Children 1st = Bad Mother No exceptions. No three year old should EVER have the responsibility for an adult's failures and misfortunes shifted to her. Not ever. When children rule the home, it is always unhappy. Children learn by observing adults. Adults should be the center of children's lives, not the other way around. It is grossly unfair to a child to force them into the dominant position in their home, because the parent defaults on her responsibility to put the child in her natural place... subordinate. What good is she to them, if she lets them run her life and cause her to fray at the ends? How secure does a three year old feel when a teenager bends Mom any way she likes? Who runs that house? The teenager of course. I'll bet the tot feels great about that.
Can you date a single mother? Of course you can. Can you have a relationship with her? If and ONLY if she puts HERSELF first-- not her children. If she can't? Then she might be a fine dinner date, but no more than that. If she is not a good mother, she will be a worse wife. Bet on that.
As for you manginas out there who "understand", understand this: if you have any compassion for the unfortunate children involved, you will stay the hell out of it. Do NOT enable this kind of single mother. If those kids never see their Dad there is likely a reason... and it ISN'T him! Don't think you can save her (or them) from the dragon. There is none. Only her own childish and shameful antics. If you are part of that, then blame nobody but yourself when the teen calls the cops and accuses you of molesting her and your gf turns on you like a rabid animal.
Can you date a single mother? Of course you can. Can you have a relationship with her? If and ONLY if she puts HERSELF first-- not her children. If she can't? Then she might be a fine dinner date, but no more than that. If she is not a good mother, she will be a worse wife. Bet on that.
As for you manginas out there who "understand", understand this: if you have any compassion for the unfortunate children involved, you will stay the hell out of it. Do NOT enable this kind of single mother. If those kids never see their Dad there is likely a reason... and it ISN'T him! Don't think you can save her (or them) from the dragon. There is none. Only her own childish and shameful antics. If you are part of that, then blame nobody but yourself when the teen calls the cops and accuses you of molesting her and your gf turns on you like a rabid animal.
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