the same mistakes again.

Use this as an opportunity to create the life you want. Get beyond your fears and you will open yourself up to living a better life!

Read more about it in the book, “There Is Life After What’s-His-Name found at: Relationship advice at WHYSTAY.COM http://www.whystay.com

Susan Russo is an author, speaker and coach who provides inspiration, self-empowerment and the tools and strategies to help move you toward personal success and fulfillment. She is editor of "You've Got Power" Ezine. Author of "There Is Life After What's-His-Name” and “The 7 Keys To Unlock The Power Within You” found at: http://www.susanrusso.com Copyright 2007 Pinnacle Thought Inc.

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Fear of Approaching Women

2009-07-30T21:08:00.001+07:00

You stand there immovable with your hands sweating, your heart beating twice as faster, your lips seem to be sealed by something and your eyes fixated on HER… Your dream girl is standing over there but you just can't approach her. Come on, we have all been there. Don't be ashamed to admit that. We always wanted to approach the women we wanted and talk to them but never really got ourselves to do that. Why so? What is the reason behind that? Yes, in this article, we are going to discuss about approaching women in general. Well a little looking at the subject will reveal actually one reason. It's FEAR. Fear of approaching women! But, fearing what? Are we really afraid of the woman? Are we afraid of her harsh words? Some say that we fear being REJECTED. I think if I had been in a room alone with a girl and I said "hi" to the girl or made any move on her and she rejected, I could not have cared less about that. Darn! Nobody is going to know and I don't even care if she is going to share this experience with her friends or not. I think our fear is getting rejected IN FRONT OF OTHERS (in the simplest of language). We hate being rejected in front of others. Believe it or not, most of us, or rather almost all of us, are specifically driven by our ego. We don't really understand ourselves truly but we understand what our EGO makes us understand. And having this fear is absolutely normal. In our animal society, we are judged by our social standard and class. More social status, better survival rate, more resourceful and better future… It is as simple as that. We love power. Not muscular power but social power. Where ever it comes from. Whether the muscle or money. And for this particular reason, we fear approaching the fairer sex. And this is all aggravated by the false attitude put up by the woman. You go to any bar or club and you find the hot girls standing there with an attitude of "Don't even dare to come near me; you will get burnt". Oh well it's scary and this makes the fear of approaching women all the worse. I know that. I have been through that. And let me tell me I still feel that. Remember, it's never going to GO AWAY. It is embedded in our basic psychological and nervous hardwiring and it is to stay. Yes, I iterate myself once again… We fear approaching women and we will continue to experience that peculiar stomach wrenching feeling in the future as well. But the point is in getting control over it and being able to overcome it over the time.

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From Fantasy to Adultery - Avoiding True Intimacy

2009-07-28T22:39:00.000+07:00

My mother once told me that, according to the Catholic faith, in God's eyes a man who imagined having sex with a woman who wasn't his wife was as guilty of adultery as the man who actually had sex with another woman. Now that I'm older, I realize that means we're all going to hell for adultery, so we might as well have some fun along the way.

Seriously, though, where and how do you draw the line? I took an informal poll recently about affairs; I wanted to know if people thought an emotional affair with no intercourse or a one night stand (with intercourse but no emotion attached) would be more damaging to a long term relationship. I suspected the line would be drawn across gender lines, and for the most part I was right. Most of the women thought an emotional affair would be more damaging, while most of the men thought the one night stand would be worse. This speaks to how men and women view sex differently; most women need emotional stimulation to become aroused, while men need visual stimulation.

The other day my friend David Cates had this to say: "I've often said that many women are addicted to porn, too - it just comes in the form of romance novels instead of the graphic pictures men prefer. There's eye-porn and emotion-porn... and they're all fantasies that take us away from real people in the real world... and eventually take us away from our real selves, too. Genuine intimacy flows from authenticity."

Everyone fantasizes about sex. Most people use fantasies during sex to help them get or stay aroused. But do you want to know what's really arousing? Open your eyes and become present to your partner. Use all of your senses to really feel both of your bodies. Engage your mind with what's actually happening rather than what you're imagining. This might sound simple, but it actually requires courage and a willingness to be vulnerable to your partner.

Most people in our culture are terrified of true intimacy. It requires us to be naked, spiritually and emotionally, with ourselves and our partner. Most people can't even handle being that intimate with themselves. It's too vulnerable, and we've been conditioned for too long to censor our real thoughts and feelings to subscribe to cultural norms. We use fantasy, pornography, and affairs to ensure we don't have to become too intimate with anyone.

Used properly, fantasy, pornography, and even affairs can help to increase intimacy. The stage has to be set properly and both partners have to be conscious participants, but sex within long term relationships can be an amazing way to help us grow emotionally and become more authentically ourselves. It's not for the faint of heart, and its intention is not just to make better sex, although that's a delightful side effect.

Sex, handled in this way, becomes the crucible for raising our consciousness. It teaches us about ourselves on a deep level, uncovering the hidden language of our self-talk and bringing it into the open for transformation. It makes us more authentically ourselves, and from that place of authenticity we can make empowered choices about our lives.

Imagine how much better the world would be if more of us began using orgasms to achieve enlightenment. Who wants to play?

Johanna Lyman
Spiritual Love Coach
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Top 5 Ways to Find Your Girlfriend Or Wife Cheating on You

2009-07-26T22:58:00.000+07:00

A lot of men seem to think that it is difficult to find out for sure if their girlfriend is cheating on them. However, there are actually a lot of ways, besides just using a reverse phone number check service, in which you can tell whether or not your girlfriend is cheating on you. The top 5 ways in which to do this include:

1. If you want to know for sure and don't want to use a reverse number check service, then you could always use what is known as a semen detection kit. This will help you find out if your girlfriend is being intimate with someone other than you.

2. You could use one of your friends to try setting her up and catch her flirting with him. This is something that you could even have your friend do via text messaging. Just remember that you did this in case you choose to use phone number reverse lookups later on.

3. Create a fake online profile with photos of a great looking guy. You can then flirt with her or ask her for her phone number. Of course, this won't tell you who she's actually cheating with, like a reverse number check would.

4. Be really sneaky and act like you are going away for a weekend then stick around to see where she goes and who she brings home. If you have already ran an address look up phone number, this will tell you a lot more about the guy you did the reverse phone number check on.

5. You could always do a reverse phone number check. This will tell you who she's talking to and you can also find out other details about this person whenever you use a reverse number check.

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Why are older women not into younger guys???

2009-07-23T21:40:00.001+07:00

Are people that naive... I guess women dont watch porn.. The "M.I.L.F.' phenomenon is rampant... Go take a look.. make a search.. understand just what it is that makes you so suddenly popular. Variety is the spice of life...

At work guys are all about the older women now... and trust me ladies... it's not because of your eternal wisdom... i dont care what age you are... If you dont have TALENT, and you cant TALK your way ourt of a paperbag... I would gladly introduce you to someone whose views of age and beauty as something that worthy value.

All this crap about older men being jaded.... oh lord... dont go there.... there is a plethora of jaded women here... My one and only date from POF was with a woman who was out to 'get' her ex husband.... YIKES>>>

This says it perfect and yes like the saying goes? The truth hurts and people hate accepting or hearing the truth.

I even know guys in their 30's, who say "Oh look at that MILF" and she is 50.
But I am shocked women can't understand why younger guys contact them or hit on them. Really you cannot tell me you are that naive. There is no way a slew of women are that clued out. No way. Just a front to say "Wow I don't get it, why do they all like me" as it is a nice ego boost. Say you are 42 and it makes you feel attractive because you are thinking you are getting older. A young hot guy shows some sort of attraction to you and it feels good.
Let's think for a second and don't be saying "Oh you are jaded, you are jealous etc" just think of this for one second. If women of a certain age are showing interest in men of a certain age, do you not think THAT encourages them and entices them to show an interest in those women? Not about confidence, it is about knowing or at least what appears to be the age range of women who date men who are in their 20's.
I am sure that if a ton of women were into dating men say 38-42 and that was popular, you don't think guys that age would be interested in those women more often? Of course, because like women in their 30's and 40's dating men in their 20's, it gives the guy more of a good chance to actually date someone that much older.
And why does everyone sugarcoat it, when you know the younger guy is wanting to have the experienced sex with someone older. And ya right all these women say it is not a control thing? You have the control in the bedroom being the older woman and unlike a guy your age, where both of you like what you like, a young guy is into learning so again a nice ego boost of course.
Hey I could never in my life date a woman close to my mom's age, just like date a woman young enough to be my daughter. Ya sure some 50 something women look hot, some younger women in their 20's look hot but beyond that what is there? And the thing about guys who are older being all jaded. When did women never become jaded. Just like the set in their ways comment. It always seems the guys are always completely in the wrong here. makes me sick. Both men and women do become jaded as they get older from being burned. Men and women both become set in their ways as they get older. What the underlying reason for going younger I believe for the women is the feeling. A guy who has less experience in dating and sex.
Also the young guy/older girl thing is like in school, the boys become teacher's pets, they have the crushes on their teachers. The boy has the fantasies about his teacher.
Hey I am not against this young/older thing just ladies stop the bashing as your reasons.
I know what my problem is in dating, I am sure if you took a step back and thought about things, you would see the reason why men your age do not contact you or why you seem to not date men your age.
It is a two way street, not one side to blame here.

Why do women refuse to make a first contact after you have already met

2009-07-21T22:14:00.000+07:00

I haven't got a problem calling..once I am both comfortable that he is the type of guy that doesn't mind, and I am comfortable that we are actually dating, not just in the see what happens phase...some men do not like being called..they like the decision of when they feel like talking in their hands..and most don't like phone calls without a purpose...many women know this and don't want to offend a guy..it isn't a big enough deal to write him off..and in the beginning stages it makes sense not to step on his toes...or worse, be seen as needy or stalking...plus, there is a correlation , silly book and movie or not..with, if you, as a woman . have to do all the initiating, you never know his true interest..once a relationship is established in some sense...I haven't got a problem calling if I need /want to...

I personally have a phone phobia about calling people I don't know well...I don't like being an unexpected and unwelcome surprise, nor being thought of as a pest..or invading people's space, or interrupting something important..and some see unexpected phone calls as just that...

Women are also pretty indoctrinated, no matter what the prevailing theory or societal expectation is, that it is unseemly for them to be do anything that seems like chasing...and some women just aren't secure enough to risk it...

OP: In your case, it sounds like more than whether she called or not...it also sounds like your relationship was a stage where she should have been comfortable calling...unless it was all about the attention for her...

The Secret First Step to Get Your Ex Back in Seven Days Or Less

2009-07-15T20:49:00.000+07:00

A relationship is never meant to be difficult, but a certain degree of sacrifice and compromise are always critical to keep the relationship healthy. While we are getting your ex back, you should keep this in mind. Nothing makes mending a broken relationship easy, but if you take to heart what I'm going to share with you in this article it will certainly makes it a whole lot easier for yourself and definitely give your ex good reason to come back.

I know exactly how painful a breakup is but rather than staring yourself blind against the surface question "how can I get back together with my ex?", you should start focusing on rectifying what caused the breakup in the first place. This will immediately start lifting the tension and stress that caused the breakup.

So how do you do this?

The answer is simple. When your ex boyfriend or girlfriend decides to break up with you, then it is most likely because of the following two reasons: Either the relationship became stale because you entered a comfort zone so that there wasn't enough of the real you in it anymore, or the relationship was getting too claustrophobic because you were asking too much and there was too much of you in it. What ever side of the coin you are on, these two causes will lead to certain relationship suicide. It's now time for you to do a quick self-analysis to see if you were guilty of any of these relationship sins.

Unfortunately in most cases the breakup occurred either of something you did or did not do. I don't mean to be harsh, but this is a very simple and effective way to look at it. Whatever your answer is, the end result remains the same. Something drove your ex away. So what to do next, and how can you get your ex back? The first step is to take the useful insights you have now and determine exactly what needs fixing in the relationship.

As you are taking a really hard look at your situation, draw up a list of things the could have led to the breakup, as well as which of those things were most likely your fault and which were not.

Rule out the ones that you cannot control as they will always remain out of your control. Look at the ones that you are responsible for and now think about if and how you can change that specific problem. If you're starting to see a clear pattern of being able to fix a lot of these problems, things are definitely looking good. If you are willing to make some changes, you have just taken one huge step towards getting your ex back.

Just remember, knowing how to get your ex back is not enough. Nothing will happen until you take action right now!

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Special Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas - Make Your Anniversary an Occasion

2009-07-13T17:33:00.000+07:00

Staying married is a great achievement especially in this modern society where people throw away marriage and family whenever it doesn't suit them or gets too tough. Sometimes marriages fail but couples seem less likely to really fight to stay together with counseling or talking things through. It might be just a reflection of the selfish and heartless times we live in. So any marriage that can last should be really celebrated if not by those who have supported the couple through the difficult times but by the couple themselves.

A 10 year celebration: traditionally a gift of tin or aluminum is given but in modern traditions it's diamonds. Usually I personally prefer tradition but in this case a bit of bling is just the right thing to show each other you still sparkle. Why not get a diamond put in your wedding rings?

A 15 year celebration: crystal traditionally or watches in modern gifts and again his and her watches would be nice and add some lovely pieces to your collection, but a crystal vase or decanter set would be also nice. There are also many crystal pieces of jewellery, pendants and gems available on-line.

A 20 year celebration: china or platinum, for those wanting to really celebrate why not by some china in china and go on a holiday. Buy a vase or commemorative plate with your names and wedding dates on them. You could get new platinum wedding bands done and renew your wedding vows.

A 25th celebration: known as the silver wedding anniversary should come with some kind of party or grand gesture because this really is an achievement. Going on a holiday, weekend away or throwing a party would be great, but if you want a personal experience book some time together away from everything and go out shopping and buy things for one another as anniversary gifts.

A 30th celebration: the pearl wedding anniversary is also a diamond in modern traditions but again if you didn't go all out at your 25th then you should do now, assuming you don't have any dependable, just go on holiday somewhere special and find the time to have a romantic break away. Even if you don't go abroad you must renew your vows and have a party and celebrate the achievement!

A 40th celebration: Ruby wedding anniversary. Buy that lovely piece of ruby in a necklace or bracelet or both if you can afford to, with matching earrings because you should be spoilt. Although what a man would do with ruby earrings I can't explain although ruby cufflinks or tie pin would be sweet. A new set of golf clubs or a new car will show him how you feel, something equally grand and meaningful because it is a time to really spoil yourselves if you can.

A 50th celebration is the gold wedding anniversary and really throwing a huge family celebration is usually the best way but also the couple themselves should have a holiday. Maybe the family could all pool their money and send them away somewhere special, to the place they had their honeymoon, or somewhere they always wanted to go.

Just ensure any specialist piece you have purchased comes from a reputable online retailer with a verified security certificate to ensure your personal date is safe when you buy.

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What You Should Wear to a Wedding - Rules and Traditions

2009-07-11T22:29:00.000+07:00

One constant thing in our surroundings is change. It is because of unswerving transformation that so many developments are made. Wedding outfits have also been gone through the same change process. Currently, there are endless designs and styles of wedding dresses available in the market. You can find the traditional as well as the modern wedding outfits.

As the first rule, the outfit you select for some wedding highly depends upon the place where the wedding has to take place. Nowadays, people hold weddings in a variety of places such as the Churches, beaches, wedding halls etc. Therefore, the dress you select for one place will not necessarily be appropriate for another. Therefore, try to get the details after receiving the invitation because it will help you to select your dresses for that particular wedding.

Traditionally, if a wedding will be held in the daytime, it will require different clothing from the one which takes place in the evening, because the timings certainly influence the selection of colour, style, and accessories. If a wedding is in Church, women should dress up in a way that their shoulders and knees are properly covered. As it is a religious place, it requires you to dress up with modesty.

On the other hand, if a wedding is to be held on a beach, you will wear any stylish dress, which does not have to be too formal. In case, after attending a church wedding, you have to go for a reception organised at some other place, then you can use a jacket, coat, or wrap.

Women have a great range of wedding outfits from which they can select what they want to dress in. Just go to any designer's shop, and see the ceaseless assortment of dresses. You can select a short dress or even a suit for an informal or semi-formal daytime wedding event. You can wear cocktail dresses for an informal or semi formal evening weddings.

However, if the wedding requires formal dressing and is held during the daytime, a short dress or suit is suitable. In addition to a hat or gloves can also be used. A long outfit can be worn for evening weddings, which as a tradition, calls you to dress up formally. Along with other accessories, you need to use jewellery to perfect your look. You should avoid black or full white for daytime wedding events.

Men also are now very choosy about their dressing. A dress shirt and pant along with a casual jacket is most frequently used outfit for daytime informal weddings occasions. For an informal evening wedding, the best option is a suit. Men can put on a dark suit with tie for formal day and night time weddings.

Besides these traditions of wedding clothing, your personal choice certainly needs to be considered while choosing an outfit for a wedding. However, it should still not be too alien and must complement the occasion so that you do not look weird amongst the crowd.

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How to Play Hard to Get and Make Him Commit Fast

2009-07-05T19:51:00.000+07:00

When it comes to playing hard to get there is a balance which you must get right in order to win. After all, the last thing that you want to do is lose a guy's interest trying to play this game. However, playing hard to get can be very effective as long as you do it right. So how can you strike the right balance without really turning this guy off? Well, keep reading and these tips will help you to draw the line in the right place.

The first thing which you must do is keep some distance between you and him. If a man is being pursued by you then he is either going to get bored and move on or get comfortable in letting you do all the work. Let him have some space and take yours and you will be off to a good start in playing hard to get.

Second, when you are with him be all about him. This may not seem that you are hard to get but as long as you keep the first one in line then this point can be VERY effective. Pick some things to do which are really exciting and new. Make sure that you are flirting with him and just enjoying the moment and making it memorable.

Do not talk about commitment at all until he does first. You may have to wait a long time to have him bring this one up. However, you can be sure that if you do then the game of hard to get is over for good. Men are much slower to connect and build emotional bonds but once they do, commitment is no problem. You just have to make sure that they don't beat you to it.

These are the keys to playing hard to get and the fastest way to get a commitment from any man.

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Middle Aged Dating Tips - Getting Started Again

2009-06-26T20:53:00.000+07:00

Many people are now starting to try to get back in the dating game after many years of being married, either due to divorce or being widowed. Regardless of why you are back on the dating scene, trying to date at middle age can be fairly intimidating. If you have been married or with someone for a very long time, you will quickly see that the dating scene has changed a good bit since the last time you dated. How do you get started again, and find that special someone? That is the focus of this article.

The first thing to do is to really take a good look at your own wants and needs. Before you can possibly try to go out and date someone else, you need to have some type of idea of the type of person you would want to date. The best way to do that is to know those things that you are willing to compromise on, and those things that you are not. If you are a Christian, nonsmoking, animal rights lover for example, you would not want to go out hunting for an Atheist, smoking, fur lover. This seems obvious, but it is something we all must do when going into the dating market. At middle age, you do not want to waste a lot of time dating people that you know you will not have any long term interest in. Find those qualities you are looking for, and then move on to the next step.

The next step is to take those qualities you are looking for in a date, and consider where you might find such a person. If you love racing, get out to the racetrack. If you love dancing, get out to the various dancing clubs around. Generally speaking, it is easy to figure out where you might find those people that suit you if you just give it some thought.

Another middle aged dating tip is get out and try something new. Many people find someone to spend time with simply by attending a "beginners" type activity. The benefit here is that all are beginners in the classes, so you instantly have something in common to talk about. Jump into conversation with those around you, and you might be surprised that a number of them may be single. Do not be afraid to ask somebody out if they attract you and they seem to be of the same mind.

The biggest key to middle aged dating is to get out there and try. So many people do not even try as they feel they are too long out of the game. The bottom line is that every age group has a number of people that are in the same situation as you, and they are just as scared and nervous. You simply need to get out there and find them so that you can be nervous together.

When dating at middle age, it is also important to take things slow and resist the normal urge to rush. Many middle-agers feel as though "the clock is ticking" and that they must find someone quickly. This is simply not the case for the vast majority, and finding the wrong middle age date is much worse than being alone. Take your time and find that person that you enjoy. They are out there, and you will find them if you just put in some effort.

After years of being in a relationship, you need to also realize that the times changed in the dating world. There are now tons of options that were not out there when you were younger. Online dating services are a wonderful way to meet people of the same interests, and are rather easy to use. Just be sure that you do some online dating research and find a reputable online dating service to use.

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Get Your Ex Back - A Crash Course On Healing A Broken Heart

2009-06-13T13:12:00.000+07:00

Going through a break up is always very difficult. This is the one point in our lives when we feel so terrible we don't want to do anything but cry. We don't function properly in work or school; our friends can't get us to go out with them to have a good time; and our families can't get us to go out of the room to join them at the dinner table or even talk to them even though they want to help us heal a broken heart.

There are a lot of consequences a break up. Almost everything in our lives become affected by that one heart-breaking moment. We feel like the whole has suddenly come tumbling down and rolling on us.

I feel what you are going through. I know the hurt and how hard it is to deal with the pain. That is why I will share with you the 5 most effective tips on how you can heal a broken heart and prepare you on how to get your ex back.

Go to your friends and family for moral support. The only people who can help you go through any tough situations in life are those who are closest to you. They are your family and friends. You can always talk to them and tell them how you feel. Cry if you need to. Their love and support will be enough to help you forget the pain and get over the break up.
Keep yourself busy with studies or work. One of the most effective ways to deal with a break up is to keep your mind busy with something relevant. And what better and more productive way than to focus on your work or studies? If you have been faltering in school or in the workplace because of your relationship before, now is the time to redeem yourself in the eyes of your professors and boss. Show them that you are capable of springing back and prove your self worthy of the position you have. Keep yourself busy with relevant stuff. In the end, not only will you be able to get over the pain, you may even end up with a higher grade or a raise.
Try to learn something new. Everyday is a chance to learn something new and fruitful; and each happening in your life is an opportunity to develop and acquire a new skill. If you are too devastated by your break up, take up a new hobby. You can start collecting items that piques your interest. Similarly, you can learn how to craft things. There's a lot of stuff you can busy yourself with. Not only will these serve as a therapy, this can also be fruitful.
Diversify your daily routine. For sure, your routine for the past how many months have included, if not revolved around, your ex. If this is the case, you need to make a different routine after the break up. This will help you from thinking about your ex in the unexpected moments. If you continue to do the things you used to do before, there is always the chance that you will remember the days spent with your ex doing those things. Making a change in how you live each day will help you forget your break up.
Quit thinking about your ex. This is probably the most effective way of getting over a break up and healing your broken heart. Thinking about your ex will trigger the resurgence of memories- both happy and sad. And the longer time you spend thinking about your ex, the harder it will be to forget him or her.

It's not easy to forget the pains of a break up and heal your broken heart. All it takes is a little faith, determination, and help from the people close to you. Remember, to get your ex back, you need to make sure that your heart has gotten over the pain and healed the wounds it suffered.

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The Kama Sutra - Not Just a Sex Manual

2009-06-10T22:23:00.000+07:00

By Reena Daruwalla

Anyone who has been to India or has read enough about India would have seen ancient Indian sculptures or pictures of them; even someone with the most rudimentary idea about India would we familiar with the Kama Sutra. If you have visited temples like Khajuraho and many others in India, you would have seen frescoes and sculpture featuring exceedingly sexual, even orgiastic postures, various sex positions, even group sex and same sex scenes.

In the old days, India faced the problem of under population (as against over population today). So the kings routinely commissioned the court sculptors to design sculptures so erotic that they acted as an aphrodisiac to encourage people to produce more babies to populate their land! Perhaps the Kama Surta had just such a beginning.

In the west, the Kama Sutra is viewed as an ancient sex manual only, which is it, but it is much more than that. It is also a book about social values, etiquette, duties, economic obligations etc. Understandably the sex manual part of this voluminous work is what has gained maximum popularity. Kama, simply put is sex, but more specifically it means enjoyment using all the five sense of touch, taste, smell, hearing and smell and enjoyment not just for the body but for the mind and spirit as well.

One part of the manual deals with sexual positions, how to embrace and kiss, foreplay (marking with nails is one chapter), role playing and even the appropriate sounds to be made! One entire segment is devoted to advice about how to acquire a wife, another segment is about other people's wives! Another segment is allocated to courtesans, how they should earn money, how to live behave and conduct themselves, how to live as a man's wife etc.

The final part of the text deals with personal adornment and love potions and other methods of making a person attractive. It also deals with methods of arousal and miscellaneous experiments. All in all I would conclude that it was a book way ahead of its times.

Some years back a film was made about the period of Indian history when the Kama Sutra was written. It was a film called Utsav and was set in the period of Vatsyayana (the author). This film was about the renowned courtesan of the time, Vasantsena; the haunting melodious songs of the film are still very popular. Courtesans were, in those days viewed with respect, insofar as sex was viewed as an art to be learned and taught. Some parts of the film were very funny too, when Vatsayana is shown peering into various rooms of a brothel collecting material for his book.

So really sex was not talked of in hushed tones the way it is now; it was as much part of social life as anything else and the Kama Sutra perhaps best reflects this.

Reena Daruwalla

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So you want a second chance? (5)

2009-06-09T22:18:00.000+07:00

She did cancel on the third voicemail but also suggested next week. Get this. She couldn't go to lunch last week because her work decided to change an afternoon meeting to a lunch meeting. So since her current guy was going out of town on the afternoon of her birthday she asked me if I wanted to hang out after and ride motorcycles -- only she wasn't sure if he fixed her bike. (She mentioned this in the first 2 messages). Well on the third message she said "Not sure it will be done in time tomorrow so rather than be a flake let's meet sometime next week." She also mistakenly called him by MY name, caught herself and got VERY nervous.

I wonder, could you be a little elusive and hard-to-get? As you say, being confident, happy, secure is good, but also being Really Busy so you don't just drop everything to see her whenever it's good for her schedule, have her missing you and for goodness sakes don't let her think you are waiting by the phone for her.

Well in fairness I haven't been calling her back every time or right away and I normally can't get back to her via email for hours. In fact, after she left the last VM on Friday night I didn't get back to her until lunchtime Tuesday to reschedule. I'm being as elusive, happy and confident as I can be (and am!). I didn't jump to schedule anything right away and in fact I've said more than once "If we can't work out something with our schedules we can always do it some other time."

This is advice women usually give each other to "catch a guy" but I think it works in your situation also! I'm just thinking it might be good if she had a chance to pine over you and miss you and wonder what you were doing...

I don't think it will be possible for her to pine over me unless she gets to see the improvements I've made in my life. Also she is dating someone right now so it makes it easier for her to keep her mind off me. But I believe once we meet as long as I stick to my improvements, make it fun, happy and basically be the attractive guy she liked in the first place I just have to leave it to fate. I won't be upset if this doesn't work out. I firml believe that I am the right guy for her and don't feel I need to prove it any longer. She'll either see it or she won't but no amount of pressure from my side will make a difference. I just have to be me :)

I agree on the coupon book. Good decision Jarbar. Baby steps, one thing at a time. First you get together, and it is just light and breezy, a pleasant lunch, nothing heavy about "relationships" etc. Maybe after a few pleasant meetings then you do the coupon book thingie.

That's the plan. I just want to see how the lunch goes. I'll definitely make it fun, light, breezy and pleasant. After that it's one day at a time. If there is still a spark there I'll let her light the fire and continue with my schedule and life as is. It's plenty fulfilling and fun. I don't NEED anyone in my life. I still love her but don't need her.

How to Make Your Ex Easily Crawl Back to You! This Works When Everything Seems Hopeless

2009-06-07T14:40:00.000+07:00

Spending sleepless nights and wallowing in self pity is not the way to carry on after the split! Why let your ex get the better of you? If you have wasted enough time regretting the circumstances that led to the breakup, do something to break out of this rut! Don't surrender to misery another day. Find out today how you can get your ex to crawl back to you!

Prove your ex wrong!
Your ex has probably seen you moping around looking like the world has come to an end ever since the breakup. Shake yourself loose from this attitude of a loser and start proving to your ex and the world that you are an overcomer! Focus your mind on positive feelings and gear up to really enjoy yourself!

Become a new creation!
Arm yourself with weapons like stylish clothes, great body and exquisite makeup! Your ex will not know what hit him/her when he/she claps his/her eyes on you! Looking like a million dollars will make anybody sit up and take notice of you! When your ex sees you looking so stunning he/she will have second thoughts about the split!

Invoke jealousy.
Making your ex jealous should be easy with you looking so good! When your ex realizes that you will have no problem getting dates and being so popular looking the way you do now, he/she is bound to be jealous that he/she is out of the picture, and will want to have a piece of the action!

Be soft, caring and forgiving!
Having a soft and sensitive, loving and forgiving nature can only bring you benefits and give you an advantage. Old feelings of bitterness and anger will melt away and your ex will want to kiss and make up before too long! Don't bring up the past anymore and make sure you start afresh! This type of attitude will prove to be a strong foundation for the future.

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Find Relationship Online at Free Personals Sites

2009-05-20T23:45:00.000+07:00

Seeking an online relationship at free personals sites has been popular in the last few years. When the Internet market booming, there are many personals services created to help single people to create online personal ads to find love and romance. Members pay a small fee for using such services. This modern century we live in, members do not pay any fee for using totally free personals sites. You may not believe why these services do not charge money for using their service. You may wonder what they got out of their service. You think there should be a hidden cost at these totally free personal dating services. The answer is no fee at all. Free personals dating services do not charge you any dime for registering a profile, searching for members, and contacting all personal singles.

For example, Yahoo personals services charge members a small fee for using their dating service. Statistics have showed that many relationships and marriage generated from Yahoo personals dating services. Many single people will ask the same question about online dating and personals service, are they different? No, they are almost the same. Online dating service is a means to help single men and women to find an online relationship. Personals service is to help singles to find their partners online. There is no difference between the two. You can find a relationship online at either free personal dating or free personals service. Without costing a cent, you can find single personals at these free personal dating services.

Looking for a dating relationship online has never been easier. There are many single personals who are waiting online to meet their partners. They are the same as you. They are available and looking for a relationship online. Seeking for a relationship on the Internet is easy and convenient. Your relationship can be found right in front of your computer. For just few simple clicks and few minutes, you can view thousands of singles online at these free personals sites. You can contact with all these single personals for free. All these personal singles are seeking an online relationship like you. Start looking for a relationship on net is an easy task that all single people can do. So, please do not let your other half waiting too long online.

We all know that being a single woman or man is not fun. Whenever you see a couple walking on the street, at the shopping center, or at the movie theatre, how do you feel? Do you feel lonely? You need to find a companion. You need to have a partner to share your life with. Free personals service is the best answer to find that special someone. Life is short, you need to enjoy sharing your life with that someone. You need to take an action right away for joining these total free personal sites to find your dream mate today. There is no reason to wait for tomorrow, next week, next month, or next year. You have to find a beautiful companion today.

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