Secrets of Blissful Relationships: Is Fighting Fair?

If your child came to you and asked if she could have a fight with her friend down the street would you tell her "sure, just make sure it is a fair fight"?  If Iraq and Iran are fighting, do you think it is good as long as they are "fighting fair"?

Most people would say that they should try to talk over their differences and peacefully negotiate instead. So why do so many people say it is ok for couples to fight as long as they have a fair fight? That certainly sends the wrong message even though they might be using the word "fight" in a different way.  We should be encouraging couples to negotiate instead of fight.

So, here are some points for negotiating a problem in your relationship.

# Wait until your temper is in control.  If necessary, exercise, take a walk, work in the garden or do something that will help relieve the tension.

# Schedule a time and a place for the "peace talks" to take place. Make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to work through the issue.  Pick a location that is peaceful and without distractions. Some people like to go to a restaurant or public place so they will be forced to not yell.

# Discuss the issue at hand. Don't wait until you have five or ten things that are upsetting you before you schedule a talk.

# The purposes of negotiations aren't to have your mate believe just as you do, but for them to understand your beliefs and feelings. People are different and that can be a good thing.

# Use "I" sentences to explain how you feel. For example "I feel hurt and neglected when you spend all Sunday with your golf buddies" instead of saying "you are a bad husband for always playing golf and ignoring me."

# Unlike fighting, in negotiations, no side has to come out "the winner." Both of you will win with deeper understanding and compassion for each other.

# Sometimes it is wise to compromise but other times it can cause resentment.  Don't ask your sweetheart to give up golf just because he isn't spending enough time with you.  Cut back, yes. Give up, no.

# If you find it helpful, write out your peace treaty and sign it.

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3 Ways To Intensify Your Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?

It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. PROLONG YOUR FOREPLAY

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it gives you time to
build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just human nature. Think about a big event in
your life.

Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time under the sheets, make a
conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.

Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly
into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for both of you. And if you
want to feel the magic even more then...

2. TRY NEW THINGS WITH A "TWIST"

Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling, simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new technique­­pack a picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. PLAY BEDROOM GAMES

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…
1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better way than playful game
that combines both prolonged foreplay and tryin new things.

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Love Tips: Photocopy Shocker!

Do You Want Your Man Back?

Take this quiz: What is the best thing to do to get him back?

A.  Write him a letter (expressing your heartfelt emotions, reminding him of all the good times you've had together, what you think went wrong in your relationship, ways to make your relationship better, etc.)

B.  Call him on the phone, tell him how you feel -- and get him to open up and talk about his feelings

C.  Give him gifts and shower him with sweetness and love -- so he'll realize what he's missing by not having you in his life.

D. Call him and say, "No one will ever love you as much as I do."

Just thought I would let you know that my husband is very
happy about my discovery (from you) that tightening my muscles as he is
e.jaculating intensifies his experience. - Nicole

~~~ Tips ~~~

Make some photocopies of your diary entries that describe your lovemaking exploits and send them to your spouse at their office.

You can have a quickie in any room in the house. Just bend over (support your self on the kitchen counter, dresser, table, you name it) and let him go for it with his mouth or hot rod.

Take the time to give your lovers feet special attention. Get a pan of warm water and bathe their feet and then dry with a soft towel.

Once your darlings feet are clean, feel free to lick, suck and kiss it all over. Devote special attention to each toe and the area between the toes that is quite sensitive.

Dear Michael:

I can not orgasm with my man. I fake it all the time and I feel so bad about that.  Any advice?

Anonymous

Dear Anonymous:

The cause is either physical or psychological.  Or a combination. Many women have a clitoris that has limited sensitivity or is positioned in a way that the typical stimulation is not enough for a full pleasurable
experience.  Also many women have low blood flow to that region.

I have had numerous women tell me that V Cream has been miraculous for them.  It not only gives them 1000 times more pleasure, that they are now having multiple orgasms whereas they had difficulty reaching even one before using it.

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Secrets of Blissful Relationships: Just Say No to Fighting

Secrets of Blissful Relationships

When I went to Junior High School I said 'no' to drugs. When I went to the marriage alter I said 'no' to fighting.

Nancy Reagan's "Just Say No" anti-drug campaign was a huge success. Kids made a verbal commitment and a mental stance to avoid drugs before they were even of the age to be tempted. When they were introduced to drugs, they knew they could "just say no" and not feel alone.

Drug use among school age children plummeted in the 1980s and many have held up Nancy Reagan's program as the chief reason.

People who decide how they are going to cross a bridge before they ever get to it have a much greater chance of not falling in the water.

Why can't we start a "Just Say No to Fighting" campaign? I'll admit, we are against tough odds. It is perfectly acceptable (and often expected) in our modern culture for a husband and wife to fight. Many marriage and relationship counselors even encourage it in the name of "communication."

Yes, it is true. My wife and I have never had a fight. Not in our 20-plus years of marriage. I don't intend on starting. I made a decision when I was dating Athena that I would never fight with her. I saw firsthand how the curse of fighting destroyed my parents' and dozens of other marriages.

Certainly there are times when emotions get wrinkled, and the natural declination is to blow your top. I sometimes have to bite my tongue so I don't say something I would later regret (since when is self-control a bad thing?). Having a naturally calm personality has admittedly made it easier for me to think before I speak than it is for some people. But that shouldn't stop anyone from trying.

Unlike many other relationship experts, I don't see fights or heated arguments as healthy. I just can't imagine how hurting my spouse with verbal and emotional barbs (yes - they do cause serious pain) could ever be encouraged under the guise of "opening up and sharing your feelings." Baloney! I don't need to raise my voice or throw dishes to say I disagree or to explain what I am feeling. Neither does anyone else.

We don't fall for the drug pusher's lies that "everyone's doing it" or "just a little bit won't hurt" and we shouldn't be so gullible to accept the wives tales that everyone fights and that it is a healthy part of relationships.
Fighting is not harmless. It is addictive and if continued, it is likely to cause irreparable damage. It's time to get clean. Go and fight no more.

Secrets of Blissful Relationships

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Romantic Tip: Im-Press the Memories

As an incurable romantic, I firmly believe that Autumn is that magical

time when dreams are realized and hopes renewed and the turning of the

leaves brings to fruition all the promise of spring and summer.

My love and I like to collect a leaf to mark the turning of each

autumn, which we faithfully press in a beautiful hand painted heirloom

flower press given to me by my mother-in-law. Our leaf collection

started the year of our marriage in 1979 and has grown over 21 years,

each added leaf marking the passage of time and becoming in a strange,

mysterious way the embodiment of our hopes and dreams.

The flower press has traveled with us around the world, and includes

unnamed exotic leafy specimens pressed alongside those from an ancient

Pohutukawa that clung to a cliff in the Bay of Island, New Zealand, a

frond from a dainty English Willow overgrowing the River Avon and pert

Canadian Dogwood we carefully nurture in our own garden, to name but a

few.

God willing, we plan to gather many more, each carrying part of our

past into our future.

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Love Tips: How to Sweeten Your Stuff

If you want to guarantee yourself some really HOT nights in the
days and weeks ahead, give your sweetheart some personalized Se.xy
Coupons that he or she can redeem for future pleasures.

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My wife and I both subscribe to this newsletter and I look forward
to it every week because I know every Wednesday night will be
incredible. I basically have a boner all day thinking of what my
wife and I will be doing when I get home.  Your emails are like
fore.play for her. It puts her in the mood and and she is VERY
ready to try out your suggestions. Sometimes we even email each
other to decide which of the tips we want to try out when we get
home. Trying new stuff isnt awkward any more.

You don't know how much you have changed our se.x life. 

Try this out. Find the narrowest doorway and undress. Face each
other and try to have intercourse while each of you is leaning
backwards on the door jamb.

Play a game of *Name that Food*. Blindfold your spouse and have
him or her lick something off your body (put it wherever you want)
and have them guess what it is. They have to keep doing it until
they get it right.

If you want to sweeten your semen, eat the following foods up to 12
hours before love...making: celery, pineapples, melon, strawberries
or kiwi.

Does Your EXCESS SWEATING embarrass you?

I had a friend who was always sweating and honestly
it grossed most of us out.

Excess sweating can cause multiple problems

*    Loss of work promotions
*    Less desirable physical intimacy
*    Ruins clothes
*    Alienates friends

A few months back I noticed at the end of church his
shirt was not all sweated out like usual.  I asked about
it and he shared with me how he found a cure for his
overactive sweat-glands.

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Simple Valentine's Day Date Ideas

For most couples Valentine's Day is the day of the year when they really want to spend time together with their partner and show them how much they care and love them. But quite allot of people have trouble planning a perfect Valentine's Day. This is probably due to a great amount of pressure on a person to plan a perfect date or because the person who is planning the date just does not know how to plan a good date in general and particular stressed about Valentine's Day as it considered to be such an important day. Whatever the case may be, here I will provide few Ideas for a great Valentine's Day date.

One of the classic ideas for Valentine's Day date is a romantic candlelight dinner preferably somewhere with great views and if possible the view of the sunset as well. The romantic dinner date will be quite well received no matter if you planning to cook a beautiful meal or go out to a good restaurant. Although you may think that a romantic dinner date may look like a boring and outdated idea for Valentine's Day date, you should remember that, just because it is not that original and has been done so often, it one of those things which never go out of style and always appreciated.

Another great idea for Valentine's Day is a night out dancing. In case you and your partner already good dances you can just go to your local dance club and spend the evening dancing. Another thing you may do to spice up an evening is instead of going to your local dance club, go out to town to a night club especially the one which has salsa dancing. This will make dancing date to be more exciting and more appreciated by your partner. On the other hand if you do not have much dancing experience you may consider organizing a ballroom or salsa dance lesson. This will help you both to learn something new and also will help you connect better with your partner. Otherwise you can just head out to a night club and dance the night away.

Another great idea for Valentine's Day and it is not often been considered but if done right it can be quite good. The idea is to rent a series of movies according to a particular theme, make sure it is something that both of you will enjoy, and then spend the evening watching movies and making popcorn. This will allow you and your partner to spend quality time together, which is really important in any relationship.

You can take you partner on a scenic helicopter ride, which can be quite romantic just pick a time so you can see the sunset towards the end of the flight it is very beautiful and romantic and will be appreciated by your partner. In order to get it right you should consider booking a helicopter in advance as there availability restrictions on such flight and they get booked quite fast as well. Also you may add a dinner after the helicopter flight, were helicopter would drop you off right next to the restaurant. If you do that you will score quite allot of good points with your partner.

You may also consider some sort of a cultural event as a play in a theatre or a visit to a museum or an art gallery. These types of activities would be especially good if you and your partner do not engage into them on a regular basis. And remember that these types of activities are only good and will be appreciated if your partner enjoys them and you and your partner don't do them very often.

When planning a Valentine's Day date remember to think about who you planning it for and what would they enjoy. And also make sure it is not something that you and your partner do on a regular basis otherwise if it is add some sort of a twist to it by doing so you and your partner will have a great and enjoyable Valentine's Day date.

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How to Get Her Back - Tips for Healing A Broken Relationship

Want to get yor ex back? Discover the single greatest secret to effortlessly get your ex back, find more information here. Good luck!

When your girlfriend decides she's had enough and wants to move on to see other people, it can really hurt. I know it's not exactly "manly" to let it be known that we feel pain like anyone else, but that doesn't change the fact that we do. Well, there are plenty of ways to get over that pain and even get back together with your ex girlfriend, and I'm here to help you!

Getting back with your ex isn't going to be a walk in the park, but there's a system to it that can simplify things and make it way easier than it could be. Even then, there's no guarantee that it works for everyone, and honestly anybody who says "my way is 100% flawless and guaranteed" is lying. No single method works 100% of the time with 100% of the people, but this process I'm about to show you is one of the most effective ones out there.

First things first, when the breakup actually happens, don't go chasing after her begging her to come back to you. It's not very manly, and it's not going to get you anywhere anyways. She's made up her mind, she's probably angry or hurt or both, and seeing MORE of you right at this time isn't really on her list of favorite things to do.

Give her some space, some time to heal and get herself back in order. While she's sorting her own things out, you need to be doing some thinking yourself. Painful as it is, it's been made clear that the two of you as you both are will NOT end up working things out. SHE'S not going to change, so if you want to make it work with her YOU'RE going to have to be the one to change.

Analyze your relationship with her, and really figure out what YOU did wrong. If you already know what it was, that's great...some girls will tell you what the problems are when they break up with you. Not all of them do though, so you may have to do some thinking here. Once you figure it out and make a list of the things you did to contribute to the demise of the relationship, you have some more work ahead of you.

You have to take those flaws and errors you have or have made, and get rid of them. Stop doing the things that drive her away, and start doing things to draw her to you. A lot of this depends on the specific girl and what her individual needs and expectations are, so you can tell yourself exactly what it is you need to do better than I could, since you know her better than I do.

Whatever the case may be, you need to work your issues out and solve your biggest problems. When you're either done with that or are well on the road to being done with it, you can reinitiate contact with your ex. Remember to keep it simple and light, calling about the breakup or getting back together isn't usually met with much positivity. A pretty tried-and-true example of a first contact is to see how she's been doing since the breakup. It's light, shows you care, and doesn't start getting into "oh my God I miss you so much come back."
Once you've established contact again, slowly build back up with a few contacts here and there, light and friendly without getting TOO friendly. Eventually you two will probably start spending time together, and at this point it's important to spend this time doing things the two of you always really enjoyed doing before when you were a couple. Doing something fun and familiar should bring fond memories to the surface, and start to rekindle a little of what she felt for you in the past.

Really, from here it's just playing it by ear. Pay attention to her, listen to her, and watch for any signals that she may still be in love with you. Let her see for herself that the problems you had that assisted the ending of the relationship have been dealt with or are in the process of being dealt with. Be the guy she fell in love with, only without the faults that made her leave.

Following this procedure tends to have excellent results, guys. No other "technique" has as high a success rate, because this one actually fixes the problems. If she loves you, she WANTS to be with you, she just doesn't want to be unhappy while she is. That's why she left! If you make it so that you're not causing her unhappiness and she can see that you won't be, she'll be far more open to giving it another shot.

So give it a go, see what happens. I guarantee you'll be surprised at how much easier it seems. Good luck! =)

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By Erik Michaels

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