Thursday, December 31, 2009

Dating Tips For Men - How to Make a Woman Never Forget You!

I think that all men know that they have to be able to make a pretty god, lasting impression on a woman if they want things to evolve. If you want to make an impact and make her never forget you, then there is one mistake that you can never allow yourself to make with a woman. And that is...never be BLAND.

A lot of men, especially those that are bot really confident in themselves kind of jst stick to being bland and as a result, blend into the background whenever they are around women. Of course, this will only guarantee that you do NOT make a lasting impression on a woman.
So, what's a guy to do?

Now, I wont tell you that you should try to become an outrageous personality or anything like that. You do have to get yourself noticed, though. Don't shy away from holding a conversation, even being the one to initiate the interaction with a woman.

You have to be able to get off of the wall, and start making yourself known to women.
There was a time when a few buddies of mine were complaining about their lack of success with women. So, one night, we all decided to hit this little bar nearby where a LOT of good looking college girls go to.

So, we get inside, and what do my friends do?
They grab a table, order a drink, and that's about it.
Of course they were not having any luck. They weren't doing anything at all to get ant attention. Of course, I got up out of my seat and found a couple of women that were by themselves and invited them to come sit with us.

Long story short, my buddies had a better time that night than the last few months combined. You don't have to be a silver tongued smooth talker to do this. Just a simple opener, and an invitation to come and join you is often more than enough.

To make the impression last, you have to be able to get into a conversation or start flirting with her right away. You want a woman to feel like she is not just having a great time with you now, but that she wants to experience MORE great times with you.

This is how you are going to create a lasting impression on a woman. Get of the wall and start to approach women.

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Friday, November 27, 2009

Does Holding Off on Having Sex Really Improve Your Relationship's Long Term Potential?

Are you skeptical that holding off on having sex will really have any impact on the success of your relationship? Are you quick to jump into a physical relationship only to be left disappointed when things don't work out? When is it the right time to have sex? Holding off on having sex really can strengthen the foundation of your relationship.

There are many reasons that delaying sex is a good idea for both of you. First, it helps you separate the men who are just looking for a fling from the men who have real relationship potential. Having sex too soon tends to cloud your judgment about the man involved. You may overlook things that would normally be a red flag or you may fall into the trap of believing that sex itself will lead to love.

Additionally, delaying sex puts you in a unique category. Men have no problem finding women who are willing to have sex without any strings attached. So when a woman sets boundaries in this area it grabs his attention and fuels his anticipation which then drives him to prove that he is worthy of you. And if you believe that you are worth the wait, most men will too.

So when is the right time?

It's definitely not before he has made an exclusive commitment to you. And you can't make any assumptions here. If he hasn't specifically informed you both verbally and by his actions that he only wants to be with you, then you don't have a commitment. Don't let him slide on this. It's very important that you steak your ground clearly and then stick to it. No doubt it will be hard to do when the chemistry is intense, but it can be done.

Ultimately the decision to hold off on having sex is yours to make. Just be aware of the pros and cons of each choice and make a decision that you are comfortable with rather than allowing pressure from others to dictate your choice for you.

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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Dating Guide - How Do You Do the Best Background Check on Your Dates?

It is sweet to trust in a dating relationship. It is smart to make sure your trust is deserved. Is your date being honest in the stories they tell you about their past and present life, or are you being conned?

How do you find out if your date is hiding a dark secret or giving you misleading information about their life story?

Before you get involved in a serious relationship with someone you're just getting to know, it is wise to do a background check using the best services available.

How do you find the best background check service?

It is an alarming statistic that out of 100 background check sites you find on the internet, 80 percent of them cannot deliver the background information you request. As consumers complained of being scammed by background check rip-off sites, Consumer-Advice.org decided to help people avoid the rip-off sites and find the most reliable background check services.

Consumer-Advice.org polled 1000 people with complaints or success stories and they did follow-up tests of each site to verify the results. They concluded that not even the best background check sites can provide 100 percent of the information you seek, but the best sites will have 95 percent of the frequently-updated records you need for your investigation.

Based on consumer reports and their in-house research in 50 states, Consumer-Advice.org recommends the 3 best background check sites:

Consumers Top Choice
Net Detective was chosen by the consumers majority as the best resource for in-depth unlimited background checks. Their service features criminal, marital, motor vehicle, and birth records, as well as legal judgments, or information on alimony and child support compliance.

NetDetective has access to credit bureau and financial records that are out on the internet, but usually very hard to find. They provide many resources, ease of use, good customer support and a one time price of $29 for a 3-year membership with a 90 day money-back guarantee.

Second Choice
Instant Background Report came in second in consumer votes. The site provides reports comprised of State Criminal Check, Nationwide Criminal Check, Marital Status,Phone Number(s),Date of Birth, Address History, Neighbors' Names, Neighborhood Info, Alias Names.

The site does not provide information on credit and vehicle records or legal judgments. Instant Background Report membership fee is $29 with a money-back guarantee.

Best Reverse Searches
You may want to search by a specific address, phone number, email address or SSN record to find who is the owner. The Reverse Records site can access owner information, address history, and location details for any phone number. Their database coverage includes cell, toll-free, residential, business, pager and unlisted numbers.

The Reverse Records site only provides basic information on background checks for the same cost, $29, and money-back guarantee of the top two sites.

Whether you meet potential matches on dating sites, through matchmakers or by chance, it is smart to choose one of the best background check sites to help you make sure that your potential relationship partner is someone you can trust.

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Sunday, November 22, 2009

AN ISLAMIC PROSPECT OF PERSONALITY

There are mainly two things which are the basis of a balanced personality in Islam. First it is; to be fearful with Allah and to be fearless with the rest. Secondly; it is to follow the true, accurate and factual Sunnah of the Prophet of Islam (SAW). Allah’s fear is the most prized thing in the human world which determines, explores, illuminates, and builds a true human personality to its greatest extent. It not only helps mankind to explore his own personality rather it leads towards a universal human oneness. A single smallest unit of Allah’s fear is capable to cover all kinds of pain and miseries of our life and can illuminate the true picture of our mind revealing them all in our own personalities.

The people, who have had fear from Allah; in return to that very fear; they definitely gain an unbeaten, brave, fearless, courageous and a victorious wining personality; which never meets sorrow, fear, misery, pain and grief. Allah says that He makes room in all kinds of miseries and pains for whom that fears Him. What is a personality? A true and real personality is the illumination of the ambitions, achievements, goals, emotions of a human being to which he is made for. Else is the distortion, bend and alteration of the personality. Nobody can illuminate his real personality unless he has faith on the Almighty creator of the universe, feels His prominence and is always fearful with Him.

To be fearless for all is one of the main personality traits in Islam. When fears remain, personality collapses. Nobody can imagine a personality which is full of fear. Boldness emerges from the fear of Allah; as and when it enters the heart it kicks out all kinds of fears and phobias. From the first day Islam teaches to be fearless to everybody. It teaches its followers to be bold enough against all the rest than the Creator. Fearlessness and courage is based on the fear of Allah. If someone is not fearful with Allah, he will be fearful to all the rest. Without Allah-fearing mankind is nothing more than an insane. Boldness creates peace and cowardice leads to anxiety. Cowards always live in a constant state of tension which damages their soul and body.

Islam approves boldness, because it brings peace to the human nature. Boldness cannot be attained unless someone has fear for Allah and regards Him as the absolute reason for all kinds of profit and loss. As such a faith prevails is a heart; and someone regards Allah as the absolute reason for all kind of profit, happiness, pleasure, peace and also knows him as the supplier of loss, harms, pains, sadness, and sorrows he comes out from the fear of all creations. They say that Allah’s fear is the source of wisdom. The second basis of an Islamic personality is to follow the true, accurate and factual Sunnah of Prophet of Islam (SAW). As Allah says that the Messengers has been sent for nothing less than to follow them: ? ?? ?????? ?? ???? ??? ????? ???? ???? [I have send messengers for nothing more than to follow them by Allah’s wish].

With the submission of self to the Messenger (SAW) a sober, sound, self esteemed, self- conscience, loving and a gentle personality emerges from the ruins of our behavior and it creates a noble unbeaten psychology of peace into one’s self and for everybody who is eager to join this path of peace. The way or Sunnah of the Messenger (SAW) puts powerful effects on human psych. It makes him bold, faithful, tranquilant, decision making, brave, kind to everyone, and anxiety resistant.

Sunnah personifies a man with good moral habits and makes him free from all kinds of human bondage. A true practice on Sunnah makes a man bold enough to face any kind of unfavorable situation. Whenever he faces hardships or challenges he remains quite, free from all sorts of anxieties and worries. He remains too normal in every uncommon tragic situation. Even he gets free from the worries of everyday life. His heart turns out to be a heart of humanitarian. He seeks pleasure and comfort for everybody. He likes all human being to live in peace.

A true practice of Sunnah amends the self image of a person. It turns a common man to a humanitarian. It throws out the ill feelings of a man. It makes him caring for all, from his relatives to the whole mankind. Sunnah creates depth in the personality. It motivates a man to safeguard others interest. It teaches him to adjust with all the rest. Sunnah is the greatest model for the whole mankind to lean adjustment. Sunnah is the best way of adjustment; approved, accepted and rewarded by Allah. Sunnah brings for everybody the finest way to act or react. It has the best solution for all human problems. Ultimately; Sunnah is the way of life which creates balanced and enlighten personalities in the Society.

So as it was said in the beginning of this article that a model Islamic personality cannot be formed without the two basic things and that is the fearfulness to Allah and acceptance to the Way of Mohammad (SAW). There are more Islamic values that determine an Islamic personality but I have chosen the fear of Allah as the most tremendous value of Islamic faith. Only the fear of Allah can be said to have been the most important thing which leads a man towards righteousness.

I have faith to say that, being a Muslim, if you feel that your personality is not a balanced personality, you let not regard yourself as a satisfied person, if you feel depressed, you have ill feelings, you are ill-contented and are often frightened by your destiny. It is sure that you are lacking such a stage of Faith that you ever have tested before. The answer to all sorts of personality disorders lies in the strong faith on Allah and in the Sunnah of Mohammad (SAW). The fear of Allah is something great that covers all sorts of weaknesses and leads a man towards a perfect, bold, unfolded, self esteemed and fearless personality. It let him feel a sound heart in his body and a sound mind in his head. xxxxxx

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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Single Men Looking for Women on the Internet Dating Websites

Free singles sites are the best manners of finding your companion of heart because you do not pay anything. One recommends to him to employ the completely free sites in line of dating to find the singles women and men on the Internet. The great free services of dating have million people of the country singles so that you choose to leave. You can come into contact with as many women and men like possible. You should not simply send a message to a person. You must send more to obtain more chance. There is no limit of the quantity of you singles can come into contact. Seek just all the only men and women who answer your criteria such as the range of age, education, lifestyle, and other buildings. You should send a message to all the people whom you love. You will on a date on line soon. Good luck!

The unmarried women seeking of the man-in-the-loops to the free services of dating of Internet have just a goal. They want to seek a date on line to share their life with. The romance and love you will find on line is true and faithful. Naturally, there are some rich married men who want just to seek a short-term relationship with singles beautiful young girls. This occurs but seldom. Several of unmarried old women want just to find young men singles to fill their empty hearts. These types of singles are very limited. The majority of them east choose which seek the true love. Where will you seek a free service of dating? You should seek on search engines of Google to find the best sites. The first will of page shows that the popular free sites of dating for you chose.

The men seeking of the women or the women seeking of the men to the free sites of dating become a phenomenon in last years because of this market bursting of Internet. Many great services of dating announced with national televisions find approximately a date on line. Thus, there is no doubt that the dating on line functioned well for thousands of couples in the United States and other countries as well. The dating on line is recreation and cannot be erroneous when thousands of couples and reports/ratios produced of. To date from the online services is a connection between the singles women and men to meet the ones with the others on line. Connected singles is on line a principal task for which the services of dating develop. There is no fee when you employ the completely free sites of dating on the Internet.

Your isolated heart must heat with another singles heart. The best manner of finding for a singles heart is on building sites of dating of Internet. In fact, the singles thousands of men seeking of the women on line to the free sites of dating wait to meet their associates. There is no fee to join the service. It means that the singles men can find women for free or charge. The great manner of finding your companion of life is free Web sites of dating of Internet. You can find the friends or the associates on line on these sites too. There is not a limitation of which you seek. Many people can find new friends, correspondents, and associated activity on the Internet easily. However, the majority of the women seeking of the men are for the report/ratio and the romance.

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Friday, November 6, 2009

Attracting Women - How to Pick Up a Woman

When you think of a guy that is good at being able to pick up women, what are the usual image that pop into your mind? The classic 1970's swinger or the 21st century PUA (pick up artist) with the flashy clothes and the metro sexual personality? Well, guess what? You don't have to be either one of these kinds of guys in order to pick up women. Attracting women is NOT something that you have to adapt a fake personality to learn how to do. In fact, in most cases, it's much better to be just an average guy that happens to know how to seduce and attract women.

What are some things that you SHOULD know about picking up women?

1. Most women are resistant to ANY man that they think is just out to "hook up." You don't want to give off the impression that you are out to collect phone numbers of women or just to get some random encounter. You want to be able to make the impression that you ARE just a normal guy that happens to be out looking to get to know people.

2. Lines are NEVER the answer. When you try to rely on a classic line to pick up women, you are really just looking for a crutch or a magic bullet. And these kinds of things do not really exist. What you have to be able to do is to learn how to use conversation to build attraction with a woman. This way, you don't ever have to be one of those guys that is guilty of using cheesy lines.

3. You have to be a NATURAL with women. Now, this may not happen overnight. But, when you can appear comfortable and natural around women, no matter how beautiful she might be, your success with women will start to improve.

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Thursday, November 5, 2009

How to Talk to Women - Creating Sexual Attraction With Words

One of the secrets to attracting women is knowing how to talk to women. You don't want to just start any old conversation with a woman IF your goal is to create sexual attraction. You have to learn how to use words that speak to HER emotions. It's not a secret that women are more emotionally driven than men are when it comes to what triggers their attraction.

So, how can YOU create sexual attraction with words? How should you talk to women?

1. Stay away from touchy subjects like politics and religion. Your goal is to build attraction with a woman, not start an argument. You don't want to have a woman hooked on you, only to lose her by talking about the WRONG things. Many men will put their foot in their mouth when they are talking to a woman.

2. You have to be able to tease her in some way. Men that fail to do this, fail to trigger playfulness and chemistry with a woman. You want to keep her on her toes and to feel excitement when she is with you. The worst thing that you can do is to bore a woman to death when it comes to conversation.

3. She has to be moved by YOUR words. If you cannot make her FEEL anything when you are talking to her, it will be hard to create sexual attraction with her. You have to be able to move her emotionally, especially if you want to advance the relationship physically. Being able to talk to a woman is a key to being able to create real and intense chemistry and attraction with her.

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Saturday, October 31, 2009

Tips on Dating: 5 Ways to Screw Up Royally

The moment has finally arrived. That person you wanted to go out with gave you the green light.

Took them long enough. Keep that thought to yourself but it did take them long enough. Nonetheless you were patient and persistent without going overboard; at least that is your story and you are sticking to it. But a few things are clear. The other person is not going out with you because of pity or a desire to get you off their back. They are going out with you because they like you and want to.

Yet sometimes when we humans get exactly what we want, there is a tendency to consciously or sub consciously self sabotage the moment. Or in plain English screw it up royally.

Naturally you want to make a fantastic and lasting impression on the person. The whole aim is make a connection to get more dates and possibly grow a relationship.

However if your goal is to create a lasting impression and not the good kind then try the following.

1. Exaggerate Your Worth

In some countries including this one it is known as lying. And it does not have to be the super duper kind that get your date looking at you funny. Just little shades of gray that do not add up can have the same effect.

2. Did You Mention That...?

Commonly referred to as hogging the conversation. You are excited about the date. Terrific. As a matter of fact you are so excited that you have talked thru the entire date. The evening is over and you do not know anymore about the person than you did before the two of you went out. Oh that's right you do know a couple of things about them. One is they don't talk much. And two they seem to have a lot of tension in their jaw muscles.

3. Your Sphinx Impersonation

Are you happy the person is going out with you? No doubt about it. Except you are not quite conveying it. No you do not dominate the conversation which is good. The problem is you have no conversation; which is not good. No jokes, no topics of discussion and your response to anything your date says is unresponsive. Still it's curious to you as to why they wanted to go home early.

4. Fashionably Late

You are going to wow your date when they first lay eyes on you by dressing to the nines. You look so good that you can't stand it.

Neither can your date because in your quest to knock their socks off, you were late. Very late. No biggie because look at the end result. You look great but you were still not on time and your date is still ticked off about it.

5. You Agree

Your date says their favorite color is blue. Yours too. Your date says their favorite sport is ice hockey. Yours too. Your date says their favorite hobby is to go swimming in the Nile River; upstream. Yours too. In fact you agree to everything they say. This is a clear sign that you are either their long lost twin (in which case you should not be dating) or that you are trying to make such a impression that you are agreeing to just about anything and everything. Not a good idea.

Yes you are excited about this date. You should be. You should also want to make a good impression. No problems there. But if you want the date to end on a sour note with no chance of ever dating this person or any other person successfully by all means follow any or all of the five tips listed above.

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Thursday, October 29, 2009

My Husband Had an Affair and I Don't Think I Can Ever Get Over It - Tips and Advice That May Help

Almost on a daily basis, I get emails from wives who tell me that they feel pretty sure that they will "never, ever" get over the fact that their husband cheated and had an affair. They may well still love their husbands. They may be 100% committed to keeping their family together and staying in the marriage. But, they have resigned themselves to a life that is not everything that it can be, and to a marriage that is sort of just limping along and going through the motions because the wife can not let herself trust or go "all in" again.

Understandably, she's guarded and she's resentful. Sure, she's making the best of it for the sake of her family, but she doesn't believe that she'll ever be truly happy in her marriage again, and this is mostly because she can't "get over" the affair. I'm about to tell you something that I know from experience. You may not believe me right now, but I hope that you can at least keep this somewhere in the back of your mind. The truth is, you don't need to focus so much on semantics. You may not even "get over" the affair. But, you can create a new marriage that is somewhat separate from this issue. I will discuss this more in the following article.

You Can Make Your Own Rules After The Affair. You Don't Need To Follow Some One Else's Path: I can not tell you how often people write to me and tell me that they're sad to admit that their marriage is doomed after infidelity because they know that they "will never be able to forgive" or just can't see themselves "getting over it." Often they will say this before they've even made a complete attempt to do this. Sometimes, we just take our preconceived notions and hold onto them like a huge crutch.

But, let's say that this is true (even though I believe it rarely is.) Let's say that you can't forgive. Let's say that you're never able to get the affair completely out of your mind. If this is your case, you certainly are not alone. This is true of many people. But, people are able to work around this each and every day. You really can not just proclaim how you are going to feel tomorrow or next year. This is a process. Just because you're unable to forgive right now doesn't mean that you won't see this differently once you've done some things that will help you begin to heal.

Don't get too caught up on what you "should" do or feel. This is not a process that follows along one specific path. The really important thing is that you commit to keep moving forward no matter what is happening around you. So long as you vow that you're not going to let this squeeze out every ounce of happiness that you deserve, you will eventually make it and come to a place where you wake up one morning and know that you are going to be OK. Don't become frustrated if you're not feeling better as soon as you thought you might. This is a very difficult situation. If you are doing the best you can and are focusing on doing just a little bit better each and every day, then you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Why You Can't Just Decide To Get Over The Affair: I often have people tell me "OK, I've made up my mind. I'm going to forgive him. From this point on, I've decided that I'm going to 'get over it.'" Usually, I will hear from these same people a little while later and they feel like failures or they are frustrated because they are regressing back to their old feelings. They wonder why they can not just control their own feelings. They worry that they are doing something wrong or that they are not a good enough person to offer forgiveness.

Few of these things are true. It's just that they're trying to rush the process and they often have not begun to do the work that is necessary to begin the healing process. Many people (myself included) do not understand at first what they are going to need to be able to begin letting go of the anger. Often, you are going to need reassurance that this will not happen again. You will often want to understand what things lead up to this so that you can prevent them. And, you will need to work on your relationship with yourself (to restore your self esteem) and with your spouse so that you are building up the relationship rather than tearing it down.

In this eventual process, you will eventually realize that your relationship with your spouse is stronger partly because your relationship with yourself is stronger. Often, we just need some time to evaluate this when the feelings and emotions are not fresh and spinning out of control. It is usually only at this time are we able to remember the good things that do matter in the end. But, when you're angry, hurt, and betrayed, you're often just not able to see these things.

Don't feel pressured to "get over it" or to forgive if you just are not ready. You will know when you are, if that day comes. Until then, don't be so hard on yourself. Just vow to take care of yourself and to try to evaluate things with an eye toward healing rather than prolonging the hurt. Healing may mean that you decide to be alone or it might now. Whatever you decide, always evaluate things in terms of your own emotional health and what is right for you without apology.

Although it surprised me, what was right for me was sticking around and working things out. But, I worked on myself too and this made a huge difference. Although I never would've believed this two years ago, my marriage is stronger than ever after my husband's affair. It took a lot of work, and I had to play the game to win, but it was worth it. Because of all the work I did on myself, my self esteem is at an all time high. I no longer worry my husband will cheat again. You can read my very personal story on my blog at http://surviving-the-affair.com/

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Saturday, October 24, 2009

Three Tips to Find Out Who Your Wife Lover - Is her Cheating?

One of the most difficult things that a man will ever have to go through is coming to the realization that his wife may be cheating on him. This is something that no man wants to deal with, but if you suspect that your wife is cheating on you, then you must find out who it is. Here are 3 tips that will lead you to the person your wife is cheating on you with.

1. The first thing that you must do is notice any signs that she is displaying. Is she mentioning someone that she works with or socializes with excessively? Obviously you have reasons to believe that your wife is cheating, so just make sure that you pay attention to all the signs, to help narrow your focus as to who the culprit could be.

2. Another thing that you could do is hire a private investigator. This method works well, but can be really expensive and is not always necessary. You may feel the need to keep tabs on your wife, but make sure that you do not stalk her. If she gets the sense that you are always around then she will probably just leave you right then and there.

3. The best method that I have found to bust a cheating spouse is to conduct a reverse cell phone search online.This is a simple, yet extremely effective way to catch a cheating spouse, The reason that it works so well is that you can literally get the first and last name, address, and even a google map the the persons house for each number that appears in her phone.

Using this single method, you will be able to take a huge step in the right direction to find out who your wife is cheating on you with.

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Saturday, October 17, 2009

Five Sweet Things to Make Her Feel Special and Fall For You Tonight

We can't help but get a little tongue tied around girls even on a date --- hey, you should be happy and take advantage of this opportunity in any way you can! Dating a girl would be the perfect way for you to get to know each other plus, the flirting fun begins! But wait --- if you want to get a little close for comfort, nothing beats reciting a few sweet lines to make her blush and feel a little giddy inside. So if you're planning to have an all-out romantic night tonight, here are five sweet things to say to girls that will definitely take your relationship on the next level. Here's how:
  • "I wish you were my girlfriend." A lot of confidence is needed to say this out loud --- and make sure both of you have reached a certain level of comfort for each other that it'll make it sound smoother and more romantic. Of course, you don't blurt this out on your first date together --- she'll definitely flee from you the next minute. So be patient.
  • "You look real pretty when you smile". Ever wondered what makes a girl go totally weak to her knees? Tell her she looks pretty when she smiles. One of the many soft spots of women is when you compliment them about their good looks --- it's a sure way to make her blush.
  • "I want to hold your hand." So you're both getting a little flirty and you can practically feel her breathing on your neck --- go ahead and pop the question. Or better yet, gradually inch your hand toward hers and then say that you want to hold her hand. Believe me, 90% of the time, she'll say yes.
  • "I feel very happy when you're around." Let's say you're almost on that level when you're almost a couple --- this is probably the sweetest thing to say to a girl --- not to mention that this is going to be beautiful start before asking her to be your girlfriend. Hurray!
  • "I think I'm falling in love with you." Surprises can be romantic and girls love them. Nothing beats drama if you want to keep up with a girl. So catch her off guard by saying this line out of the blue: "I think I'm falling in love." Well, don't expect her to say the very same thing right away. Give her time. But heck, who knows? Maybe she's been waiting for it forever.
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Saturday, October 10, 2009

How to Tell If a Girl is Interested - Sure Fire Keys Which Will Reveal Whether She is Interested

By Jason Leading

You can never learn to read a woman. You just can't tell if the girl is into you or not. What kind of game is she playing? Or am I just blind to the signs? Check out these three tips to finally tell if a girl is interested in you.

She's jealous: If you notice she starts tapping her foot rapidly when you take too long on the phone with a woman, then watch out! This girl is totally into you if she seems jealous when you spend too much time on another girl.

Confirm your suspicion by talking about another girl when you're with her. If she starts fidgeting or making a sarcastic remark, she's interested in you. Once you've confirmed it then stop! If you go on and on about the other girl, you'll lose this one.

She's always trying to get your attention: Have you noticed she's always trying to talk to you? Maybe she comes over to your desk at work to show you what she's been working on. Or maybe she calls you up to go for a movie or some coffee.

If the girl is trying to spend more time with you and doing things to attract your attention, she's definitely into you!

She looks at you when you talk: When you are having an interesting conversation and speaking your mind, have you noticed she can't keep her eyes off you? Maybe she's softly gazing into your eyes or staring at your lips.

If her eyes are on your mouth, she is very interested in you. She's attracted to you and won't think twice if you kiss her then and there. If you're not careful, she might just lean in and steal a kiss from you first!

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Saturday, October 3, 2009

The Crucial Element in Successful Dating

"A wise man should not fear losing anything in life if he is able to preserve his peace of mind," taught the Roman philosopher Epictetus two thousand years ago. When you are out there looking for the right person to share your life with, you should remind yourself that maintaining your balance and self-esteem is going to put you way ahead of the game.

When it comes to dating, each of us can easily make a list of unpleasant situations that we would rather avoid in order to keep our tranquillity. For instance, most men and women would consider themselves happier if they could avoid dealing with nasty people altogether. The same preference applies to averting unwanted criticism. Last but not least, wouldn't our days be easier if we never had to comply with silly rules?

The crucial element in successful dating is rational persistence. The question is how we can sustain our motivation long enough to achieve our romantic goals. Indeed, looking for a soul mate would be less complicated if we could keep away all those inconveniences, but let's face the truth, the world is not going to turn into paradise tomorrow morning. Negative personal interactions are particularly aggravating during dating, since love seekers who invest themselves heavily in their search often place their egos in the line of fire.

The good news is that you can minimize your dating annoyances if you grow a thick skin, that is, if you become more philosophical about life. Learn to enhance your psychological resiliency and this knowledge will serve you well for the rest of your life. The techniques are not difficult and you can practice them on your own. During your dating adventures, you will have ample opportunity to test the validity of these theories.

One can only wonder why mental resiliency is rarely taught at school. Every little elephant in the savannah knows how important it is to grow a healthy thick skin for protection against weather inclemencies, viruses, and infections. In the same way, human beings need to develop a sound psychological armour against the inevitable frictions of social life.

Which techniques can you use to build up a psychological protection layer as thick as the rugged skin of an elephant? In the case of dating, my choice of methods would go towards cultivating deliberate slowness and purposeful indifference. Let us see how these two techniques work in practice.

When you meet new people with romantic purposes in mind, some of your new acquaintances will be great, others will leave you cold, and a few will personify everything that you can possibly dislike in a human being. If you are attending a social event or have been invited for dinner by friends, you might not wish to leave right way, but on the other side, you really don't want to drag along all evening in conversation with obnoxious strangers.

In those cases, adopting a strategy of deliberate slowness can work wonders. By the way, this is an approach that you can take to defuse many exacerbating social situations. Deliberate slowness is the ideal defence mechanism on those occasions when someone is verbally distressing you or bothering you at a party.

Should you find yourself in that situation, the perfect way to play is not to get angry. Instead of arguing and reacting with indignation, you can pretend that your brain needs hours to absorb the simplest information and stall. Very often, people will succumb to their own impatience, rate you as a hopeless bore, and leave you in peace.

The second technique, purposeful indifference, requires longer training, but its field of application is much wider. Occasionally, during the dating process, you won't be able to escape nasty, unfair criticism, threats, or warnings, either from friends, family, or strangers. Don't let them ruin your day. Remember that it is great that people are free to express their opinions even if they don't know what they are talking about.

Put on your best poker face, say that you take note of their comments, and walk on. As soon as you are away from the scene, shrug your shoulders and don't let anxiety take control of your mind. Reserve your energies for the next date, where you might meet just the right person for you.

Looking for soul mate is difficult enough. Let us not allow ourselves to be affected by nonsensical remarks from other people. As Epictetus observed in Ancient Rome, "some men find joy in fishing and others in hunting, but for me, there is no greater pleasure than living my days with measure." Take advantage of your dating experiences to develop a thick skin. In addition to facilitating your search for love, you will be making yourself an invaluable present.

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Friday, September 25, 2009

Dating With Dangerous Consequences - Is She Worth the Risk?

By Matt D Fuller

Whether it is the boss's daughter, perhaps you (secretly) fancy the girl your friend likes, regardless of the predicament, beautiful women are everywhere you go, with the possibility of dangerous consequences.

Your friend's sister.

Why not to: Blood is much thicker than water, and by going there, you are seriously jeopardizing their relationship that has been established for many years, and there is no guarantee yours will last.

Why you should go for it: If there is mutual attraction and you both have common interests, it's a sound foundation for any relationship, according to Dr Pam Spurr, author of Fabulous Foreplay. "If your friends sister is younger than you, which is normally the case in these situations, there is every chance she has had a secret crush on you".

Are you a bit of a love rat? well you run the risk of your mate becoming protective of his little sis so she doesn't get hurt. You need to prove you're not out to simply put another notch on your belt. You need to prepare your friend by discussing how career focused you are, and indicate that you have the ability to provide for her. Big brothers are typically over protective of their little sisters, so your friend will feel more comfortable if his sister dates someone he knows really well, which is you!

Your child's school teacher.

Why not to: Parent-teacher nights can take the focus off the purpose of the meeting if your child's teacher is giving you bedroom eyes at the same time as assessing your child's report card. The ramifications can be damaging if the teacher is a heavy influence on your child's life, who will suffer if the romance goes sour.

Why you should go for it: If there is some chemistry building between you and the teacher, and you're a single parent, apart from using online dating sites , the opportunity to meet new singles doesn't come up all that often, and given that you have already established common ground, it would be hard to pass up the opportunity.

You only have a few minutes to seize on this window of opportunity, so utilize your speed dating skills after you have been through your child's report card, the fastest way to make an impression - according to Harvard psychologist Dr Zick Rubin, is to "establish 5-6 seconds of eye contact, and to divulge personal information", something really simple like, favorite foods or recreational/exercise habits.

The boss's daughter - tread very carefully with this one!

Why not to: Your boss controls your finances and could make your life very uncomfortable both financially and during work. Undressing your boss's daughter with your eyes is one sure way not to get a pay rise.

Why you should go there:

It pretty much goes without saying that she is off limits, many will look, but touching is risky. She holds power by affiliation, and bedding powerful women is high up on the list of 'must do's' for sexually active men. You can count on the fact that most of your competition will be too scared to go there, so you will have a clear and unchallenged run, and she will appreciate your audacity and risk taking - best of luck with your new father in law.

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Thursday, September 17, 2009

How to Be a Girl Magnet - Be the Guy Every Girl Desperately Wants to Be With

What is a girl magnet? In the very basic of terms, a girl magnet is a guy who is capable of naturally drawing women towards him. A girl magnet can attract any girl he's into, and make her fall for him without so much an effort. In a world where girls get to choose and never have to make a move, and guys have to be under the pressure of trying, and being rejected, it is every man's dream to just be a babe magnet by not doing anything out of this world. You can actually be irresistible to women with three simple things.

The right scent. When a girl smells nice, she makes people sniff in admiration. It's the same thing for men. Apart from meticulous hygiene, a guy who wants to get girls without the effort must smell sexy. A shower and clean clothes are staples. Then choose a scent that you can identify with. Scents with hints of spice are for the sophisticated man. Sporty scents are for the athletic and the go-getter. You can choose mild, natural, fresh scents for an everyday spritz. Be careful not be spray too much as you might be sending the ladies away instead of drawing them closer.

The right attitude. A man's self-confidence is irresistibly sexy. Do this little trick when talking to women. Lean back, look right into their eyes and smile. This projects positivity and tells the girl you know your stuff, and you're not rushing into anything serious. Smiling means you're approachable. A straight stare lock with a girl tells her you are sincere. Leaning back and not getting too close implies you're not desperate and there's more to you, and she has to work for it if she wants to get to know you. If you've got her on a hook, she most definitely will.

The right luck. Finally, stop comparing yourself to other men who can make girls swoon when they walk by. When your insecurities get the best of you, just think that these men have just had better luck than you have. One of these days, with the right attitude, and some sexy after-shave, you will have your right stroke of luck.

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Monday, September 14, 2009

5 Types of Flirt Signals to Decode Her Body Language

If you want to know if a woman is flirting with you and if you want to know how lucky and how deep you are in this game of flirting then it is time that you sat back and read this piece. Here I have brought together 5 types of flirt signals that any woman would give out and this will help you decode her body language.

• When a woman is flirting with you, you will notice that most of her remarks would not be directed at anybody in general in the crowd. Her gaze will be on you, a smile will light her face and the remark would be more of a challenge that is being stated to your face.

• If a woman is flirting with you she will be very subtle about it. It will look like she has been in the game for a very long time and that she has mastered the art of flirting.

• Women who flirt will also tend to toy with something or the other. They will have a compulsive need to keep their fingers occupied when they flirt with you. It could be a stirrer, a pen or even your fingers.

• You can easily detect if a woman is flirting with you by the way she moves around you. If she is very relaxed but seemingly in control of the direction in which the conversation is headed, then she is outrageously flirting.

• The most outright flirting signal a woman could employ is to ask you out straight! She could ask you out for dinner, a cup of coffee or even a night cap at her place.

Now, memorize these signals and remember them the next time a woman talks to you. Now even you will be able to differentiate a flirt form a normal conversation and avoid undesirable endings!

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Saturday, September 12, 2009

Stop Your Divorce! 3 Amazing Tips on How You Can Stop a Divorce and Live a 2nd Honeymoon! By Juliette Christian

So, you think your marriage is heading towards the dreadful end - but you want to stop your divorce. How to do that when everything seems hopeless? I was in your shoes a while ago. I thought I had tried everything I could, but still nothing changed. I couldn't move my spouse an inch - everything seemed hopeless. But I was taught to do the right things afterwards and stop my divorce from happening. So here are some very important tips:

1. Be Inaccessible: I know that you are either thinking of begging to your spouse for your marriage, or you have already done that. Whatever the case, you should AVOID doing that at all costs. Why? Simple - it's because people always want what they can't have. When you're begging your spouse, you're actually screaming "I am easy to have!!" and this works against you. Cut this out, and make that principle work for our advantage instead of your disadvantage.

2. Be Absent: This goes hand in hand with the first one. Do not be in front of your spouse's eyes all the time - your spouse is already fed up with you and your marriage. Do not move out of course, but just don't be in front of your spouse the whole day. In Sundays for example, you might consider getting out of your home in the morning and not come till it's late in the evening.

3. Outside Advice: Begging is the wrong thing but I know it's tempting. It's because of your mental state - it will make you do the wrong things all the time. So if you want to stop your divorce, the best step to take is to acknowledge that your own emotions take you nowhere, and ask for some outside advice. It is how I stopped my divorce!

My marriage was failing on every aspect - it was such a troubled marriage that I thought there was no hope.

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Thursday, September 10, 2009

Here is How to Get Your Ex Back Within a Week! You Most Definitely Don't Want to Miss This at All By Rahul Talwar

So you just cried your recent bucket of tears! You faced the worst nightmare you never expected to happen to your relationship - breakup. Even if you were the one who decided to let go, you soon realized that the decision you made was the worst you had. So you are currently plotting a very important and perhaps complicated plan to win that special person back. So how do you proceed with the plan? Here are extremely effective tips that you should include and perhaps replace other means that you have already set to win your ex back before the calendar sets on the 15 day of the month.

- Absolutely refrain from digging around the past and flaunting it to your ex - open the lines of communication but do not cut nor spoil the thin thread by bringing up old wounds. Also it is not fruitful to constantly brag your ex to come back to you with all those pitiful and conscientious statements. These will only push then farther away from you.

- Do not make promises - in as much as you want to reassure your ex that you will transform your old ways for the betterment of your relationship should your former partner be convinced to go back to you, making all those promises will only spoil the whole thing. Instead of broadcasting it, keep it to your heart and mind and make sure to fulfill it in the best way you can. In this way, your partner will not be frustrated if you can not perfectly avoid old mistakes because you simply did not make a verbal promise.

- Heal your wounds first - before convincing your ex to turn back to you, be emotionally stable first. You have to get out of the depressed state and start anew. If you look so down and uncollected, your ex will find a hard time deciphering whether what state you are currently in. Because you are not stable it is likely that he/she will not be enticed to come back to you.

So if you want to win your ex back heal your wounds first and don't nag about what happened with your recent relationship.

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Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Dating Tips For Baby Boomers

If you're reading this you are probably in your late forties or fifties and considering a new partner. The reasons why are not important, what is important is how you approach dating again.

For many over forties re-entering the dating arena is scary. What we took as common place in our teens and twenties just doesn't hold in today's society and it's wise to take precautions. Here are a few handy tips.

Tip One: Where to find the right match.

There are a myriad of dating sites but they come with their own problems. Not everyone online is honest about their intentions and, if you're new to online dating you can easily fall prey to those who may not have your best interests at heart.

Look at your current social circle including family and ask yourself if they could introduce you to people - even just friends. Networking works and with today's social media like twitter and blogs you could soon find yourself connecting with strong possibles.

Tip Two: Define what you want.

Do you really know what you're looking for? Take time out and write down five of the characteristics you need most in your next partner like kindness, financially stable, mature. Each time you make a connection refer to your list and if the date doesn't fit, move on.

Tip Three: Stop wasting time.

We've all read the book or seen the movie 'He's just not that into you." Recognise the signs and move on. The longer you have 'flotsam' in your life, the more tied down you are and the harder it is to find the right partner.

You could trip over the perfect partner but not be in a position to get to know them if you're still hanging on to the wrong one for fear of being alone or simply because the devil you know may be better than the one you don't. Move on!

Tip Four: Be Honest.

Being honest about who you want in your life means being honest with yourself as well as others. Don't let friends badger you into dating someone you know isn't your type. Don't be afraid to excuse yourself during a date if the situation is awkward or uncomfortable, there is a polite way out of it.

If you're online make your profile as honest as possible but be careful of what you say. If you do meet someone you like let them know that you are seeking a meaningful relationship. Be honest in your appearance by putting truthful images online and dressing as you normally would. A visual lie will catch you out instantly and create upset. Honesty expects respect.

Tip Five: Have a back up plan.

In any situation request a visual meeting. No one can tell what a person is like just from a picture or a quick telephone conversation. Avoid text messages and emails as they are the easiest places to hide your true self. Meet, and quickly.

Arrange a short meeting first and be sure to advise the other party that you have exactly ten or thirty minutes - just enough time to form a true impression. You can always arrange another meeting and anticipation is good.

Ask a friend to phone on your mobile after ten minutes so that you have an out. You can always ask them to call back later if you're enjoying yourself.

Tip Six: Re- evaluate.

After a few different dates take time to evaluate those people you've met and see if they uphold the five important values you assigned to your perfect partner. If they only matched up to some then agree to see them again to see if there are others on the list you didn't notice.

If they don't match up to any then scratch them off your list totally.

If they match up to all of them then let them know you are looking for a long term relationship with someone like them but don't be over pushy or you could spoil it. Just be honest. If they feel the same way, they'll respect that and move forward with you to accomplish it.

Tip Seven: Watch out for abusers.

There are always those who abuse systems like online dating and take advantage of people who are serious about seeking a long term partner. Be aware of this and try to pace your dating and date more than one potential partner to start with.

Dating isn't having sex. It's having fun and getting to know someone. Meetings can be short and engaging without getting physical. Physicality lowers our survival instincts and sends mixed messages. Wait before you get physical, you can show interest in many other ways.

Tip Eight: Listen to your friends and family.

If you believe you have connected with a good potential partner take them to meet friends or family. Engineer a meeting where they feel comfortable and where your friends and family can see them in a social environment.

Whether we like it or not, friends and family often see a side to someone that we don't when we are enamoured.

Tip Nine: Keep the children out of it.

As an over forty you may well have children. Consider their feelings when you start dating again and, whilst they be aware you are dating, keep them away from all dates until you are certain you are entering a strong relationship.

Children become attached very quickly to single parents new partners and this can be damaging if the relationship ends quickly after starting. Introduce a new date as a friend but preferably keep them away from your home life until you are sure things are going well enough for it to warrant an introduction to your children.

Tip Ten: Have Fun!

Whilst dating is not a scientific experiment our world has ensured that we need help to meet the right people. It's not as easy as in our twenties. We don't go clubbing, bar hopping or partying at this age so alternatives are necessary.

Make it fun for yourself. Join in activities that you'd do anyway like hiking, yoga, dancing, DIYing, racing, horse riding. It makes sense that you'll find like minded people doing things that you like within the boundaries that you set. Above all, have fun!

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Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Spiritual Discernment - Miracles or Deceptions?

Many people are fascinated with the supernatural, and drawn to miracles to provide a quick solution to problems or crises. Inspirational and influential religious leaders abound with claims of healing and deliverance, and multitudes follow without understanding the dangers. Claims of miracles and other supernatural phenomena are growing widely in many different religions and cultures. Also, we have entered an age where people seldom acknowledge any objective standard of truth, and the vast majority believes absolute truth does not exist at all.

Most of us are aware of cults and individuals who have given themselves over to following a belief system that sounds glorious on the surface, but where the surprise outcome for followers is disillusionment, despair, and destruction. Unfortunately, many religious leaders are secretly motivated by money and power instead of the well-being of their followers, and use every means available to entice the unwary. Today, we must become spiritually mature enough to discern truth for ourselves, and not blindly trust in religious leaders. The spiritual health of us and our families is primarily our own responsibility, not our church or pastor.

Spiritual deception is much more effective using candy-coated but poisonous half-truths to destroy people from within rather than outward attacks, since such insidious attacks go largely undetected. The antidote to this deception lies within the Christian Bible, which indicates that miracles will be the greatest form of deception in the last days before the personal return of Christ, and that these miracles will eventually lead many to unwittingly worship a counterfeit Messiah known as the Antichrist. Right now, the world is being prepared for his reign by a focus on spiritual experiences, and miraculous signs in particular, both within the Christian church and in other religions. These signs will continue to increase in scope and power as Christ's return approaches.

According to Christ Himself, multitudes of people and institutions believe they are following Christ, and doing good religious works in His name, but they are in fact deceived, and were never known by Him. For multitudes, miracles will be the Pied Piper that unwittingly leads them to eternal separation from God, so it is vital to understand how to avoid spiritual deception in this area. With no standard of truth, and the enticement of exciting and seemingly good experiences, how can one distinguish between genuine works of God, supernatural signs and wonders of occult or demonic forces, and faked miracles via men’s sleight of hand?

It is essential to recognize and avoid spiritual deception. There are numerous sources of information about miracles from religions and men, but the authoritative source of truth is found in the Bible. To avoid deception when looking at our experiences and information about miracles, be sure to rely on sources that align their beliefs and experiences with God's standard of truth.

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Rory Roybal is the author of Miracles or Magic?, and has over 10 years of experience leading church and home Bible studies. He has more than 15 years of executive management experience, leading groups of up to 400 people and $33M+ technical business units. Rory has been featured on the cover of VB Tech Journal and served as editor-in-chief for the Unix System Price/Performance Guide.

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Monday, September 7, 2009

Amazingly Effective Tricks to Get Your Ex Back!

You Don't Want to Miss This at Any Possible Cost

Breakups are just bumps along the way to a stronger relationship and can be easily dealt with. As a matter of fact, some say that most breakups are healthy for couples, as long as it is properly handled. In order for you to accomplish this, check out these tips.

Have a Positive Outlook - Decide with all conviction that the reason as to why you want him/her back is because you deeply care about that person and you want to share the rest of your life with him/her. Let your ex know about your good intentions and he/she will surely realize your importance and get back with you.

Be Real - Be the real you and not someone else. Keep in mind that the person you are confronting is someone who has been with you and knows a thing or two about you. Your ex can tell if you are telling the truth or just yanking his/her chain.

Take your Time - The wounds one acquires from a breakup can be healed through time. Both of you most probably have had a share of pains that are caused by one another, so just take your time and wait for them to subside. With this, you will see that it is easier to talk and get back with someone whom you do not have any frustration or anger with. Give yourselves time and respect each other's space.

Walk. Do Not Run - When you are traveling the road to recovery, take it one step at a time. Never go in too abruptly and strong for it might frighten your ex away. Again, just remain calm and just be you. Try to do the things you normally do prior to the breakup; things that you know he/she likes. This can be a great way to start a new relationship with him/her.

Make Your Ex Return Your Phone Calls! You Don't Want to Miss This

Picture this - you are already drowning in your own tears and hurting from the pain, and to make matters worst, your ex does not even bother returning your calls. Sounds pretty cruel, right? Then again, maybe you are just thinking too much, or maybe he/she is just taking his/her time to contemplate on things and is trying to straighten his/her life a bit. Whatever the reasons, you can try out some of these tips so you can have your ex holler back at you. Read on.

Ready a Plan - One thing you can try is to trick your ex boyfriend or girlfriend to return your calls. With this, you will need an action plan up and running. Remember though that whatever your plan is, avoid sounding too desperate for your ex will surely not answer back. He/she will most likely ignore you more if you sounded too needy. Just make the trick as believable as possible.

Get Your Ex Curious - Make out something that will arouse your ex's curiosity. What do you think makes a person get back to another person - Perhaps, an emergency? Remember to avoid those overused excuses. You of all people should know this because you have been a part of his/her life for a long time. Start your message with statements that you know will grab his/her curiosity so that he/she listen to the entire message.

Motivate your Ex - Look for ways that will make your ex feel that he/she needs you, rather than the other way around. Thank your ex for the little things that he/she does and your ex will surely die just to know what it is that you are thanking him/her for.

The Follow-up Game - Now that you have your ex calling you back, ask him/her if they could follow-up on you just so they could be updated regarding your state. You will definitely be rewarded with a call from your ex every now and then.

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Sunday, September 6, 2009

How to Make Any Girl Like You Within Seconds? You Will Become the Ultimate Ladies Man From Now

Keep this in mind - girls do not just rely completely on the guy's looks. For you to be attractive, you also need to have the brains and a good personality. Having lots of money and being able to take her to fancy restaurants or a luxurious hotel is also no assurance that all girls would like and want to go out with you. Just being able to take her to some place decent is already enough to earn her respect. Here are six more tips that can help you make any girl you want to like you - fast!

1. Develop your Personality - Girls really like passionate guys and also someone who can make them laugh. Try to work out on being a cheerful and humorous person. Just remember never to be shallow and too frivolous.

2. Be Trustworthy - Being reliable and dependable will always be attractive to girls. If you happen to be working in the same vicinity as she is, make this known by always being there.

3. Be Considerate - If you are a thoughtful and considerate person, the chances of girls wanting to be with you is very likely because they want someone who they know they can be comfortable with.

4. Have a Shaped Mind and Body - Take proper care of your personality and of your physique. Be concerned about your well being; keep your body in good shape.

5. Be Fashion-Sensitive - Dressing up is not just for girls nor does this make you look gay. Always look well-groomed and clean. This also does not mean that you only have to wear clothes that are expensive and branded. Just be neat.

6. Be Chivalrous - Girls really dig a true gentleman. Always treat a woman with the respect that she deserves and you will be a true ladies-man in no time.

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Saturday, September 5, 2009

How to Get My Ex Husband Back After Cheating

You couldn't believe it when your husband walked out on you could you? You never, even in your wildest dreams imagined that he could be so nasty to you.

Come of the things he said still hurt you and it's been months since that fateful day. But let us accept the simple fact that yes it did happen.

Learning to accept the fact that your husband walked out on you is very important. But then, if you want him back badly, if you decide that you love him enough to risk going through all this pain again, then here are five pointers which will help you snag him once again!

• Clear your head. Get out of the depression. These negative thoughts cloud your mind and you aren't able to think straight. As a result of this, you end up looking stupid. Stop wallowing in your misery and get back to normal life.

• Accept that your relationship with your ex-husband, in its previous form is over. I can sense you violently disagreeing to this statement, but it is very necessary to accept this fact. Moreover, with time, you will understand that your previous relationship wasn't perfect anyway, that is the basic reason why he walked out on you.

• Do not call, text or email him umpteen number of times. Respect his privacy and give him his space. Maybe all you two needed were some time apart! So do not cry on the phone or show up at his doorstep in tears. It'll only drive you two further apart.

• Get a make-over. Many people tend to neglect themselves once they get married to each other. This is a huge mistake. You need to look good to feel good about yourself, you need to boost your damaged self-esteem! On the upside you'll be looking like a million bucks the next time you see your man.

• You can "accidentally" bump into him in a public place or get your mutual friends to call both of you over to their house for dinner or something. But take it slow and when you meet him, keep your physical; contact to a minimum.

Drop subtle hints about the good times you've shared and make sure you let him know that you are living a normal life and are not suffering from depression. This will get him thinking and ultimately back into your arms!

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How to Know If Your Spouse is Seeing Someone Else - Sure Shot Tricks Which Always Work

Do you think that there is something wrong with your marriage? Instances when you realize that your spouse is spending so much time away from you without even bothering to check if you are okay may sound the alarms that he/she is seeing someone new. To settle the doubts, you need to take action and verify whether he/she is seeing someone new or not. With that in mind, here are ways for you to find out if your spouse is seeing someone else.

Check your spouse's car. Some of the action that your spouse is having with his/her lover may be happening in the car. Therefore, it is the one of the best places to look for evidence that your spouse is cheating. Inspect for hair strands that are not yours, check the glove compartment for suspicious items and receipts, and check the trunk for stashed clothing. You can also check the seats for suspicious stains.

Follow your spouse. If your spouse tells you that he/she will go on another business trip again, secretly follow him/her to verify if he/she is making things up or telling the truth. Have a close friend join you for support and to serve as your witness.

Take a peek on your spouse's credit card statements. Look for information that can give your spouse away in terms of expenses that you do not even know about. Look for information indicating that money was spent on gifts, hotel or motel bills, restaurants, flowers, or vacations that do not concern you.

A change in behavior and attitude. There are cheating spouses who display significant changes in their behavior. He/she may act aloof or cold towards you but there are those who will act overly generous and attentive to avoid suspicion. Be wary of these changes and treat them as signs that he/she is hiding something from you.

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