Boomer Dating - Want to Fly Into Mr Wonderful's Arms? Try Flapping Your Wings

Apathy - sitting and waiting for love without exerting the effort to make it happen - just may be the number one cause of single woman loneliness.

Consider the robin. Could she fly if she perched apathetically on a tree branch waiting for a favorable breeze? Not likely. Robin knows that if she fails to flap her wings, an earlier bird is going to catch the worm. So with a flick of her feathers, she's airborne.

We know a woman in Colorado who - after her husband's passing and a year of breakfast-for-one and supper with the six o'clock news - murmured a silent prayer as she walked in the cool mountain air: "Please, Lord, open my heart to a new love.

A few days later, her landlady rang her bell. "A new man just moved in a couple of doors down from you. Tall, kinda good-looking, and I'd say early 60s. Keep your eyes open." Joyce did. When she saw him head for the mailbox, she picked up her key and followed. A 20-minute conversation led to other conversations. "But," Joyce complained to her son-in-law a couple of months later, "this relationship isn't going anywhere. I'm out of practice. What do I do next?"

"For heaven's sake," he declared, "this is the 21st century. Invite him to dinner." But before she did, he did, and a few months later he asked a more serious question. "My answer was yes," smiles Joyce, "and now only one of us has to go out for the mail."

Joyce is a natural-born wing-flapper, but for some of us apathy is a malady difficult to overcome. There were probably half a dozen women fantasizing about Victor as he passed their apartment windows that first week of his arrival on the scene.

Unlike Joyce, they were too timid, or too afraid of rejection, to flap their wings.

Too many women in their 50s and beyond have given up on ever meeting Mr. Practically Perfect. We did it. So can you. That's why we wrote, "It's Never Too Late to Date" with its 43 helpful Rx's for mating and dating after 50. To learn more, visit http://www.itsnevertoolatetodate.com. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Howard_Eisenberg

By Howard Eisenberg

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Sensual Bliss For Women Over 50 - 7 Simple Ways to Unleash Your Sensual Side and Rev-Up Your Libido

There's a lot of negative sex talk and relationship confusion going around within the 'women over 50 group'. When lust starts fading away, complacency sets in. And the next step is a full blown 'I don't care' attitude. Obviously this is a place where you don't want to stay.

And then there are women who have leaped from sexual depression into an exciting, sensual life of their own creation...with revved up libido as a side order.

Don't be a victim of our culture's expectations of aging. You can enjoy the magnificence
of intimate relationships for the next 30 years or more!

How to Enjoy Your Bonus Years at Your Full Sensual Potential:

The only solution: you need to recharge. So, take time for yourself and try these 7 ways to sensual pleasure and you'll see: it's like continuous foreplay!

LEARN TO TEASE AGAIN: Surely you remember how to do this. Make an innuendo and then back off. Just a little. Women have been masters of this art for centuries. It's in our DNA. Remember: just the act of teasing is the same as 'teasing yourself'. That's how to get the excitement going. The TEASE is powerful and can be better than physical sex.

TREASURE AROMAS:Our 'smell memory' is more acute than our other senses. You know a rose by smell, even without seeing it. We love scented candles, the hint of a luxurious perfume and most of all we're attracted to the familiar scent of our lover's warm neck while cuddling in bed. Special blends of essential oils can help give you that extra 'zip' or a calming effect when used in a diffuser, candle or mist. Savor the smell.

EYE TOUCH: Your eyes have feeling. Just look at a photo of your pet, grandchildren or someone you love. Now, look your man in the eye and say 'I Love You'. Certainly the feeling is warm and deep compared to shouting the same words from across the room. Don't just 'see' with your eyes. FEEL with your eyes. This is why the long gaze of flirting is so enticing.

YOUR SONG: A sharp, demanding voice will never rev-up your libido. This goes both ways. Speak kindly and softly. YOU start the conversation. Ask "how was your day?" Or "how do you feel today? I feel great!" Even your own affirmation will do wonders for your own feelings and desire.

EMBRACE THE NOW: Caress, hug, kiss, lick, stroke, pat...touching throughout the day keeps the coals smoldering. This is the easiest way to make a 'connection' with your lover and your own sensual side. Most couples touch only in the bedroom and then expect the fire to start, like turning on a stove. Nope! Doesn't work that way.

THE TEMPTRESS: Speak to each other. Be kind and be considerate. Remember, what you give is what you get. AND when the time is right, tantalize and tease with sensual words, a woman's skill. So give yourself a seductive refresher course. You'll be surprised how this foreplay affects YOUR sexual desire.

BODY LANGUAGE: Touch yourself in a seductive way, wink, stare, moisten your lips... in public! No one will notice but you'll feel a little dangerous. This is like seducing yourself. Remember: your mind is a woman's sensual organ. Don't be surprised if you get that 'tingling' feeling. Try it, it works!

And now, for more tips and examples, I invite you to download my free report, "The Truth About Your Libido and The Rev-up Secret No Body Talks About!" http://www.SensualBlissForWomenOver50.com/fr.html.

Rebecca Eisele (60+ herself) shows 'women over 50' fun, creative ways to unleash their magnificent sensual side to reclaim their passion and sexual desire. Visit my blog and join in: http://www.SensualBlissForWomenOver50.com.

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Middle Aged Dating Tips - Getting Started Again

Many people are now starting to try to get back in the dating game after many years of being married, either due to divorce or being widowed. Regardless of why you are back on the dating scene, trying to date at middle age can be fairly intimidating. If you have been married or with someone for a very long time, you will quickly see that the dating scene has changed a good bit since the last time you dated. How do you get started again, and find that special someone? That is the focus of this article.

The first thing to do is to really take a good look at your own wants and needs. Before you can possibly try to go out and date someone else, you need to have some type of idea of the type of person you would want to date. The best way to do that is to know those things that you are willing to compromise on, and those things that you are not. If you are a Christian, nonsmoking, animal rights lover for example, you would not want to go out hunting for an Atheist, smoking, fur lover. This seems obvious, but it is something we all must do when going into the dating market. At middle age, you do not want to waste a lot of time dating people that you know you will not have any long term interest in. Find those qualities you are looking for, and then move on to the next step.

The next step is to take those qualities you are looking for in a date, and consider where you might find such a person. If you love racing, get out to the racetrack. If you love dancing, get out to the various dancing clubs around. Generally speaking, it is easy to figure out where you might find those people that suit you if you just give it some thought.

Another middle aged dating tip is get out and try something new. Many people find someone to spend time with simply by attending a "beginners" type activity. The benefit here is that all are beginners in the classes, so you instantly have something in common to talk about. Jump into conversation with those around you, and you might be surprised that a number of them may be single. Do not be afraid to ask somebody out if they attract you and they seem to be of the same mind.

The biggest key to middle aged dating is to get out there and try. So many people do not even try as they feel they are too long out of the game. The bottom line is that every age group has a number of people that are in the same situation as you, and they are just as scared and nervous. You simply need to get out there and find them so that you can be nervous together.

When dating at middle age, it is also important to take things slow and resist the normal urge to rush. Many middle-agers feel as though "the clock is ticking" and that they must find someone quickly. This is simply not the case for the vast majority, and finding the wrong middle age date is much worse than being alone. Take your time and find that person that you enjoy. They are out there, and you will find them if you just put in some effort.

After years of being in a relationship, you need to also realize that the times changed in the dating world. There are now tons of options that were not out there when you were younger. Online dating services are a wonderful way to meet people of the same interests, and are rather easy to use. Just be sure that you do some online dating research and find a reputable online dating service to use.

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