Secrets of Blissful Relationships - Cut It Out!

Relationships are built on time.  If you never spent a minute
with your sweetheart there is no chance that you would even be in
a relationship.  The more hours, days and months worth of positive
communicating you do, the stronger your ties become and the more
successful your relationship can be.  If you want a truly blissful
relationship you need to carve in a reasonable amount of time in
your schedule to be together.  Often, that means you need to get rid
of something.  So let's consider some ways to "simplify" your life
and create more time for relaxing and relating with your life mate.

Some of these will work for you, others will not.  Do what is
reasonable for you.

* Unless you really enjoy yard work, consider getting rid of your
lawn.  Many flowerbeds take considerably less time (and water)
to maintain than a lawn.  Or, move to a condominium or townhouse
where yard maintenance is taken care of for you.  Athena and I
have lived in condos and townhomes for much of our married life.
That is one reason we have the time to do so much fun stuff and
travel for long periods.

* All too often people "inherit" pets that they really never
wanted. If you are not strongly attached to your pet, consider
offering it to a family who would dearly love it.  Pets can take a
lot of your time (and money) so don't feel guilty for putting your
relationship first.

* When making a meal like lasagna or a casserole, consider making
two or three while all the ingredients are out and put the extra
in the freezer for a night when you want to relax.  Athena and I
bought an upright freezer just so we could do that.

* Unplug the television.  It saps more hours from most couples than
anything else.  Even worse, television entices you and your children
to buy stuff you don't need, making you work more to buy "stuff."

* Cancel sales catalogs, ezines and magazines you never read (or read
out of habit - not out of enjoyment).  Take the time to remove your
name from junk mail lists.  Here is a website where you can do that.

* Use automatic bill payment as much as possible.  Almost every
bill and mortgage can be set up.  Most employers are now able to
provide automatic deposit.

* If you use credit cards, consolidate all of them to one card that
you use and one as a back up in case of emergencies.  Set it up
for automatic bill payment too.  It will force you to pay it off
every month.

* Don't overwork your kids (and yourself) by signing them up for
every possible activity.  Let them choose one or two at a time they
are most interested in.

* Drop out of clubs/organizations that you don't enjoy or don't
have much value for you.

* Get in the habit of asking yourself, "will this
purchase/activity/experience help me to have a more blissful
relationship or will it put stress on it?"  The more deliberate we
are in our decisions on how to spend our time and money, the more
likely we are to make choices that will strengthen our relationships.

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Female Orgasm: On your marks, get set, ohhh!

“Anticipation makes the hard-on longer.” – Itsby Stevintary
Sex and the Olympics go together like Michael Phelps and water. At the Olympic Games in Beijing, athletes were provided with 100,000 condoms (that’s more than 10 each!), and things got even hotter with 150,000 condoms shipped into London’s Olympic Village this year. But it’s not just the athletes who might want some podium-worthy action – all that Lycra is getting us a little flushed, too. If you’re feeling a similar stirring, grab your nearest female competitor and gear up for some Olympic-inspired fun. Just work out your competitive sex styles and how you can align them and you’ll be out of the starting blocks before the gun’s even fired.
If you’re a sprinter
Sharing a bed but your climaxes aren’t even in the same postcode? Part of the reason could be that women can take around 20 minutes to reach full arousal, while you’re perfectly capable of enjoying sweet post-coital dreams by then. So how can you have her join in the hard-and-fast run without her feeling unsatisfied at the end? The key lies in separating mind and body – getting the former psyched for what the latter is about to experience. So take foreplay down a notch, speed-wise. While she slips into her lingerie, after having taken a bath, start touching her lightly, brushing her thighs and breasts will make it feel extra hot once you finally take over and do the deed. Then once you’re in bed with her, don’t settle for just one position. If you’re a sprinter, if you linger on one single way of doing it, you’ll finish even faster. Alternatively, you can choose a less familiar spot to get naked (kitchen table?) as it will get her adrenaline pumping. She could also take hold of your penis and squeeze just below the head – the pressure will push blood back down your penis and diminish the sexual tension. Finally, try some dirty talk to ramp up the tempo for her and have her crossing the finish line neck and neck with you – if not first.
Too fast… It could be that you’re suffering from premature ejaculation – not necessarily a problem as long as you’re both happy. If not, there are things you can do about it – from mastering techniques during sex, to using shallow movements instead of deep thrusts. And if you’re often over keen, you could be looking for swift release from stress, or you might be simply so into her. Yeah, I’m guessing that’s it.
If you’re a diver
Going down on a woman is one of the most intimate moves a man can make, so it’s no surprise 43 per cent of women are keen for oral sex. If you love diving down below, try this trick. Suck her gently, as if through a straw. Once she’s aroused, form an “O” with your lips, pulling and releasing. It can be intense, so you should follow her cues to ensure the pressure works. If oral doesn’t feature in your repertoire, too bad! Especially if you’re more than keep on her giving you deep-sea action. And don’t think she doesn’t want it just because she never asks for it. A woman will never do that, so take the lead and you’ll both reap the benefits.
Victory Lap… Win! You are now an unselfish lover who wants to showcase how dedicated he is to her partner’s pleasure as well as his own. Let the reciprocal loving… and blowing begin!
If you’re a gymnast
Men fall into camps: the “lie back and let me do my thing” variety, versus the guy who sees sex as an extension of his gym workout. If you’re type two and boast good upper-body strength, you’re suited for positions that require you to take your partner’s weight. Indulge your inner caveman by going for sex against the wall with your partner’s legs wrapped around your waist, or take it to the shower to steam things up. If that doesn’t work for her, start in the missionary position and kneel up straight, holding her hips so her torso is at 45 degrees to the bed. A rocking motion should have both of you grinding to a climax in minutes. On the other hand, she can hone her inner gymnast by training her pelvic muscles – strong muscles result in strong orgasms!
Flex your muscles… Showing off your super-toned body and demonstrating your strength and flexibility are classic mating rituals designed to impress. You’re an alpha male and you enjoy the feeling of being in charge in the bedroom. However, that’s not to say you shouldn’t accept some female domination from time to time. So by all means, feel free to let her take over the spotlight.
If you’re a marathon man
A major scientific sex survey conducted found the perfect sex session lasts between seven and 15 minutes- and that some of us think even three minutes is “adequate” (really?). However, forget what the scientists say – taking it slowly could be the path to your most mind-blowing orgasm ever (and hers!). And if you’re the type of guy who enjoys pleasuring your partner, tantric sex could reap huge benefits for you both. If you can keep going, you could be in for a marathon session. Tantra isn’t just about opening your chakras and trying not to picture Sting naked: it’s also about enjoying each intimate moment of sex, not just the race to orgasm. First, plan a sexy night at home and find a way to bond that doesn’t involve sex – whether it’s taking a bath together or sharing a bottle of red wine. Then, when you’re both totally relaxed, it’s time to explore what turns you on physically and mentally. Just about any activity can be made erotic. To find out what works for you, try playing Yin Yang – where each of you takes it in turns to be Yang, in charge of requesting pleasure from your partner. A massage? A little bit of oral attention? Gentle stroking? Aim to spend three hours over the whole experience and you and your partner will be feeling a connection for days.
Long-distance lover… If your grinding leaves your partner feeling sore or bored (of the 60 per cent of women who’ve faked it, many cite this as the reason), speed it up by switching to the girl-on-top position. That way she gets to set the pace.

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3 more hot lovemaking tips

Men love the feeling of being deep-throated but it is quite rare that
a woman can do that. Instead, extend your mouth by putting your wet
hand next to your lips. As your mouth moves up and down, accompany
the movement with your hand, which is wrapped around his shaft.



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When you are in the tub, maneuver your darling so his or her ge.nitals
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Tap on the cli.toris repeatedly like you were tapping on a keyboard
with one or two fingers (some women prefer the rod to do the
tapping).  There are a few women who do NOT like the tapping but in
a survey I did, most of them did enjoy it.



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How to Know if a Man Really Loves You

7 Simple Questions that Prove How He REALLY Feels

Answer these questions and you will INSTANTLY
know if any guy is a keeper... or needs to be tossed.

For all the details check out here: 1000 Questions For Couples

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Tasteful, juicy ideas for more spark between the sheets

Some tips for you regarding items that are already in your house...

  * The bathroom item that can help prolong orgasms  enjoy a
  marathon session with your partner using this simple object

  * A simple way to add an extra inch to the length of your penis
  (No pills or medicines required!)  increase your confidence
  and feel better about your manhood's size with this trick

  * 13 unique sex games you can play with household items  4 games
  you can play with items that are already in your living room!

  * Want to get your lady in the mood? These two items from your
  living room will help get both your engines revving no matter
  how tired you are!

  * A simple way to keep your penis erect longer  increase your
  chances of lasting longer and give your woman more powerful
  orgasms

  * Your man rarely in the mood? A closet item that is sure to get
  your man more excited about making love  don't be surprised if
  he gives you the most passionate, deep and sensual kiss you've
  ever had after this

  * A small 2 x 2 inch household item that can have your partner
  'hot and heavy' the minute they walk in the door

See more Tips, visit: Great Lovemaking House

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Romantic Ideas for Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day is a magical time of year where we are given the opportunity to share our love with the one who truly gives meaning to our lives.

All over the world, couples are planning on extravagant adventures, romantic excursions, getaways, and unbelievable date nights that will put the spark back into their relationships and leave their partners absolutely breathless.

But there's a problem for many of us out there..

We're "romantically challenged".

We've never felt comfortable being romantic. We don't experience a rush of creative and original ideas when planning out a romantic event, heck, we're barely able to pick out a decent greeting card at times.

We find these times of year overwhelming, and we sometimes need a bit of help coming up with thoughtful ways that we can express our love for the one person in our lives that we can always count on.

But while we WANT to be romantic, and we know that there are times (like on February 14th!) where we're EXPECTED to be romantic, it doesn't always come so naturally.

You're not alone.

There are thousands of us all over the world who need that extra guidance when planning out a romantic date, and with so much pressure to create the perfect Valentine's Day, we find ourselves dealing with can intense stress and anxiety.

After all, we can't all be born natural Casanova's!

But here's the thing. You are on this website because you know how important Valentine's Day is to your partner. You don't want them feeling left out, neglected or unappreciated.

Your partner does a lot for you, and she (or he) deserves to be treated like the centre of your world, because they are.

So, if you truly want to give them a day they will always remember, and show them that you put your best effort into celebrating the love you share.. We've got you covered!

This year, you are going to make it a day they will never forget, because as of right now, you will have more than enough creative and affordable ideas to melt their hearts and leave them breathless!

Even if you are on a shoestring budget, have kids to deal with, or can't whisk your sweetheart away on a romantic getaway, it doesn't matter! There are ideas for EVERYONE and EVERY lifestyle!

Click HERE to See More

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Why Men LIE To Women They Love

Do ALL men lie to women they love?
According to relationship expert Michael Fiore they do.
Fiore (who’s appeared on the Rachael Ray show as well as countless radio shows and in many, many magazines) say even “good guys” lie to women they love each and every day . . . and it’s not for the reasons women think.
“So many women think the guys in their lives are either princes or jerks,” says Fiore, “but the truth is more frightening and more complicated than that.”
Mr. Fiore recently put together a controversial video in which he explains the REAL reason men lie to women they love . . . why men CHEAT on women . . . why men don’t communicate . . . and many of the other questions that drive women crazy about men and make it impossible for women to have the relationships they want.
“There’s one simple step to having the relationship of your dreams,” Mr. Fiore says “And that’s truly understanding the minds of men.”
Incredible Video
To watch Mr. Fiore’s incredibly video simply go to HERE NOW. Due to the controversial nature of this video it may be taken down at any time.

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