“Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?”

Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying? For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men. 

Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very good at what they do because they’ve had a lot of practice! 

These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.

Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.

The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I need to find a man who will hurt me.” Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man. The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.

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When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can Too!

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this:  

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me.  They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around.  Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying.  They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love.  Was it me?  After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape.  So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house?  The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner?  Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door?  

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men.  I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them.  What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?” 

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

I’d like to share with you the secrets that men find irresistible and powerless to resist. The dirty little secret is that having a perfect body isn’t nearly as important as you have been led to believe. You can discover this incredible information by simply clicking here.

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“If Only I Could Understand Men….”

Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do? 

Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.

1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.” 

2) Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.

3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful.

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What Do Men Find Attractive in a Woman? It Probably Isn't What You Think!

Ask ten women what they think men find attractive in women and nine will probably mention a specific body part or something to do with sex. Certainly, it's true that most men are visually stimulated by the physical characteristics of women, but when it comes to a long term meaningful relationship, looks aren't everything! So what do men find attractive in women? It probably isn't what you think!

Of course, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and every man has his own tastes and preferences. But are there some specific things that men look for that are common? Absolutely:

• Men seem to be almost universal in agreement that they love a woman who has her own interests and life outside of theirs. This reassures the man that he will get to keep his own independence. She won't be reliant on him for her sole source of activities. Also, most guys don't realize this, but when a woman is busy a lot with her own pursuits it makes her harder to get and men always want what they can't have!

• Another big turn on for men is a woman who knows who she is and where she is going. A self confident woman naturally draws people to her and this will no doubt also make her desirable to men seeking romance. When you obviously love yourself, it makes it much easier for others to love you.

• And men feel very strongly about women who make them feel loved and wanted. They want you to have your own life and be confident about who you are, but still make them feel like they are the center of your universe at the end of the day.

So now you have a great insight into what men are ultimately looking for. But how do you draw a man to you? How do you make him crazy with desire for you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated?

Actually there is more; a LOT more! There are some secrets about men that you probably don't know. Secrets that will draw them to you and allow you to create a solid and powerful relationship. The relationship you've probably dreamed about! If you want to learn more click here to see it for yourself!

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Ideas to Surprise Her on Your Marriage Anniversary

Celebrating a marriage anniversary with your partner is one of the most exciting events of your life- the day to fall in love yet again, the day when you can just hold her and feel the warmth of the year you have so joyfully spent together. Of course, being together for one good year means so much for both of you and indubitably you will try your best to make it one of the most treasured and unforgettable events of your life. After all- you love her, you care for her smile, and surely you will do anything on this day to see her fly with joy, holding you in your arms and saying yes...I am so lucky to have you.

The most difficult thing is to decide as to how to surprise her on the marriage anniversary- doing something for her which she wouldn't have ever imagined. Gifting her beautiful card with lots of love notes is one of the best ideas, but this card can be made more lovable if you write the love notes on your own, describing how your life has changed, how happy you now feel to be in her company, how she completes your inner being. The idea is to be true to yourself and to your feelings.

Surprise her by singing a song in her honor (in case you never sing a song). She will be watching you with wide eyes open. Yet another way to surprise her is to organize a party in her honor, where you can invite all of her friends but care should be taken to keep this a secret, she shouldn't have any idea about the party or else entire enjoyment will fade away.

You can also try this one- The most treasured of all the memories should be compiled in an album form, with special comments on each occasion which has been pasted there. This should start from the wedding day photographs followed by all the other snapshots which you might have taken over the years. Try to add all the personal memories associated with the events. Just sit together and have a re look at the days you have spent together and relive each day with the album.

Spending a night out is also a chilling idea, try to take her to her favorite restaurant, get the music on and yet again propose to her by gifting her beautiful diamond ring. Try to have her favorite food on the table. Just make her feel special in the best way possible. You can also gift her bouquet of her favorite flowers.
Jewellery is said to be the perfect gift for every occasion. If she loves wearing it, then this can be a viable option. Or else, try to gift her some beautiful dress accompanied by chocolates, perfumes or anything which she loves the most.

You can even surprise her by taking her on a long vocation to an exquisite holiday destination. Try to keep it secret and on the day of your wedding anniversary, simply give the tickets in her hand and watch your loved one shout in happiness.

Marriage anniversaries come and go but the main aim should be to rekindle the love, to atone for any of the past wrongs- may be for hurting her or not giving her enough time. This is one special day where you can simply be yourself and you can make it special for her by giving her care, love which she desires. Try to spend the entire day together, take her out for a movie or just to a silent place where you can share your love. It is your day and you need to make it memorable and worth remembering, after all it happens just once in a year.

About Author: The writer is a free lance journalist based in Aligarh, she is also an staff writer for Mangaljodi.com, a Indian matrimonial site based in Bhopal. She can be contacted at shadaan.alam@gmail.com.

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What Women Want in a Boyfriend - Know This and You'll Beat 97% of the Guys Out There

Many guys complain about how women seem to be unpredictable when it comes to their preferences in men. The truth is that women really are not complicated at all. And if you happen to know these things that women want in their men, you will be instantly ahead of most guys out there today. Read on to discover the traits that women want in their partners...

Ability To Play Professional Golf.
Just kidding (well, sort of). The truth is that you don't have to be Tiger Woods in order to really hit it off with beautiful Swedish blondes and party with Geylang hostesses. However, if you have a special skill that she can show off to her friends with, then the happier she will be.

Be Presentable.
Sure, you don't need to look like Brad Pitt or Tommy Page, but try not to look like you've just slept under the bridge in your underwear. You don't need to rearrange your face to look like George Clooney, but there's no excuse for dressing sloppily.

Be Strong.
You will need to lead in the relationship - don't expect HER to be the boss, even though she might be the CEO of an investment bank at her day job. It's YOUR responsibility to be the one who bosses her around - and guess what - most women like being bossed around by the men they love.

Be Laid Back... Sometimes.
Look - while you need to be the dominant one in the partnership, you don't have to always shout at her to get you beer and give you foot rubs, back massages and other physical favors. Chill and relax sometimes. As Joker would say, "why so serious?" Learn to take some time off and have fun with her - reward her from time to time, but don't overdo it!

Be Controlling... Emotionally.
You gotta always remain in control - and one easy way to do this is to dominate her emotionally. One trick to do this is Fractionation http://www.FractionationFormula.com.

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Boomer Dating - Want to Fly Into Mr Wonderful's Arms? Try Flapping Your Wings

Apathy - sitting and waiting for love without exerting the effort to make it happen - just may be the number one cause of single woman loneliness.

Consider the robin. Could she fly if she perched apathetically on a tree branch waiting for a favorable breeze? Not likely. Robin knows that if she fails to flap her wings, an earlier bird is going to catch the worm. So with a flick of her feathers, she's airborne.

We know a woman in Colorado who - after her husband's passing and a year of breakfast-for-one and supper with the six o'clock news - murmured a silent prayer as she walked in the cool mountain air: "Please, Lord, open my heart to a new love.

A few days later, her landlady rang her bell. "A new man just moved in a couple of doors down from you. Tall, kinda good-looking, and I'd say early 60s. Keep your eyes open." Joyce did. When she saw him head for the mailbox, she picked up her key and followed. A 20-minute conversation led to other conversations. "But," Joyce complained to her son-in-law a couple of months later, "this relationship isn't going anywhere. I'm out of practice. What do I do next?"

"For heaven's sake," he declared, "this is the 21st century. Invite him to dinner." But before she did, he did, and a few months later he asked a more serious question. "My answer was yes," smiles Joyce, "and now only one of us has to go out for the mail."

Joyce is a natural-born wing-flapper, but for some of us apathy is a malady difficult to overcome. There were probably half a dozen women fantasizing about Victor as he passed their apartment windows that first week of his arrival on the scene.

Unlike Joyce, they were too timid, or too afraid of rejection, to flap their wings.

Too many women in their 50s and beyond have given up on ever meeting Mr. Practically Perfect. We did it. So can you. That's why we wrote, "It's Never Too Late to Date" with its 43 helpful Rx's for mating and dating after 50. To learn more, visit http://www.itsnevertoolatetodate.com. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Howard_Eisenberg

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