Sunday, March 14, 2010

Ideas to Surprise Her on Your Marriage Anniversary

Celebrating a marriage anniversary with your partner is one of the most exciting events of your life- the day to fall in love yet again, the day when you can just hold her and feel the warmth of the year you have so joyfully spent together. Of course, being together for one good year means so much for both of you and indubitably you will try your best to make it one of the most treasured and unforgettable events of your life. After all- you love her, you care for her smile, and surely you will do anything on this day to see her fly with joy, holding you in your arms and saying yes...I am so lucky to have you.

The most difficult thing is to decide as to how to surprise her on the marriage anniversary- doing something for her which she wouldn't have ever imagined. Gifting her beautiful card with lots of love notes is one of the best ideas, but this card can be made more lovable if you write the love notes on your own, describing how your life has changed, how happy you now feel to be in her company, how she completes your inner being. The idea is to be true to yourself and to your feelings.

Surprise her by singing a song in her honor (in case you never sing a song). She will be watching you with wide eyes open. Yet another way to surprise her is to organize a party in her honor, where you can invite all of her friends but care should be taken to keep this a secret, she shouldn't have any idea about the party or else entire enjoyment will fade away.

You can also try this one- The most treasured of all the memories should be compiled in an album form, with special comments on each occasion which has been pasted there. This should start from the wedding day photographs followed by all the other snapshots which you might have taken over the years. Try to add all the personal memories associated with the events. Just sit together and have a re look at the days you have spent together and relive each day with the album.

Spending a night out is also a chilling idea, try to take her to her favorite restaurant, get the music on and yet again propose to her by gifting her beautiful diamond ring. Try to have her favorite food on the table. Just make her feel special in the best way possible. You can also gift her bouquet of her favorite flowers.
Jewellery is said to be the perfect gift for every occasion. If she loves wearing it, then this can be a viable option. Or else, try to gift her some beautiful dress accompanied by chocolates, perfumes or anything which she loves the most.

You can even surprise her by taking her on a long vocation to an exquisite holiday destination. Try to keep it secret and on the day of your wedding anniversary, simply give the tickets in her hand and watch your loved one shout in happiness.

Marriage anniversaries come and go but the main aim should be to rekindle the love, to atone for any of the past wrongs- may be for hurting her or not giving her enough time. This is one special day where you can simply be yourself and you can make it special for her by giving her care, love which she desires. Try to spend the entire day together, take her out for a movie or just to a silent place where you can share your love. It is your day and you need to make it memorable and worth remembering, after all it happens just once in a year.
About Author: The writer is a free lance journalist based in Aligarh, she is also an staff writer for Mangaljodi.com, a Indian matrimonial site based in Bhopal. She can be contacted at shadaan.alam@gmail.com.
By Shadaan Alam

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Thursday, March 11, 2010

What Women Want in a Boyfriend - Know This and You'll Beat 97% of the Guys Out There


Many guys complain about how women seem to be unpredictable when it comes to their preferences in men. The truth is that women really are not complicated at all. And if you happen to know these things that women want in their men, you will be instantly ahead of most guys out there today. Read on to discover the traits that women want in their partners...

Ability To Play Professional Golf.
Just kidding (well, sort of). The truth is that you don't have to be Tiger Woods in order to really hit it off with beautiful Swedish blondes and party with Geylang hostesses. However, if you have a special skill that she can show off to her friends with, then the happier she will be.

Be Presentable.
Sure, you don't need to look like Brad Pitt or Tommy Page, but try not to look like you've just slept under the bridge in your underwear. You don't need to rearrange your face to look like George Clooney, but there's no excuse for dressing sloppily.

Be Strong.
You will need to lead in the relationship - don't expect HER to be the boss, even though she might be the CEO of an investment bank at her day job. It's YOUR responsibility to be the one who bosses her around - and guess what - most women like being bossed around by the men they love.

Be Laid Back... Sometimes.
Look - while you need to be the dominant one in the partnership, you don't have to always shout at her to get you beer and give you foot rubs, back massages and other physical favors. Chill and relax sometimes. As Joker would say, "why so serious?" Learn to take some time off and have fun with her - reward her from time to time, but don't overdo it!

Be Controlling... Emotionally.
You gotta always remain in control - and one easy way to do this is to dominate her emotionally. One trick to do this is Fractionation http://www.FractionationFormula.com.

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By Derek Rake
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Saturday, March 6, 2010

Boomer Dating - Want to Fly Into Mr Wonderful's Arms? Try Flapping Your Wings

Apathy - sitting and waiting for love without exerting the effort to make it happen - just may be the number one cause of single woman loneliness.

Consider the robin. Could she fly if she perched apathetically on a tree branch waiting for a favorable breeze? Not likely. Robin knows that if she fails to flap her wings, an earlier bird is going to catch the worm. So with a flick of her feathers, she's airborne.

We know a woman in Colorado who - after her husband's passing and a year of breakfast-for-one and supper with the six o'clock news - murmured a silent prayer as she walked in the cool mountain air: "Please, Lord, open my heart to a new love.

A few days later, her landlady rang her bell. "A new man just moved in a couple of doors down from you. Tall, kinda good-looking, and I'd say early 60s. Keep your eyes open." Joyce did. When she saw him head for the mailbox, she picked up her key and followed. A 20-minute conversation led to other conversations. "But," Joyce complained to her son-in-law a couple of months later, "this relationship isn't going anywhere. I'm out of practice. What do I do next?"

"For heaven's sake," he declared, "this is the 21st century. Invite him to dinner." But before she did, he did, and a few months later he asked a more serious question. "My answer was yes," smiles Joyce, "and now only one of us has to go out for the mail."

Joyce is a natural-born wing-flapper, but for some of us apathy is a malady difficult to overcome. There were probably half a dozen women fantasizing about Victor as he passed their apartment windows that first week of his arrival on the scene.

Unlike Joyce, they were too timid, or too afraid of rejection, to flap their wings.
Too many women in their 50s and beyond have given up on ever meeting Mr. Practically Perfect. We did it. So can you. That's why we wrote, "It's Never Too Late to Date" with its 43 helpful Rx's for mating and dating after 50. To learn more, visit http://www.itsnevertoolatetodate.com.
By Howard Eisenberg
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Saturday, January 30, 2010

How to Regain His Trust After Cheating

Trust is important in any relationship. Cheating or having an affair is a quick way to erode trust fast. The good news is that once gone it isn't always gone for ever. Many relationships can and do weather the wild storms that adultery brings about. Can your relationship handle the heat? These tips will help you win back one of the most important things that cheating takes away: his trust.

Actions Speak Louder than Words
You've heard this age old adage many times in your life but its truth is timeless. You can talk all you want but if you want him to believe he can trust you, you are going to have to show him - not tell him.
How do you accomplish this feat? You prove that he can trust you again by earning his trust. It takes time. This isn't something you can do, apologize for, and go back to the way things were right away. Honestly, the way things were wasn't all that wonderful if you were cheating anyway.
Be where you tell him you're going. Come home after work. Stop going out with the girls for a while. Have the girls come over to your house. Change your routine and make your lifestyle more open to his scrutiny. In time he'll trust that you are going to be where you say you are. Once you regain that trust, guard it carefully and don't risk losing it again.

Expose Your Soul
If you're like most people there's always a little something you hold back and keep close to your heart. When you've reached the point where you're trying to win back the trust of someone you love a good start is to show that person how much you trust him.
Open up to him in a way you've never opened up to him before. You might earn more than a little of his trust back in return. Regardless of that you'll be sharing a part of yourself you've never revealed to him in the past. It's definitely a step in the right direction.

Understand that it may Never Fully Happen
Men protect themselves in different ways. It's important to understand that he may never fully trust you again. That doesn't mean that he won't trust you on some levels or that you can't have a long-lasting and loving relationship. It simply means that there will always be some part of him that has doubts and insecurities.
It will be up to you to make him feel better about himself and your commitment to him. Remind him often how much you need him and do your best to make him understand how much your respect, admire, and want him. These things go a long way towards creating a happy and healthy relationship today and in the future.

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By T Dub Jackson
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Sunday, January 24, 2010

Marriage : Keep Your Marriage From Being Destroyed and Avoid These Marital Mistakes

Is a lasting marriage that is exciting, passionate, kind, warm, and caring a fairy tale or an obtainable dream? Does a marriage like that really have what it takes to grow and sustain? Of course, most people believe that is what they are marrying into when the say their "I do's." But with the country's high divorce rate, can it really happen? Despite the fact that some marriages end because of physical, emotional, or substance abuse, the rest are destroyed over "irreconcilable differences."

So if you feel you and your partner are growing apart, you could avoid the whole ugly mess of divorce by taking heed of the following advice.

1) Make each other a top priority.
With our busy lives filled with mind-numbing jobs, elderly parents and children who need our constant care, and the daily running of an entire household, it is entirely too easy to ignore the needs of your partner. If you do not want to lose your partner because you allowed other factors to take up all of your time, you need to immediately make your husband or wife feel loved, treasured, and appreciated through engaging in special time, and that does not mean physical intimacy necessarily. Special time also means getting out of the house for a walk or a date or anywhere you both can communicate without life's pressures butting in. You both must remind each other every once in a while that you are not just parents and breadwinners, you are two people who romantically love one another.

2) You have to maintain your marriage.
You are completely different in your thirties and forties than you were during the time you first became husband and wife in your twenties, so the question is during this time have you grown closer together or further apart? If you want your marriage to be a success, you must take time once a year to evaluate the state of your partnership and set new goals. One excellent question to ask one another is if there is anything either of you can do to enhance your connection; that question can help you jump start a meaningful discussion.

3) Only engage in positive marital behaviors.

Now this is not to say if you are experiencing abuse of any kind or if your partner is addicted to abusive substances that you should stay in the marriage. But in any other case where your you or your partner engage in behaviors that take too much time away from your marriage then that must stop. What does that mean? Some examples of this type of behavior can include watching an excessive amount of television, becoming wrapped up in a hobby or pastime, or being excessively involved in your kid's lives. So if you have allowed any of these factors to take away necessary time with your spouse, you are effectively destroying your marriage. In the case of dealing with over-scheduled children, once those children have grown and left the nest and you are left with your partner, more often than not, you will be left with a virtual stranger, not a friend, lover, and confidante.

4) Get professional help before it's too late.
Do not wait until you have hired divorce lawyers to go to marital counseling because by then too much damage has been done. During the course of counseling, you both will learn how to communicate with one another in an effective manner, not a destructive one. So if you are bored, upset, or disappointed, you will know exactly how to express that to your spouse. Receiving marital counseling in a timely fashion is the best way to maintain your marriage.
There is no need to become discouraged, you can save your marriage as long as you do not put it off any longer. If you are worried about the excessive cost of traditional counseling or that your partner is not completely on board, don't be. There are many resources online that can help you get your marriage back on track, spice up a boring marriage, or improve the way you both relate to each other on a daily basis. The best part about online help is that it is much more affordable than traditional avenues and of course, it all comes with a guarantee.

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By Alex Ottis
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Sunday, January 10, 2010

How to Dominate a Woman

Men with average looks never seem to get women to turn their heads - though this mostly has nothing to do with their actual looks, but due to the low confidence and self-esteem that seems to come therewith.

The minute such men see women who are beautiful, they instantly think that they have no chance with them. This has nothing to do with the women's mindsets, though; if women behave like any other man, they will be perceived as regular.

Additionally, you need to remember that the skills of a man in the world of seduction actually holds much more importance than his looks. Keep reading to figure out which techniques to use in order to be perceived as special by the opposite sex, for a change...

How Dominate Women in No Time...Whenever You Want (Three Techniques Of Surefire Seduction Domination You Must Know)

Technique Number One: Take it easy. No matter how beautiful a woman might be, it would be possible to get her to fall for you, regardless of how you see yourself - remember that. Although there is no real explanation for this, it actually happens.
If you really want to, you can try to find out the explanation, but it would be much easier to just do something about it right away. Once you want to take things to the next level, just let her know and also make sure she knows you do not want to push her into anything she doesn't want to be pushed into.

Technique Number Two: Play hard to get. Remember that women naturally like challenges - conversely, they will not value things which are easy to obtain. So how do you use this fact to your advantage?

Pretty simple, really. Just make it hard for her to win you over. Always be slightly unattainable - and play mind games as often as you can. When you are able to make her submit to your wishes, it makes it so much easier to dominate her.

Technique Number Three: Hack into her mind. If you truly wish to dominate women, you need to get into their minds and tap into their hot spots. If you have no trouble with the thought of using subtle techniques of psychology, you really should learn about mind control and the like.
One of these techniques is known as fractionation and comes with two steps that are easy to use. Even men who aren't experts at seduction can pull this particular technique off with ease.
The best thing about fractionation would be that, after mastering it, you can attract women by the truckload without being a professional sports man or having a well-known name. With fractionation, you can also attract and completely dominate any woman of your choice. Outstanding stuff indeed!

However, please be careful...as fractionation ( http://www.FractionationFormula.com ) could be the most explosive piece of seduction technology ever invented.
This technique is simple to use but it gives "seduction superpowers" to the regular guy to attract the woman of his dreams. If you want to seduce women in as quickly as 15 minutes, then download the Fractionation Formula for free.
By Derek Rake
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