So, you think your marriage is heading towards the dreadful end - but you want to stop your divorce. How to do that when everything seems hopeless? I was in your shoes a while ago. I thought I had tried everything I could, but still nothing changed. I couldn't move my spouse an inch - everything seemed hopeless. But I was taught to do the right things afterwards and stop my divorce from happening. So here are some very important tips:
1. Be Inaccessible: I know that you are either thinking of begging to your spouse for your marriage, or you have already done that. Whatever the case, you should AVOID doing that at all costs. Why? Simple - it's because people always want what they can't have. When you're begging your spouse, you're actually screaming "I am easy to have!!" and this works against you. Cut this out, and make that principle work for our advantage instead of your disadvantage.
2. Be Absent: This goes hand in hand with the first one. Do not be in front of your spouse's eyes all the time - your spouse is already fed up with you and your marriage. Do not move out of course, but just don't be in front of your spouse the whole day. In Sundays for example, you might consider getting out of your home in the morning and not come till it's late in the evening.
3. Outside Advice: Begging is the wrong thing but I know it's tempting. It's because of your mental state - it will make you do the wrong things all the time. So if you want to stop your divorce, the best step to take is to acknowledge that your own emotions take you nowhere, and ask for some outside advice. It is how I stopped my divorce!
My marriage was failing on every aspect - it was such a troubled marriage that I thought there was no hope.
Yet, now I am still with my husband and I have saved my marriage. Click here to visit my website and see what I did!
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