Why Men LIE To Women They Love

Do ALL men lie to women they love?
According to relationship expert Michael Fiore they do.
Fiore (who’s appeared on the Rachael Ray show as well as countless radio shows and in many, many magazines) say even “good guys” lie to women they love each and every day . . . and it’s not for the reasons women think.
“So many women think the guys in their lives are either princes or jerks,” says Fiore, “but the truth is more frightening and more complicated than that.”
Mr. Fiore recently put together a controversial video in which he explains the REAL reason men lie to women they love . . . why men CHEAT on women . . . why men don’t communicate . . . and many of the other questions that drive women crazy about men and make it impossible for women to have the relationships they want.
“There’s one simple step to having the relationship of your dreams,” Mr. Fiore says “And that’s truly understanding the minds of men.”
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What Men Desperately Want You To Know (But Will Never Tell You)

Do you ever find yourself staring at a man and wondering what he REALLY wants from you . . . what he REALLY dreams about . . . what he REALLY wishes for in a woman?
If you do, you’re certainly not alone.
According to relationship expert Michael Fiore (who’s appeared on the Rachael Ray show and was interviewed by Time Magazine), the number one thing women wish for is the ability to READ MEN’S MINDS and know how guys REALLY feel.
Unfortunately most guys will NEVER open up to a woman and there’s never been a way to get the actual TRUTH about what goes on in their minds.
Until now.
Michael Fiore recently sent a very simple, very powerful survey to a list of over 20,000 men asking one amazing question…
“What’s the one thing you wish the woman in your life understood about men, but could NEVER tell her?”
If you’d like to learn the answer to that question (what men want sexually, emotionally and intellectually… why men lie to women, why men cheat on women and so much more) you need to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video right now…Visit HERE to Learn More
Due the controversial nature of the video it may not be up for long. If you want to truly understand and be adored by men you should watch it while you can.

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“Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?”

Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying? For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men. 

Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very good at what they do because they’ve had a lot of practice! 

These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.

Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.

The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I need to find a man who will hurt me.” Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man. The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.

What if there was a way to effortlessly attract men that were both exciting as well as dependable? Not simply a technique, but a manual that showed how successful women captivate men in such a way that they never get mistreated.

What if information was available to transform you into the woman that men adore? Thankfully such information is available and it’s just one click away. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” shows every woman the secrets to attract and keep the man of her dreams. Click here to see for yourself!

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When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can Too!

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this:  

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me.  They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around.  Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying.  They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love.  Was it me?  After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape.  So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house?  The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner?  Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door?  

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men.  I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them.  What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?” 

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

I’d like to share with you the secrets that men find irresistible and powerless to resist. The dirty little secret is that having a perfect body isn’t nearly as important as you have been led to believe. You can discover this incredible information by simply clicking here.

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“If Only I Could Understand Men….”

Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do? 

Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.

1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.” 

2) Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.

3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful.

If you liked these insights, there are more available in Bob Grant’s wonderful e-book called, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave.” Bob Grant, L.P.C., has taken his 17 years of private practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach and condensed only the best information into a mouth-watering, powerful handbook on what men find themselves powerless to resist in a woman. You can have this information simply by clicking here.

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How to Dominate a Woman

Men with average looks never seem to get women to turn their heads - though this mostly has nothing to do with their actual looks, but due to the low confidence and self-esteem that seems to come therewith.

The minute such men see women who are beautiful, they instantly think that they have no chance with them. This has nothing to do with the women's mindsets, though; if women behave like any other man, they will be perceived as regular.

Additionally, you need to remember that the skills of a man in the world of seduction actually holds much more importance than his looks. Keep reading to figure out which techniques to use in order to be perceived as special by the opposite sex, for a change...

How Dominate Women in No Time...Whenever You Want (Three Techniques Of Surefire Seduction Domination You Must Know)

Technique Number One: Take it easy. No matter how beautiful a woman might be, it would be possible to get her to fall for you, regardless of how you see yourself - remember that. Although there is no real explanation for this, it actually happens.
If you really want to, you can try to find out the explanation, but it would be much easier to just do something about it right away. Once you want to take things to the next level, just let her know and also make sure she knows you do not want to push her into anything she doesn't want to be pushed into.

Technique Number Two: Play hard to get. Remember that women naturally like challenges - conversely, they will not value things which are easy to obtain. So how do you use this fact to your advantage?

Pretty simple, really. Just make it hard for her to win you over. Always be slightly unattainable - and play mind games as often as you can. When you are able to make her submit to your wishes, it makes it so much easier to dominate her.

Technique Number Three: Hack into her mind. If you truly wish to dominate women, you need to get into their minds and tap into their hot spots. If you have no trouble with the thought of using subtle techniques of psychology, you really should learn about mind control and the like.
One of these techniques is known as fractionation and comes with two steps that are easy to use. Even men who aren't experts at seduction can pull this particular technique off with ease.
The best thing about fractionation would be that, after mastering it, you can attract women by the truckload without being a professional sports man or having a well-known name. With fractionation, you can also attract and completely dominate any woman of your choice. Outstanding stuff indeed!

However, please be careful...as fractionation ( http://www.FractionationFormula.com ) could be the most explosive piece of seduction technology ever invented.
This technique is simple to use but it gives "seduction superpowers" to the regular guy to attract the woman of his dreams. If you want to seduce women in as quickly as 15 minutes, then download the Fractionation Formula for free.

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Dating Tips For Men - How to Make a Woman Never Forget You!

I think that all men know that they have to be able to make a pretty god, lasting impression on a woman if they want things to evolve. If you want to make an impact and make her never forget you, then there is one mistake that you can never allow yourself to make with a woman. And that is...never be BLAND.

A lot of men, especially those that are bot really confident in themselves kind of jst stick to being bland and as a result, blend into the background whenever they are around women. Of course, this will only guarantee that you do NOT make a lasting impression on a woman.
So, what's a guy to do?

Now, I wont tell you that you should try to become an outrageous personality or anything like that. You do have to get yourself noticed, though. Don't shy away from holding a conversation, even being the one to initiate the interaction with a woman.

You have to be able to get off of the wall, and start making yourself known to women.
There was a time when a few buddies of mine were complaining about their lack of success with women. So, one night, we all decided to hit this little bar nearby where a LOT of good looking college girls go to.

So, we get inside, and what do my friends do?
They grab a table, order a drink, and that's about it.
Of course they were not having any luck. They weren't doing anything at all to get ant attention. Of course, I got up out of my seat and found a couple of women that were by themselves and invited them to come sit with us.

Long story short, my buddies had a better time that night than the last few months combined. You don't have to be a silver tongued smooth talker to do this. Just a simple opener, and an invitation to come and join you is often more than enough.

To make the impression last, you have to be able to get into a conversation or start flirting with her right away. You want a woman to feel like she is not just having a great time with you now, but that she wants to experience MORE great times with you.

This is how you are going to create a lasting impression on a woman. Get of the wall and start to approach women.

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Tips on Dating: 5 Ways to Screw Up Royally

The moment has finally arrived. That person you wanted to go out with gave you the green light.

Took them long enough. Keep that thought to yourself but it did take them long enough. Nonetheless you were patient and persistent without going overboard; at least that is your story and you are sticking to it. But a few things are clear. The other person is not going out with you because of pity or a desire to get you off their back. They are going out with you because they like you and want to.

Yet sometimes when we humans get exactly what we want, there is a tendency to consciously or sub consciously self sabotage the moment. Or in plain English screw it up royally.

Naturally you want to make a fantastic and lasting impression on the person. The whole aim is make a connection to get more dates and possibly grow a relationship.

However if your goal is to create a lasting impression and not the good kind then try the following.

1. Exaggerate Your Worth

In some countries including this one it is known as lying. And it does not have to be the super duper kind that get your date looking at you funny. Just little shades of gray that do not add up can have the same effect.

2. Did You Mention That...?

Commonly referred to as hogging the conversation. You are excited about the date. Terrific. As a matter of fact you are so excited that you have talked thru the entire date. The evening is over and you do not know anymore about the person than you did before the two of you went out. Oh that's right you do know a couple of things about them. One is they don't talk much. And two they seem to have a lot of tension in their jaw muscles.

3. Your Sphinx Impersonation

Are you happy the person is going out with you? No doubt about it. Except you are not quite conveying it. No you do not dominate the conversation which is good. The problem is you have no conversation; which is not good. No jokes, no topics of discussion and your response to anything your date says is unresponsive. Still it's curious to you as to why they wanted to go home early.

4. Fashionably Late

You are going to wow your date when they first lay eyes on you by dressing to the nines. You look so good that you can't stand it.

Neither can your date because in your quest to knock their socks off, you were late. Very late. No biggie because look at the end result. You look great but you were still not on time and your date is still ticked off about it.

5. You Agree

Your date says their favorite color is blue. Yours too. Your date says their favorite sport is ice hockey. Yours too. Your date says their favorite hobby is to go swimming in the Nile River; upstream. Yours too. In fact you agree to everything they say. This is a clear sign that you are either their long lost twin (in which case you should not be dating) or that you are trying to make such a impression that you are agreeing to just about anything and everything. Not a good idea.

Yes you are excited about this date. You should be. You should also want to make a good impression. No problems there. But if you want the date to end on a sour note with no chance of ever dating this person or any other person successfully by all means follow any or all of the five tips listed above.

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Five Sweet Things to Make Her Feel Special and Fall For You Tonight

We can't help but get a little tongue tied around girls even on a date --- hey, you should be happy and take advantage of this opportunity in any way you can! Dating a girl would be the perfect way for you to get to know each other plus, the flirting fun begins! But wait --- if you want to get a little close for comfort, nothing beats reciting a few sweet lines to make her blush and feel a little giddy inside. So if you're planning to have an all-out romantic night tonight, here are five sweet things to say to girls that will definitely take your relationship on the next level. Here's how:

• "I wish you were my girlfriend." A lot of confidence is needed to say this out loud --- and make sure both of you have reached a certain level of comfort for each other that it'll make it sound smoother and more romantic. Of course, you don't blurt this out on your first date together --- she'll definitely flee from you the next minute. So be patient.
• "You look real pretty when you smile". Ever wondered what makes a girl go totally weak to her knees? Tell her she looks pretty when she smiles. One of the many soft spots of women is when you compliment them about their good looks --- it's a sure way to make her blush.
• "I want to hold your hand." So you're both getting a little flirty and you can practically feel her breathing on your neck --- go ahead and pop the question. Or better yet, gradually inch your hand toward hers and then say that you want to hold her hand. Believe me, 90% of the time, she'll say yes.
• "I feel very happy when you're around." Let's say you're almost on that level when you're almost a couple --- this is probably the sweetest thing to say to a girl --- not to mention that this is going to be beautiful start before asking her to be your girlfriend. Hurray!
• "I think I'm falling in love with you." Surprises can be romantic and girls love them. Nothing beats drama if you want to keep up with a girl. So catch her off guard by saying this line out of the blue: "I think I'm falling in love." Well, don't expect her to say the very same thing right away. Give her time. But heck, who knows? Maybe she's been waiting for it forever.

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Dating With Dangerous Consequences - Is She Worth the Risk?

By Matt D Fuller

Whether it is the boss's daughter, perhaps you (secretly) fancy the girl your friend likes, regardless of the predicament, beautiful women are everywhere you go, with the possibility of dangerous consequences.

Your friend's sister.

Why not to: Blood is much thicker than water, and by going there, you are seriously jeopardizing their relationship that has been established for many years, and there is no guarantee yours will last.

Why you should go for it: If there is mutual attraction and you both have common interests, it's a sound foundation for any relationship, according to Dr Pam Spurr, author of Fabulous Foreplay. "If your friends sister is younger than you, which is normally the case in these situations, there is every chance she has had a secret crush on you".

Are you a bit of a love rat? well you run the risk of your mate becoming protective of his little sis so she doesn't get hurt. You need to prove you're not out to simply put another notch on your belt. You need to prepare your friend by discussing how career focused you are, and indicate that you have the ability to provide for her. Big brothers are typically over protective of their little sisters, so your friend will feel more comfortable if his sister dates someone he knows really well, which is you!

Your child's school teacher.

Why not to: Parent-teacher nights can take the focus off the purpose of the meeting if your child's teacher is giving you bedroom eyes at the same time as assessing your child's report card. The ramifications can be damaging if the teacher is a heavy influence on your child's life, who will suffer if the romance goes sour.

Why you should go for it: If there is some chemistry building between you and the teacher, and you're a single parent, apart from using online dating sites , the opportunity to meet new singles doesn't come up all that often, and given that you have already established common ground, it would be hard to pass up the opportunity.

You only have a few minutes to seize on this window of opportunity, so utilize your speed dating skills after you have been through your child's report card, the fastest way to make an impression - according to Harvard psychologist Dr Zick Rubin, is to "establish 5-6 seconds of eye contact, and to divulge personal information", something really simple like, favorite foods or recreational/exercise habits.

The boss's daughter - tread very carefully with this one!

Why not to: Your boss controls your finances and could make your life very uncomfortable both financially and during work. Undressing your boss's daughter with your eyes is one sure way not to get a pay rise.

Why you should go there:

It pretty much goes without saying that she is off limits, many will look, but touching is risky. She holds power by affiliation, and bedding powerful women is high up on the list of 'must do's' for sexually active men. You can count on the fact that most of your competition will be too scared to go there, so you will have a clear and unchallenged run, and she will appreciate your audacity and risk taking - best of luck with your new father in law.

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Dating Tips For Baby Boomers

If you're reading this you are probably in your late forties or fifties and considering a new partner. The reasons why are not important, what is important is how you approach dating again.

For many over forties re-entering the dating arena is scary. What we took as common place in our teens and twenties just doesn't hold in today's society and it's wise to take precautions. Here are a few handy tips.

Tip One: Where to find the right match.

There are a myriad of dating sites but they come with their own problems. Not everyone online is honest about their intentions and, if you're new to online dating you can easily fall prey to those who may not have your best interests at heart.

Look at your current social circle including family and ask yourself if they could introduce you to people - even just friends. Networking works and with today's social media like twitter and blogs you could soon find yourself connecting with strong possibles.

Tip Two: Define what you want.

Do you really know what you're looking for? Take time out and write down five of the characteristics you need most in your next partner like kindness, financially stable, mature. Each time you make a connection refer to your list and if the date doesn't fit, move on.

Tip Three: Stop wasting time.

We've all read the book or seen the movie 'He's just not that into you." Recognise the signs and move on. The longer you have 'flotsam' in your life, the more tied down you are and the harder it is to find the right partner.

You could trip over the perfect partner but not be in a position to get to know them if you're still hanging on to the wrong one for fear of being alone or simply because the devil you know may be better than the one you don't. Move on!

Tip Four: Be Honest.

Being honest about who you want in your life means being honest with yourself as well as others. Don't let friends badger you into dating someone you know isn't your type. Don't be afraid to excuse yourself during a date if the situation is awkward or uncomfortable, there is a polite way out of it.

If you're online make your profile as honest as possible but be careful of what you say. If you do meet someone you like let them know that you are seeking a meaningful relationship. Be honest in your appearance by putting truthful images online and dressing as you normally would. A visual lie will catch you out instantly and create upset. Honesty expects respect.

Tip Five: Have a back up plan.

In any situation request a visual meeting. No one can tell what a person is like just from a picture or a quick telephone conversation. Avoid text messages and emails as they are the easiest places to hide your true self. Meet, and quickly.

Arrange a short meeting first and be sure to advise the other party that you have exactly ten or thirty minutes - just enough time to form a true impression. You can always arrange another meeting and anticipation is good.

Ask a friend to phone on your mobile after ten minutes so that you have an out. You can always ask them to call back later if you're enjoying yourself.

Tip Six: Re- evaluate.

After a few different dates take time to evaluate those people you've met and see if they uphold the five important values you assigned to your perfect partner. If they only matched up to some then agree to see them again to see if there are others on the list you didn't notice.

If they don't match up to any then scratch them off your list totally.

If they match up to all of them then let them know you are looking for a long term relationship with someone like them but don't be over pushy or you could spoil it. Just be honest. If they feel the same way, they'll respect that and move forward with you to accomplish it.

Tip Seven: Watch out for abusers.

There are always those who abuse systems like online dating and take advantage of people who are serious about seeking a long term partner. Be aware of this and try to pace your dating and date more than one potential partner to start with.

Dating isn't having sex. It's having fun and getting to know someone. Meetings can be short and engaging without getting physical. Physicality lowers our survival instincts and sends mixed messages. Wait before you get physical, you can show interest in many other ways.

Tip Eight: Listen to your friends and family.

If you believe you have connected with a good potential partner take them to meet friends or family. Engineer a meeting where they feel comfortable and where your friends and family can see them in a social environment.

Whether we like it or not, friends and family often see a side to someone that we don't when we are enamoured.

Tip Nine: Keep the children out of it.

As an over forty you may well have children. Consider their feelings when you start dating again and, whilst they be aware you are dating, keep them away from all dates until you are certain you are entering a strong relationship.

Children become attached very quickly to single parents new partners and this can be damaging if the relationship ends quickly after starting. Introduce a new date as a friend but preferably keep them away from your home life until you are sure things are going well enough for it to warrant an introduction to your children.

Tip Ten: Have Fun!

Whilst dating is not a scientific experiment our world has ensured that we need help to meet the right people. It's not as easy as in our twenties. We don't go clubbing, bar hopping or partying at this age so alternatives are necessary.

Make it fun for yourself. Join in activities that you'd do anyway like hiking, yoga, dancing, DIYing, racing, horse riding. It makes sense that you'll find like minded people doing things that you like within the boundaries that you set. Above all, have fun!

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Dating Tips for Women - What Men Really Want

Romance books full of hot tips today. David Kamau is an online dating expert who also writes online dating reviews.">Listen up ladies to the best dating tips for women.

So Ladies; have you ever felt like you just do not understand what men expect from their dates? We're here to help you out with our set of the best dating tips.

First, you should keep in mind that men are more emotional than popularly thought. Mind you, most men are not the type to cry when watching a romantic movie, but their passions are deep nonetheless. When a man gets excited about football or about the newest car, that emotion is no less real than your tears at a sad movie. If you treat those feelings like they are "silly" or "stupid", you will offend them no less than if he treated your movie-created tears the same way. Passion is passion, even if we men will not usually admit that we are emotional.

Second, you ladies need to talk to us and explain things to us! That is honestly one of my best dating tips for girls. When we tell you we honestly do not know what is wrong, or if it seems like we are oblivious, we really do not notice or know. It is not that we are callous heartless monsters, we just do not know what is wrong or what you want ... and we will not unless you tell us.

Third, men generally do not like being put on the spot with "trick" questions. What may seem like a nuanced, but simple, question to you seems like a confusing female version of the Spanish Inquisition to us! That is not the say we are not aware of shades of gray, but men often have a difficult time answering "fuzzy" and "girly" questions. This is often because we do not understand what you are actually asking us. (See the tip before this one.)

Finally, try to avoid nitpicking things about your man that may irritate you. We men tend to call that "nagging", even if you call it "honesty" or "feedback". If your date perturbs you that much, stop dating him! Few things will put off a man like the impression that a woman is trying to change him. We do not mind a little feedback now and again, but do not try to "fix" us.

These types of things are obvious to most men, even if we are horrible are clearly expressing them. A little more effort from both sexes to understand the other can go a long way. If you keep in mind these best dating tips for girls, you will find yourself making a much better impression on the boys you date.

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To Love, Again

To Love, Again by Melinda M. Sorensson

We are bound not only by material things but also by our emotional attachments. It is much easier to detach ourselves from things. Not so with people.

I ran away when I was 7 years old. Not away from my parents home but to my parents home from my aunt and uncle's home 5 miles away from where my parents lived.

Even then I knew that it would be better if someone were with me so I took two of my friends from my uncle’s neighborhood and we walked the five miles. We were young and it was fun. It took us two hours but time flew by.

I was lonely at my uncle's home. It was a summer vacation and my parents thought it would be nice for me to spend a week with my aunt and uncle who did not have children of their own. I was a living doll on loan for a week. After three days, I was homesick. I missed my mother but I missed my father most.

My mother was livid that I did what I did but my father just laughed and welcomed me in his arms, and within a couple of hours my aunt and uncle, frantic about not finding me, and the parents of my two friends came to our home, to get to take my friends home. I said goodbye knowing that it will be a long time before we get to see each other again. It was then I knew what it was like to be attached.

One of my colleagues, a wise man, told me a very long time ago, that all relationships end, whether voluntarily or involuntarily.

At that time I thought, wow, that was not a very happy view of life, and yet it is the truth. Even if we love another during a lifetime, there is still death to contend with. Things are impermanent. Ties are impermanent.

In the beginning of romantic love, two feelings are evidently felt: Fascination with the other person, a curiosity that is sustained for a period of time, and the promise of passion, sexual union. There is an illusion that the one person can sustain both with another.

I am thinking of the words fascination and passion. So vivid, so colorful, so intriguing.

Fascination comes every time there is something new and different.

Passion is a need to unite with the object of affection at the physical level.

Fascination ends and passion fades, in time. It is the nature of humans to get bored and tired of something no matter how good. It is only a matter of time.

Uncontrolled, passion can burn. While the object of passion is to unite with the object of affection it is without meaning unless both people have united at the level of the soul.

There is so much energy associated with passion that it is what is required to create. In some it is channeled to a great work of art. With the saints, the object of affection is God.

To use the energy of passion is the highest form of yoga.

It is not possible for anyone to sustain the fascination and passion of another, forever. To think so would be to delude oneself.

It follows that the only kind of relationship that would work long term is the one where there is no expectation beyond the bounds of common self respect. Treat the other person the way you want to be treated. Moreover, you give what you desire the most not because of the hope for a return but because it is the most natural thing to do.

By this I mean that you do not disrespect the other because who you are really disrespecting yourself when you do so. By this I mean that honesty, trust, loyalty and understanding are implicit.

It is a relationship where either person is free to leave at any time and the other would be happy for the other person regardless.

In this case romantic love, the needy, clinging, grasping, possessing quality of it, is replaced by something entirely different. A soul connection. The kind that lets oneself and the other be. Like having your best friend. A mirror of yourself.

It is the kind of love that sees the other person just as he or she is, not through the illusion of perfection, but through the raw and naked quality of that person regardless of position in life, economic status and societal pressures.

I know that this kind of love exists. I saw it in my parents.

In this case the choice to be together is moment to moment rather than a promise of forever.

This is why I am afraid to be in love, again. It is not because I am not able to love deeply, it is because I have not yet perfected this quality in my heart.

And when I have, I will know, and I will be free to love again. And I will offer it freely, without hope of return, without the need for a promise of forever, not even a wish for the person to acknowledge it.

For loving is it's own reward. It is a balm that heals both the giver and the receiver equally.

So I will love, unconditionally, freely and without bounds.

Eventually we will all have to give up all attachments to be really free. A free man does not single out another.

The distinction between love and hate, hope and fear, gain or loss, fame and shame must eventually be dissolved to have true freedom.

The kind of freedom that Buddha attained. I know I will have to do this sometime. We all do.

But for now I will love, live life and be happy.

For now, I will honor my karmic connections in this lifetime and hope that in so doing, I will still be on my path to true freedom.

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Attracting a Leo - Tips on How to Get the Lion

People born under the sign of Leo (July 21-August 23) which is a fixed fire sign are passionate beings and completely comfortable with who they are. In trying to attract a Leo, you must remember that their number one weakness is attention so make sure you shower them with all your fervent concentration and let them know they are adored and loved to the very core. Attracting a Leo is easy: they want to be praised 24/7 and it boosts their ego and personality. They like high-class settings and plush gifts, splendor and make sure you're made up from head to toe during a date.

This sign is opinionated, grand, loves to boast and would do extreme measures to let the world know how smart, astounding and amazing they are. The best weapon to beat the egocentricity: Be interested. Hang on to their every word and you're sure to tame the lion in no time. Attention is their Achilles heel. You may even overdo it, believe me. They love the attention! However, maintain being conversational, spontaneous, natural (though you can use a little tweak on that) and agreeable --- this can surely make you attract a Leo! Learn to compliment and keep things light, but talk in a manner with enthusiasm and wit. Keep note that Leos care so much of their self-image so let them know you take great notice of their character.

Leos love surprises so be ready and get unpredictable. It is their mission to enjoy life to the fullest, being open to something new and fresh and they expect you to do the same. They are very ambitious so spar with them --- they get attracted to people who have a strong personality like they do. But be cautious because at the same time, Leos tend to easily get off from a relationship since they are always seeking for new horizons. So try not to be boring. Keep the love alive!

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How do you get a guy to not just want you for sex??? (3)

Don't take offence cause this isn't personally directed at you, but most people (myself included) just aren't interesting enough to listen to entirely without sexual motivation. Attraction and the hopes for sexual interaction are what motivate many men to listen to women drone on about themselves.


Don't be offended by this because it is not directed at you personally... it's directed at all men that listen to or get to know women just to have sex.

It's comments like the one above that help convince women that all men want is sex. If sex is the a man's main motivation to listen and get to know a woman then he should visit a hooker. At least that would be honest on both parts. The type of man that listens to women to get sex is the type that I have to teach my daughters to steer clear from when they grow up.


But don't kid yourself, it[sex] is a need and it is still there, he's just putting it on hold in the hopes his investment will pay off later. At some point (probably within a month) you'll have to address his need or lose him.


The last time I checked no human has ever died because they did not have sex. Sex is NOT a need. Oxygen is a need. Food and water are needs. Sex is a want, a desire and a very high value.

The man who despises himself tries to gain self-esteem from sexual adventures—which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value . . .

Sex is a physical capacity, but its exercise is determined by man’s mind—by his choice of values, held consciously or subconsciously. To a rational man, sex is an expression of self-esteem—a celebration of himself and of existence. To the man who lacks self-esteem, sex is an attempt to fake it, to acquire its momentary illusion.

Romantic love, in the full sense of the term, is an emotion possible only to the man (or woman) of unbreached self-esteem: it is his response to his own highest values in the person of another—an integrated response of mind and body, of love and sexual desire. Such a man (or woman) is incapable of experiencing a sexual desire divorced from spiritual values.


Sex is one of the most important aspects of man’s life and, therefore, must never be approached lightly or casually. A sexual relationship is proper only on the ground of the highest values one can find in a human being. Sex must not be anything other than a response to values. And that is why I consider promiscuity immoral. Not because sex is evil, but because sex is too good and too important . . . .

[Sex should] involve . . . a very serious relationship. Whether that relationship should or should not become a marriage is a question which depends on the circumstances and the context of the two persons’ lives. I consider marriage a very important institution, but it is important when and if two people have found the person with whom they wish to spend the rest of their lives—a question of which no man or woman can be automatically certain. When one is certain that one’s choice is final, then marriage is, of course, a desirable state. But this does not mean that any relationship based on less than total certainty is improper. I think the question of an affair or a marriage depends on the knowledge and the position of the two persons involved and should be left up to them. Either is moral, provided only that both parties take the relationship seriously and that it is based on values.

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How do you get a guy to not just want you for sex??? (Part 2)

There are good guys out there, but many times the women think they are boring. I have a friend who is a great guy and my last girlfriend said he was good looking, but would never date him because he was boring. I couldn't figure it out at first, but then a lot of her friends kept picking guys that were "exciting", but always wanted justs sex.

He finally met a good lady who was interested in him. I think it's great. She likes him and he adores her. Her sisters keep trying to get her to go out with other guys who party more. You figure it out. I can't.

Just remember the next time when you talk to a guy and all he wants to talk about is sex. Is there a guys close to you who is a good guy, but he's boring? Sometimes, you get what you're searching for.

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