Are people that naive... I guess women dont watch porn.. The "M.I.L.F.' phenomenon is rampant... Go take a look.. make a search.. understand just what it is that makes you so suddenly popular. Variety is the spice of life...
At work guys are all about the older women now... and trust me ladies... it's not because of your eternal wisdom... i dont care what age you are... If you dont have TALENT, and you cant TALK your way ourt of a paperbag... I would gladly introduce you to someone whose views of age and beauty as something that worthy value.
All this crap about older men being jaded.... oh lord... dont go there.... there is a plethora of jaded women here... My one and only date from POF was with a woman who was out to 'get' her ex husband.... YIKES>>>
This says it perfect and yes like the saying goes? The truth hurts and people hate accepting or hearing the truth.
I even know guys in their 30's, who say "Oh look at that MILF" and she is 50.
But I am shocked women can't understand why younger guys contact them or hit on them. Really you cannot tell me you are that naive. There is no way a slew of women are that clued out. No way. Just a front to say "Wow I don't get it, why do they all like me" as it is a nice ego boost. Say you are 42 and it makes you feel attractive because you are thinking you are getting older. A young hot guy shows some sort of attraction to you and it feels good.
Let's think for a second and don't be saying "Oh you are jaded, you are jealous etc" just think of this for one second. If women of a certain age are showing interest in men of a certain age, do you not think THAT encourages them and entices them to show an interest in those women? Not about confidence, it is about knowing or at least what appears to be the age range of women who date men who are in their 20's.
I am sure that if a ton of women were into dating men say 38-42 and that was popular, you don't think guys that age would be interested in those women more often? Of course, because like women in their 30's and 40's dating men in their 20's, it gives the guy more of a good chance to actually date someone that much older.
And why does everyone sugarcoat it, when you know the younger guy is wanting to have the experienced sex with someone older. And ya right all these women say it is not a control thing? You have the control in the bedroom being the older woman and unlike a guy your age, where both of you like what you like, a young guy is into learning so again a nice ego boost of course.
Hey I could never in my life date a woman close to my mom's age, just like date a woman young enough to be my daughter. Ya sure some 50 something women look hot, some younger women in their 20's look hot but beyond that what is there? And the thing about guys who are older being all jaded. When did women never become jaded. Just like the set in their ways comment. It always seems the guys are always completely in the wrong here. makes me sick. Both men and women do become jaded as they get older from being burned. Men and women both become set in their ways as they get older. What the underlying reason for going younger I believe for the women is the feeling. A guy who has less experience in dating and sex.
Also the young guy/older girl thing is like in school, the boys become teacher's pets, they have the crushes on their teachers. The boy has the fantasies about his teacher.
Hey I am not against this young/older thing just ladies stop the bashing as your reasons.
I know what my problem is in dating, I am sure if you took a step back and thought about things, you would see the reason why men your age do not contact you or why you seem to not date men your age.
It is a two way street, not one side to blame here.
At work guys are all about the older women now... and trust me ladies... it's not because of your eternal wisdom... i dont care what age you are... If you dont have TALENT, and you cant TALK your way ourt of a paperbag... I would gladly introduce you to someone whose views of age and beauty as something that worthy value.
All this crap about older men being jaded.... oh lord... dont go there.... there is a plethora of jaded women here... My one and only date from POF was with a woman who was out to 'get' her ex husband.... YIKES>>>
This says it perfect and yes like the saying goes? The truth hurts and people hate accepting or hearing the truth.
I even know guys in their 30's, who say "Oh look at that MILF" and she is 50.
But I am shocked women can't understand why younger guys contact them or hit on them. Really you cannot tell me you are that naive. There is no way a slew of women are that clued out. No way. Just a front to say "Wow I don't get it, why do they all like me" as it is a nice ego boost. Say you are 42 and it makes you feel attractive because you are thinking you are getting older. A young hot guy shows some sort of attraction to you and it feels good.
Let's think for a second and don't be saying "Oh you are jaded, you are jealous etc" just think of this for one second. If women of a certain age are showing interest in men of a certain age, do you not think THAT encourages them and entices them to show an interest in those women? Not about confidence, it is about knowing or at least what appears to be the age range of women who date men who are in their 20's.
I am sure that if a ton of women were into dating men say 38-42 and that was popular, you don't think guys that age would be interested in those women more often? Of course, because like women in their 30's and 40's dating men in their 20's, it gives the guy more of a good chance to actually date someone that much older.
And why does everyone sugarcoat it, when you know the younger guy is wanting to have the experienced sex with someone older. And ya right all these women say it is not a control thing? You have the control in the bedroom being the older woman and unlike a guy your age, where both of you like what you like, a young guy is into learning so again a nice ego boost of course.
Hey I could never in my life date a woman close to my mom's age, just like date a woman young enough to be my daughter. Ya sure some 50 something women look hot, some younger women in their 20's look hot but beyond that what is there? And the thing about guys who are older being all jaded. When did women never become jaded. Just like the set in their ways comment. It always seems the guys are always completely in the wrong here. makes me sick. Both men and women do become jaded as they get older from being burned. Men and women both become set in their ways as they get older. What the underlying reason for going younger I believe for the women is the feeling. A guy who has less experience in dating and sex.
Also the young guy/older girl thing is like in school, the boys become teacher's pets, they have the crushes on their teachers. The boy has the fantasies about his teacher.
Hey I am not against this young/older thing just ladies stop the bashing as your reasons.
I know what my problem is in dating, I am sure if you took a step back and thought about things, you would see the reason why men your age do not contact you or why you seem to not date men your age.
It is a two way street, not one side to blame here.
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