Does Holding Off on Having Sex Really Improve Your Relationship's Long Term Potential?

Are you skeptical that holding off on having sex will really have any impact on the success of your relationship? Are you quick to jump into a physical relationship only to be left disappointed when things don't work out? When is it the right time to have sex? Holding off on having sex really can strengthen the foundation of your relationship.

There are many reasons that delaying sex is a good idea for both of you. First, it helps you separate the men who are just looking for a fling from the men who have real relationship potential. Having sex too soon tends to cloud your judgment about the man involved. You may overlook things that would normally be a red flag or you may fall into the trap of believing that sex itself will lead to love.

Additionally, delaying sex puts you in a unique category. Men have no problem finding women who are willing to have sex without any strings attached. So when a woman sets boundaries in this area it grabs his attention and fuels his anticipation which then drives him to prove that he is worthy of you. And if you believe that you are worth the wait, most men will too.

So when is the right time?

It's definitely not before he has made an exclusive commitment to you. And you can't make any assumptions here. If he hasn't specifically informed you both verbally and by his actions that he only wants to be with you, then you don't have a commitment. Don't let him slide on this. It's very important that you steak your ground clearly and then stick to it. No doubt it will be hard to do when the chemistry is intense, but it can be done.

Ultimately the decision to hold off on having sex is yours to make. Just be aware of the pros and cons of each choice and make a decision that you are comfortable with rather than allowing pressure from others to dictate your choice for you.

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Dating Guide - How Do You Do the Best Background Check on Your Dates?

It is sweet to trust in a dating relationship. It is smart to make sure your trust is deserved. Is your date being honest in the stories they tell you about their past and present life, or are you being conned?

How do you find out if your date is hiding a dark secret or giving you misleading information about their life story?

Before you get involved in a serious relationship with someone you're just getting to know, it is wise to do a background check using the best services available.

How do you find the best background check service?

It is an alarming statistic that out of 100 background check sites you find on the internet, 80 percent of them cannot deliver the background information you request. As consumers complained of being scammed by background check rip-off sites, Consumer-Advice.org decided to help people avoid the rip-off sites and find the most reliable background check services.

Consumer-Advice.org polled 1000 people with complaints or success stories and they did follow-up tests of each site to verify the results. They concluded that not even the best background check sites can provide 100 percent of the information you seek, but the best sites will have 95 percent of the frequently-updated records you need for your investigation.

Based on consumer reports and their in-house research in 50 states, Consumer-Advice.org recommends the 3 best background check sites:

Consumers Top Choice
Net Detective was chosen by the consumers majority as the best resource for in-depth unlimited background checks. Their service features criminal, marital, motor vehicle, and birth records, as well as legal judgments, or information on alimony and child support compliance.

NetDetective has access to credit bureau and financial records that are out on the internet, but usually very hard to find. They provide many resources, ease of use, good customer support and a one time price of $29 for a 3-year membership with a 90 day money-back guarantee.

Second Choice
Instant Background Report came in second in consumer votes. The site provides reports comprised of State Criminal Check, Nationwide Criminal Check, Marital Status,Phone Number(s),Date of Birth, Address History, Neighbors' Names, Neighborhood Info, Alias Names.

The site does not provide information on credit and vehicle records or legal judgments. Instant Background Report membership fee is $29 with a money-back guarantee.

Best Reverse Searches
You may want to search by a specific address, phone number, email address or SSN record to find who is the owner. The Reverse Records site can access owner information, address history, and location details for any phone number. Their database coverage includes cell, toll-free, residential, business, pager and unlisted numbers.

The Reverse Records site only provides basic information on background checks for the same cost, $29, and money-back guarantee of the top two sites.

Whether you meet potential matches on dating sites, through matchmakers or by chance, it is smart to choose one of the best background check sites to help you make sure that your potential relationship partner is someone you can trust.

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AN ISLAMIC PROSPECT OF PERSONALITY

There are mainly two things which are the basis of a balanced personality in Islam. First it is; to be fearful with Allah and to be fearless with the rest. Secondly; it is to follow the true, accurate and factual Sunnah of the Prophet of Islam (SAW). Allah’s fear is the most prized thing in the human world which determines, explores, illuminates, and builds a true human personality to its greatest extent. It not only helps mankind to explore his own personality rather it leads towards a universal human oneness. A single smallest unit of Allah’s fear is capable to cover all kinds of pain and miseries of our life and can illuminate the true picture of our mind revealing them all in our own personalities.

The people, who have had fear from Allah; in return to that very fear; they definitely gain an unbeaten, brave, fearless, courageous and a victorious wining personality; which never meets sorrow, fear, misery, pain and grief. Allah says that He makes room in all kinds of miseries and pains for whom that fears Him. What is a personality? A true and real personality is the illumination of the ambitions, achievements, goals, emotions of a human being to which he is made for. Else is the distortion, bend and alteration of the personality. Nobody can illuminate his real personality unless he has faith on the Almighty creator of the universe, feels His prominence and is always fearful with Him.

To be fearless for all is one of the main personality traits in Islam. When fears remain, personality collapses. Nobody can imagine a personality which is full of fear. Boldness emerges from the fear of Allah; as and when it enters the heart it kicks out all kinds of fears and phobias. From the first day Islam teaches to be fearless to everybody. It teaches its followers to be bold enough against all the rest than the Creator. Fearlessness and courage is based on the fear of Allah. If someone is not fearful with Allah, he will be fearful to all the rest. Without Allah-fearing mankind is nothing more than an insane. Boldness creates peace and cowardice leads to anxiety. Cowards always live in a constant state of tension which damages their soul and body.

Islam approves boldness, because it brings peace to the human nature. Boldness cannot be attained unless someone has fear for Allah and regards Him as the absolute reason for all kinds of profit and loss. As such a faith prevails is a heart; and someone regards Allah as the absolute reason for all kind of profit, happiness, pleasure, peace and also knows him as the supplier of loss, harms, pains, sadness, and sorrows he comes out from the fear of all creations. They say that Allah’s fear is the source of wisdom. The second basis of an Islamic personality is to follow the true, accurate and factual Sunnah of Prophet of Islam (SAW). As Allah says that the Messengers has been sent for nothing less than to follow them: ? ?? ?????? ?? ???? ??? ????? ???? ???? [I have send messengers for nothing more than to follow them by Allah’s wish].

With the submission of self to the Messenger (SAW) a sober, sound, self esteemed, self- conscience, loving and a gentle personality emerges from the ruins of our behavior and it creates a noble unbeaten psychology of peace into one’s self and for everybody who is eager to join this path of peace. The way or Sunnah of the Messenger (SAW) puts powerful effects on human psych. It makes him bold, faithful, tranquilant, decision making, brave, kind to everyone, and anxiety resistant.

Sunnah personifies a man with good moral habits and makes him free from all kinds of human bondage. A true practice on Sunnah makes a man bold enough to face any kind of unfavorable situation. Whenever he faces hardships or challenges he remains quite, free from all sorts of anxieties and worries. He remains too normal in every uncommon tragic situation. Even he gets free from the worries of everyday life. His heart turns out to be a heart of humanitarian. He seeks pleasure and comfort for everybody. He likes all human being to live in peace.

A true practice of Sunnah amends the self image of a person. It turns a common man to a humanitarian. It throws out the ill feelings of a man. It makes him caring for all, from his relatives to the whole mankind. Sunnah creates depth in the personality. It motivates a man to safeguard others interest. It teaches him to adjust with all the rest. Sunnah is the greatest model for the whole mankind to lean adjustment. Sunnah is the best way of adjustment; approved, accepted and rewarded by Allah. Sunnah brings for everybody the finest way to act or react. It has the best solution for all human problems. Ultimately; Sunnah is the way of life which creates balanced and enlighten personalities in the Society.

So as it was said in the beginning of this article that a model Islamic personality cannot be formed without the two basic things and that is the fearfulness to Allah and acceptance to the Way of Mohammad (SAW). There are more Islamic values that determine an Islamic personality but I have chosen the fear of Allah as the most tremendous value of Islamic faith. Only the fear of Allah can be said to have been the most important thing which leads a man towards righteousness.

I have faith to say that, being a Muslim, if you feel that your personality is not a balanced personality, you let not regard yourself as a satisfied person, if you feel depressed, you have ill feelings, you are ill-contented and are often frightened by your destiny. It is sure that you are lacking such a stage of Faith that you ever have tested before. The answer to all sorts of personality disorders lies in the strong faith on Allah and in the Sunnah of Mohammad (SAW). The fear of Allah is something great that covers all sorts of weaknesses and leads a man towards a perfect, bold, unfolded, self esteemed and fearless personality. It let him feel a sound heart in his body and a sound mind in his head. xxxxxx

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Single Men Looking for Women on the Internet Dating Websites

Free singles sites are the best manners of finding your companion of heart because you do not pay anything. One recommends to him to employ the completely free sites in line of dating to find the singles women and men on the Internet. The great free services of dating have million people of the country singles so that you choose to leave. You can come into contact with as many women and men like possible. You should not simply send a message to a person. You must send more to obtain more chance. There is no limit of the quantity of you singles can come into contact. Seek just all the only men and women who answer your criteria such as the range of age, education, lifestyle, and other buildings. You should send a message to all the people whom you love. You will on a date on line soon. Good luck!

The unmarried women seeking of the man-in-the-loops to the free services of dating of Internet have just a goal. They want to seek a date on line to share their life with. The romance and love you will find on line is true and faithful. Naturally, there are some rich married men who want just to seek a short-term relationship with singles beautiful young girls. This occurs but seldom. Several of unmarried old women want just to find young men singles to fill their empty hearts. These types of singles are very limited. The majority of them east choose which seek the true love. Where will you seek a free service of dating? You should seek on search engines of Google to find the best sites. The first will of page shows that the popular free sites of dating for you chose.

The men seeking of the women or the women seeking of the men to the free sites of dating become a phenomenon in last years because of this market bursting of Internet. Many great services of dating announced with national televisions find approximately a date on line. Thus, there is no doubt that the dating on line functioned well for thousands of couples in the United States and other countries as well. The dating on line is recreation and cannot be erroneous when thousands of couples and reports/ratios produced of. To date from the online services is a connection between the singles women and men to meet the ones with the others on line. Connected singles is on line a principal task for which the services of dating develop. There is no fee when you employ the completely free sites of dating on the Internet.

Your isolated heart must heat with another singles heart. The best manner of finding for a singles heart is on building sites of dating of Internet. In fact, the singles thousands of men seeking of the women on line to the free sites of dating wait to meet their associates. There is no fee to join the service. It means that the singles men can find women for free or charge. The great manner of finding your companion of life is free Web sites of dating of Internet. You can find the friends or the associates on line on these sites too. There is not a limitation of which you seek. Many people can find new friends, correspondents, and associated activity on the Internet easily. However, the majority of the women seeking of the men are for the report/ratio and the romance.

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Attracting Women - How to Pick Up a Woman

When you think of a guy that is good at being able to pick up women, what are the usual image that pop into your mind? The classic 1970's swinger or the 21st century PUA (pick up artist) with the flashy clothes and the metro sexual personality? Well, guess what? You don't have to be either one of these kinds of guys in order to pick up women. Attracting women is NOT something that you have to adapt a fake personality to learn how to do. In fact, in most cases, it's much better to be just an average guy that happens to know how to seduce and attract women.

What are some things that you SHOULD know about picking up women?

1. Most women are resistant to ANY man that they think is just out to "hook up." You don't want to give off the impression that you are out to collect phone numbers of women or just to get some random encounter. You want to be able to make the impression that you ARE just a normal guy that happens to be out looking to get to know people.

2. Lines are NEVER the answer. When you try to rely on a classic line to pick up women, you are really just looking for a crutch or a magic bullet. And these kinds of things do not really exist. What you have to be able to do is to learn how to use conversation to build attraction with a woman. This way, you don't ever have to be one of those guys that is guilty of using cheesy lines.

3. You have to be a NATURAL with women. Now, this may not happen overnight. But, when you can appear comfortable and natural around women, no matter how beautiful she might be, your success with women will start to improve.

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How to Talk to Women - Creating Sexual Attraction With Words

One of the secrets to attracting women is knowing how to talk to women. You don't want to just start any old conversation with a woman IF your goal is to create sexual attraction. You have to learn how to use words that speak to HER emotions. It's not a secret that women are more emotionally driven than men are when it comes to what triggers their attraction.

So, how can YOU create sexual attraction with words? How should you talk to women?

1. Stay away from touchy subjects like politics and religion. Your goal is to build attraction with a woman, not start an argument. You don't want to have a woman hooked on you, only to lose her by talking about the WRONG things. Many men will put their foot in their mouth when they are talking to a woman.

2. You have to be able to tease her in some way. Men that fail to do this, fail to trigger playfulness and chemistry with a woman. You want to keep her on her toes and to feel excitement when she is with you. The worst thing that you can do is to bore a woman to death when it comes to conversation.

3. She has to be moved by YOUR words. If you cannot make her FEEL anything when you are talking to her, it will be hard to create sexual attraction with her. You have to be able to move her emotionally, especially if you want to advance the relationship physically. Being able to talk to a woman is a key to being able to create real and intense chemistry and attraction with her.

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