How to Get Your Ex Back - Great Ways of Getting Back With an Ex For Good!

By Rob C.

Are you looking for ways on how to get an ex back? Then I can help you, because I got my ex girlfriend back with very counter-intuitive methods. I say counter intuitive because they are exactly the opposite of what I thought should be done when you are dumped by your girlfriend or boyfriend.

When my girlfriend dumped me, what I thought that I should do was to simply and sincerely apologize to her, and if that failed, buy her some flowers and gifts. And if those failed too I didn't have anything more to do. This was very wrong! That is why I call those methods counter intuitive.

The methods I talk about employ the inaccessibility principle in human psychology. This principle states that if a person can not easily achieve something, he or she is going to want that even more. And this can be translated into relationships. You shouldn't beg or apologize firmly to your girlfriend. This will make you only more easily achievable in her eyes.

What you should do instead, is to act like you actually accept the breakup and think it is a good idea. This will move you from the "easily achievable" status to the "unreachable" status and will have great effects in getting your ex back to you; because now she knows that she can't have you any moment she wants. This is known as the inaccessibility trick since you're making yourself inaccessible for your girlfriend, and this is indeed a very counter intuitive method.

To get my ex back, I used a lot of methods utilizing the "make yourself inaccessible" and "invoke your ex's curiosity" principles. I did it by following a "complete game plan".

I have made a webpage on how I got my girlfriend back and my story. If you want an ex back, be sure to see my site by clicking here - see a story and "how to"!

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