20 dirty questions, ANSWERED!

“Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant.” – Henry Miller
When looking for advice, sometimes you just want it snappy and spot on. Some sex questions are so personal that you might very well not find the answers in typical articles of the sort. That’s why, this week, I decided to answer some of your… more personal dilemmas regarding sex. Here, I deliver the dirty details fast and furiously.

1. “Should I give her oral before we start having sex, or will she peak too quickly?” Actually, you want to give her oral until she peaks, then give her a couple of minutes to brush the fever off and start having sex properly. Women can stand (and want!) multiple orgasms. So don’t worry about her peaking and them letting you hang dry. It’s like with chocolates. Who wants to stop after just one delicious bite? Not us!
2. “Do girls like it when their legs are straight up in the air during sex?” There’s no… straight answer. Some love it, because of the depth of the penetration, some not so much, because of the same reason. If she’s more sensitive to depth, you shouldn’t linger too much on that position. Just read the signs on her face. If she’s moaning in delight, keep at it, if she turns her face away to hide a pain feeling, switch up.
3. “How can I initiate getting her to go down on me?” If you’re bold, when she’s kissing you, whisper “I’d love to have you do that elsewhere”. She’ll catch your drift. If you’re rather on the shy side, go down on her first, she’ll be more than happy to return the favor afterwards. Women are polite like that.
4. “How do we deal with the condom and keep the mood?” Have her do it instead of you. If you do it, you just want to speed up the process and have it done and over with as soon as possible. If she does it, she’ll be more patient and more careful. You’ll both enjoy the slowness of it, trust me. Especially is she uses her mouth as well.
5. “Is there a good way to switch position while remaining inside her?” Yes. Slowly. Slower than slowly. With passion. While you’re turning away the focus from the process of switching to the one of kissing like the French do.
6. “What can I use to tie her up?” Her tights. A scarf. Your tie. Her lacy, sexy, black G-string. There’s a lot of bondage gear in your closet. You don’t need to buy a “professional” set unless you want to take things to a higher level.
7. “What’s the easiest way to 69?” Lie side by side. It’s more comfortable and neither is in the “ungrateful” position of being up, which usually leads to a tenser body, which actually spoils half of the fun.
8. “What’s a hot thing to do after sex?” A sensual massage. Start by scratching her scalp lightly with your nails and caressing her hair. Who knows, maybe it will lead to a second round?
9. “What do I do when I need a break from giving her oral?” Don’t stop all the way you’re your work down there! It will leave her frustrated. Use your hand to fondle her and use your lips on her nipples or belly. This way you can rest your jaw while still getting her hot and bothered.
10. “Should I try to control how loud I moan?” Would you want her to do the same? Of course not! So go ahead and use your vocals as loud as you feel like it. Women love manly vociferations as well.
11. “She has a small clitoris. Is it less likely she’ll orgasm?” Not a chance. It’s not a matter of size, but of what underneath. And trust me, she’s got millions of pleasure nerve endings throughout her entire vaginal area. She’ll orgasm if you know what to do. Which is, touch her in different areas down there, not just on the clitoris.
12. “How should I wake her up for sex?” Kiss her neck and work your way down her body. But do it slowly. You want her to wake up gradually, not all of a sudden. You might risk scaring her.
13. “What’s the best position in a small space?” Spooning with bent legs. Lie on your sides, you behind. She should push her butt towards you as you enter her.
14. “Are blue balls a real condition?” It’s just slang for fluid build-up in the glands near your scrotum due to arousal. But the area doesn’t actually turn blue, mind you. And no, it’s also not true that your balls will turn blue if you’ve not had sex in a longer period of time.
15. “Can you get an infection from having sex in a Jacuzzi?” Regretfully, yes. You’d better not risk it. And not only you, but especially your female partner. Her areas are more exposed to the bubbly water and more prone to developing nasty infections.
16. “What’s a good quickie spot?” There are more than one, thank heavens. Over the kitchen table, facing the front door or a wall, in the shower, leaning against the washing machine. Have your pick.
17. “I have a hot sex life but I still masturbate daily. Is that weird?” Not at all. Having regular sex boosts your drive. Consequently, you’re more passionate during intercourse and your orgasms are stronger. And your sperm is healthier.
18. “Why does her whole body shake post-orgasm?” No, it’s not a sign of epilepsy. It’s called the orgasmic shudder and can happen to anyone following intense pleasure.
19. “Is there a good substitute for lube emergencies?” Yes, and it’s called saliva. Don’t try her creamy lotions or soap or shower gel. You’ll both risk getting burns or even infections.
20. “We want to try role-playing. Where do we start?” Try meeting at a bar as strangers, pretending you’ve just met or reenact the moment you’ve first met. It will bring back good memories and it will help you take the edge off

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Know Her Erogenous Zones

This may come as a shock to you but sex is really pretty boring IF you end up following a routine. So how do you avoid this? Don’t be afraid to use your imagination! That is why most people say that the brain – not the genitals – is the most important sex organ.

And when you use your imagination, it’s equally important to apply your ‘naughty thoughts’ on your woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those unique places in her body that generate sexual arousal when stimulated. And so if you know her erotic zones and apply your lustful imagination on them, you can make having sex with her a whole-body experience instead of just engaging in sex that’s limited to her genitals.

Erogenous zones are also important to know when you are giving her a sexual massage!

Know Her ‘Hot Buttons’

So do you know your woman’s sweet sex spots? Here’s a quick rundown of what they may likely be and what you can do to it during a sexual massage.

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Her Breasts.

Ok, her breasts may not be a big erogenous zone secret for you but do you know how to handle them properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts. And more so during sexual massage! So what do you do?

First of all, remember that the goal of a sexual massage is to de-stress while heightening sexual desire. So the general rule is to handle her body with TLC (tender loving care).

When it comes to her breasts, this is what you should do during your sexual massage session: avoid putting your whole hand over her breast. Using your index fingers, lightly press on her nipples as you would press a sensitive buzzer. First use dry fingers, then lick your index fingers and push down again.

The fact that she does not feel anything except your index finger on her nipple will send shivers through her body! And because you’re not touching her anywhere else (avoid any other body contact), her body is still in total relaxation (while her mind is already advancing towards sex).

Now, after about 10 ‘finger presses’, very lightly lick her nipple. Do not overdo this, just give her butterfly licks. After about 10 licks on each breast, stop and go to other hot zones.

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Her Armpit.

Another erogenous zone is her armpit. Lick this during the sexual massage and she will feel delirious and lustful! To make sure that this is not unpleasant for you. Prepare a wet, hot towel before you start the sexual massage and use it to wipe her armpit before you start licking gently.

Do the ‘Dip’

From her upper torso, gently move towards sexually massaging her by doing “The Dip”. Put her arms above her head then position your arms under her shoulder (as if you were embracing her in bed). This position will ‘open’ her body to you. Breathe warmly against her collarbone, kiss the side of each breast and then position your tongue between her breasts.

From this position, lick her all the way down, passing her stomach, belly button, belly and then ending with a quick ‘dip’ in her genitals!

Her Foot.

This is the proper position when you start focusing on her feet: have her bend her knees and spread her legs a bit. This vulnerable position will already bring images of sex to her mind. You then kneel between her legs and lift one of her legs so that you can massage her foot. Put a lot of warm, massage oil on your hands and then slowly knead her feet. At the end of your massage, breathe against the sole of her feet. Your warm breath will both relax and sexually stimulate her.

Her Toes.

Toes are often neglected erogenous zones! The proper way to sexually massage toes is this: clean off any oil on and between her toes with a soft, wet and warm towel. Hold her big toe, run your thumb against its sole (out a bit of pressure) and follow through with a quick like. Do this for each toe. The next step is to slowly and seductively suck each toe!

Her Butt.

Have your woman lie on her back. Put some warm oil on your hands and gently massage her ass, kneading lightly. After this, progress to kissing them and licking them. And then just when she’s so relaxed, comfortable or maybe even about to drift off, part her buttocks and lick her anus. This will send her a sexual charge like no other!

Proceed to licking her crack and when you notice that she’s getting too excited. Turn her over and let the love-making begin!

The fact that your bodies are both slick from the massage oil and glistening in the dark makes love-making even more exciting.

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Go Choco-Loco Tonight with Your Lover!

I love chocolates—and I know it’s not only me who has a passion for Hershey’s Kisses and M&Ms. These sweets are believed to be aphrodisiacs and let me say now that I believe it 100%! After all, romance, passion, foreplay, sex… they’re all heavily affected by your mind right? And if you believe that chocolates can help bring out the ‘wild woman’ out of your partner, then so be it!

Chocolates can do wonderful effects on our body. Since they are made from plants, they inherently contain natural components that promote good health. In fact, it is said that dark chocolates reduce high blood pressure.

A small bar is enough to also lower bad cholesterol in the body. Eating chocolates gives an immediate boost of energy and vigor. Moreover—and also very fortunately—chocolates have also been found to have a certain effect on one’s desire for sexual activity.

They are said to strengthen a woman’s libido, resulting in an increased interest and desire for sex. As for men, chocolates stimulate passion and vitality and a remarkable increase in sexual desire can be noted. No wonder men always resort to chocolates when they date women!

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Short Choco History

According to aphrodisiac history, the belief started with the Mayans, who drank chocolate for fertility. They would even use a chocolate drink concoction during marriage ceremonies.

In very recent studies though, chocolates have been discovered to have phenylethylamine, a chemical that’s detected when one falls in love. And get this: the same chemical rises up to the brain during an orgasm!

Serotonin is also known to be present in chocolates. This chemical gives one a feeling of pleasure. These two substances are mildly addictive. But women are known to be more susceptible to the effects of phenylethylamine, thus making women more ‘chocoholic’.

If you’re still not convinced, then maybe results of a study (by Italian researchers no less!) published in The Times in 2004 will. According to that research, “Women who have a daily intake of chocolate showed higher levels of desire than women who did not have this habit. Chocolate can have a positive physiological impact on a woman’s sexuality.”

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Chocolate as a Sex Tool

Now if feeding your woman chocolates does not give you a hard-on or if she just ends up eating the whole box without even giving you a second glance, then there’s something wrong with your delivery.

That’s right. Chocolates are so common now that they don’t really conjure up images of sex right away so don’t just buy the average chocolate bonbon. Why not try Kama Sutra chocolates! That’s right; there are chocolate bars being sold online now that are shaped specifically to match Kama Sutra sex positions!

If you want to take this a step further, cook up your own Kama Sutra-shaped chocolates. But this time, add some chili flakes to increase the aphrodisiac factor.


Now what can be better than vanilla ice cream topped with warmed chocolate? That would be vanilla ice cream and warm chocolate eaten off your lover’s body!

Put some melted vanilla ice cream on your lover’s naked breasts and lap it up! Now, immediately follow this up with some warm chocolate sauce and suck off all of that too! Other areas you can try this are her neck (yes, her neck!) and of course… her pussy!

Here’s another idea. Why not buy edible chocolate undies! Present this to your woman; urge her to try it on with one promise… that SHE will be your dessert tonight! You can also turn the tables around of course. Put on a chocolate-flavored condom and ask her to give you a blow-job. I guarantee she’ll be sucking away with gusto!

Ok, now here’s one I actually first heard from one of our subscribers. Edible body chocolate paint… that should be applied with a very soft and tender paint brush. Imagine how she would feel as you glide that tickly, feathery, chocolate-laden brush all over her body. By the time you reach her groin, she’ll be panting like crazy!

There is truly no end to the wonders of chocolate as an aphrodisiac! In fact, I dare say that of all the aphrodisiacs that are popularly known, chocolates are the most readily available, are some of the most inexpensive to buy, are a joy to be eaten by both men and women, and are actually believed by scientists to increase sexual appetite!

So what are you waiting for? If I were you, I’d be running out the door to get some chocolates now!

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Foreplay Tips for Him

So, you want to take the initiative this time and want to surprise your girlfriend /wife / lover with your foreplay skills. But then again, you realize that foreplay hasn’t been your ‘thing’ lately and you’re not sure what to do…

Well, lucky you! I’ve compiled these hot foreplay tips you can use ASAP so that you can have her breathing hard and lusting for your touch tonight!

Hot Tips for Sexual Foreplay

Sometimes, foreplay can be a disaster if you don’t know what you’re doing. For instance, you may have seen movies where he ‘tweaks’ her nipples… HARD. Well guys, you know what? That HURTS and you’re not really arousing her that way. So to guide your naughty thoughts, take heed of my foreplay tips below!

Don’t forget her neck. Often, guys think of foreplay as ‘kissing’ and making love as ‘having sex’. Sorry guys, that’s way too simple for us girls. So during foreplay, don’t just kiss her thoroughly, pay attention too to other female body parts such as her neck, arms, legs, and even her feet. Alternate between kissing, licking and nibbling these areas and she’ll be putty in your hands in no time.

Mentally ‘sex her up’. It’s a fact. Guys go for visual stuff while women like to be mentally put ‘in the mood’. So if you’re planning for some hot sex tonight, start foreplay early during the day so she’s already in the mood by the time you reach for her at home.

For example, if you guys are standing on line for something, get close to her and whisper something REALLY DIRRRTY into her ear! Important: paint her a picture in her head. So don’t just say “I’m going to fuck you tonight”. Instead, say “You know babe, I’m horny now so when we get back home, I will lick your clit so good that…” I think you get my drift by now…

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Dry hump her. In its most generic sense, foreplay is all about ‘increasing the sexual tension’ so that you and your partner are uber-primed for the sexual act itself. Well, what’s more arousing than imitating intercourse movements (humping) than doing it with clothes on! Preferably, do this in a public place or in a club. Basically, do it where you cannot proceed to doing intercourse. This way, you guys will be h-h-hot for sex later!

Slow dance… while butt-naked. Ok, this time foreplay without clothes! You can just be half-dressed or completely naked for this one. Put on some slow and/or lusty music, dim the lights, light some candles, take some or all of your clothes off and start swaying to the music. Remember that the trick here is to dance close to her body so that she can feel your erection against her. Hot!

Go ‘under the table’. I just love sharing experiences from subscribers and here’s another one. One time, while Jill (subscriber name changed for privacy) and her husband were having dinner, they were getting a bit naughty and started to ‘play footsie’ under the table. This then proceeded to her fully extending her leg and with her foot, she started playing with his penis through his pants. What happened next shocked her…

Without warning, he went under the table, spread her legs, pulled down her shorts and tongued her! Jill swears the foreplay and the suddenness of his moves was the hottest sex and the best orgasm she ever had!

Try this one tonight and don’t worry if she’s wearing pants. Just rub your face against her mound and it will turn her so horny SHE will start to bring her pants down.

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Tease her till the very end. No, the fact that she has her clothes off does NOT mean it’s intercourse time. You can extend foreplay to the very end and bring her to delirious lust by using the head of your penis to tease her throbbing vagina. Just rub your the point of your manhood all over her vagina – especially her clit – and trust me, she’ll go wild with passion!

I hope you thoroughly enjoy these foreplay tips! Just remember to vary your ‘foreplay moves’. Otherwise, everything becomes routine again! So for example, tonight, tease her from head to toe with your kissing, licking and nibbling and then next time, just go directly to her clit and lick away. This way, you’re Mr. Surprise and foreplay and sex with you is the best experience she’ll ever have.

Enjoy!

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Premature Ejaculation - Rebound sex the right way

“He will go to his grave feelings cheated, never realizing that there isn’t much difference between one woman and the other, that it is the loving that creates the difference” – Shulamith Firestone
Your first tryst after a big break-up can go one of two ways: a sexy ego boost that gets your head back in the game or a naked nightmare that sends you into a spiral of remorse. Here’s how to make it happen on your terms.
For most people, rebound sex can be almost as stressful as the actual first time. The pressure is on, your emotions are raw, and the sex can end up being a drunken mess with some girls who didn’t even attempt to show that she cared for what you were doing. But it doesn’t have to be that way. This shouldn’t be about getting it over with so you can move on – ideally, it should be a sexy, pleasurable experience that leaves you feeling confident and optimistic about the future of your love life. Happily, achieving this goal does not require that much of an effort. Just follow three guidelines to bouncing back so that you can come out on top (literally and figuratively).

1. Rebound Rule #1. Know your goal

Unfortunately, there’s no little green light that goes on when you’re emotionally recovered enough to sleep with someone else. Just make sure you have realistic expectations. You need to be clear and honest with yourself about what you’re looking to get out of this. If you’re trying to use rebound sex as a solution – to get back at an ex, to rebuild your confidence, or to counteract the loss you feel after a breakup – you’ll end up disappointed. Sex won’t fill a void. The one and only goal you should have in mind: to have a good time that will leave you with zero regrets. If you’re on board with that, you’re ready to proceed to rule number two.

2. Rebound Rule #2. Pick a sexy, generous partner

No doubt, you’ll consider rebounding with a girl friend or former ex because there’s a built-in intimacy there, but be warned: unless you have a very unique relationship, it may not be able to weather the awkwardness. The exceptions: you’ve already done the whole friends-with-benefits thing with this girl before, or you’ve always been open with each other and can see yourselves laughing about it in the morning. If the history is more complicated, take a pass. Otherwise, you’ll wake up wishing you had. Here’s a better game plan: pump your social circle for introductions to Eva Mendez look-alikes, reactivate your online dating profile, or e-mail a coworker from two jobs ago who you had a crush on and invite her out for a drink. Then see if she meets a few key criteria. You’re looking for a girl with great sexual energy. Does she seem comfortable and confident in her skin? As you flirt, is she making subtle physical contact, like putting her hand on your arm for a second? Does she shift position when you shift yours? There are all signs she’s in tune with her body and yours. Of course, there are plenty of players out there who fit that bill. So screen for someone who is also sensitive to your needs. Little gestures, like participating in more intimate conversations and actually listening to what you have to say, asking if you’re comfortable enough in the place you’ve chosen to go to, or picking up your jacket when it falls off the back of your chair, let you know that she’ll be just as eager to please later on.

3. Rebound Rule #3. Make your pleasure the priority

On this night, don’t worry about her needs. Focus on making sure you have fun, and let her come along for the ride. And forget about all that baggage you used to bring into the bedroom with your now ex. When you’re in a relationship, it can sometimes be harder to push through all the emotions and other non-sexy elements and tap into your visceral, sexual self. With rebound sex, you are finally liberated from the tension that builds up in a rocky relationship, and you can give yourself permission to explore and even try on new sexual personas. Maybe you think it would be hot to boss a girl around in bed dominatrix-style or to have frantic sex on the kitchen floor. Whatever your sexual wish, don’t be shy about it. Out of the confines of a relationship, you can be vocal about what you want without worrying about bruising your woman’s ego. While your clothes are still on but after a lot of hard-core flirting, let this lucky girl know what you hope will unfold later in the night. If she agrees to play your way, invite her back to your place – you’ll feel more empowered if you’re on your own turf – and get ready. It’s go time.

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Fellatio Booboos… And What To Do About Them

Unlike what you may see in adult-rated movies, sex in real life can actually be awkward and funny. Slipping, fanny farts and sloppy wet noises are ALL part of making love. You can’t escape them. The tick is of course how to deal with these situations; how you convert the seemingly embarrassing situation into one that’s not.

The same goes with oral sex. There are booboos that might occur so it’s up to you guys to deal with it in such a way that it doesn’t completely destroy the sexual charge in the bedroom!


How to Deal with Oral Sex Blunders!

The following items are scenarios that can likely happen during oral sex. They’re not meant to discourage you and your partner with engaging in oral sex at all. They’re meant as a guide to help you guys get over potentially awkward, yet real life situations easily.

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Scenario 1: Your pubic hair gets caught in her teeth. This happens more often than you think. You’re so turned on by the sexual pleasure and she’s so into what she’s doing that unwittingly, a strand of your pubic hair gets caught in her teeth… and gets yanked. Ouch!

The best way to deal with this is of course to laugh it off. Now how to get that hair out? The worst thing she can do is to make a big show out of it by sitting up and trying to get the hair out with her wide open and her fist in her mouth. Instead, she should casually – almost quietly and without drawing attention to it – take the hair out from her mouth and simply wipe the hair on the bed sheet to deal with later.

Scenario 2: Her dentures get ‘dislodged’. Actually, if HE didn’t’ notice it, SHE should simply proceed as if nothing happened. However, the problem here is that often, her instinctive reaction is of course to ‘catch’ the slipping denture with her hand, or worse, by closing her mouth. If this happens, and if she caused you pain, she should remedy the situation by slowly, lovingly licking and caressing the injured spot.

Scenario 3: She ‘accidentally’ bites you. Sometimes women get so turned on by performing fellatio that they get a tad carried away and he can feel her teeth slowly, but firmly, touching his manhood. First of all, if you feel this guys, speak up! Simply touch her hair lovingly – don’t yank because you’re in a panic – and ask her to ease up a bit. Believe me, she will understand.

The same goes if she’s using her nails, have tongue jewelry or even hand jewelry that you feel is too close for comfort. Simply speak up before the ‘accident’ occurs.

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Scenario 4: You let out some ‘gas’. If women are afraid of fanny farts, men get conscious too of letting out gas especially if their women are down there performing fellatio on them. If this does occur, what do you do? Really, the best thing to do is simply pretend like it didn’t happen.

However, if what you released was not pleasant at all, then be a gentleman and stop for awhile. It’s no use for you to go out of the room as the deed was done there. However, what you can do is ask her to stop, pull her up so you guys are face-to-face and get into some deep kissing. This way, the sexual rhythm is not that shattered, yet you save her from suffering down there or worse, give her time to laugh and make fun of you.

Scenario 5: She gags. Some women can be too adventurous and try to bring their man’s manhood all inside her mouth. The problem is, if her mouth really can’t accommodate him, she’ll experience what most people call a ‘gag reflex’ and this is not pleasant - for you and her. The best thing to do is for her to pause as proceeding might only push her to gag further.

However, this does not mean she should stop stimulation of your manhood altogether. She can simply take you out of her mouth and use her hand for a while to stimulate you while she catches her breath.


In the end, a good sense of humor is all it takes to get over these oral sex booboos. The more you focus on them, and the longer you focus on them, the bigger the blunder gets and the more awkward the situation becomes. Don’t let this happen, as this may become a deterrent in engaging in oral sex in the future.

Have a laugh, jot it down as experience, and move on!

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How to Introduce Cunnilingus Into Your Relationship

Is your woman a cunnilingus virgin? Lucky you, it’s your sexual duty to initiate her in the erotic joys of cunnilingus!

This may come as a surprise to you but not all women come with full knowledge and acceptance of cunnilingus or ‘being eaten out’. From a woman’s point of view, oral sex is often a matter of trust, i.e., opening up her most ‘scared place’ for ‘close scrutiny’ to you. In fact, believe it or not, there are plenty of women out there who are more open to sexual intercourse than cunnilingus. They claim that the latter is a more ‘private affair’. I know, go figure.

If your partner is a cunnilingus virgin, don’t lose hope end assume she’s deadest against it. For all you know, she’s simply waiting for the right guy to show her the high sexual pleasure that cunnilingus brings.


How to Persuade Your Partner to Engage in Cunnilingus

Discuss, not dictate.
The wrong approach to take is to STATE that she ‘needs’ to experience cunnilingus. For one, you probably don’t even know why she’s not into being muff dived yet so don’t assume anything. Instead, talk to her about it. Ask if she has any negative impressions or bad experiences regarding cunnilingus so that you’re better able to address whatever it is that’s eating her up (pun intended).

Also, showing that you’re willing to discuss and understand her shows your caring side, which in turn makes her trust you more, which in turn makes her more open to the thought of you going down on her.

Try, not force.
As a cunnilingus virgin, it’s understandable that she may be a bit squeamish about the whole affair the first time. Don’t expect compete and wild abandon here. And don’t force her to feel great about it either by ramming your tongue deeper into her or propelling it like helicopter blades. You might hurt her, making her think cunnilingus is not pleasurable at all!

Also, don’t be offended by immediate reaction she has. For example, here’s a story from one of my clients, let’s just call him Jack.

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So Jack was eating his lady out. Since she was new to cunnilingus, her emotions about all the new sexual feelings where everywhere. Her physical response to this was to bring her thighs tightly together… that’s right, squeezing Jack’s head between her legs! Anyway, Jack understood this so he GENTLY pried her legs apart and licked gentler to make her relax.

Can you imagine if, feeling a bit of pain, Jack drastically pulled his head away? That would rudely abruptly her sexual pleasure and might even make her think he doesn’t like eating her out after all.

Explore, not just apply.
Although she may be a cunnilingus virgin, it doesn’t mean that techniques that worked for your previous partners will work on her. For one, some women, like it rough, others don’t. Some women like being finger fucked while being licked, others don’t. And so on.

So for her first time, just be gentle and go with the flow. Be attuned with her body and its reactions instead of trying to apply – what you think – is a great cunnilingus formula.

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Encourage trust, not misgiving.
Again, since this is her first time with cunnilingus, it’s important to start gently so that you earn her trust. If you go down there like Rambo, and chances are she’s not ready for that at all, she will instinctively assume that she’ll experience some sort of pain or discomfort. As a result, she will not be completely open to the whole cunnilingus thing anymore.

Also, at the very least, she may not feel much sexual pleasure at all, enabling her to incorrectly assume that cunnilingus is no big deal.

Make it all about HER pleasure.
Try not to be the great Casanova as you go down on her or revel in the fact that you’re her sexual teacher, and she your helpless sex student who wants nothing more than to accept your moves.

Sometimes, men can get so full in their heads about how they’re such great lovers that the focus is all wrong. So this time, make it all about her. Her body, her reactions, her sexual pleasure. If she achieves an orgasm during cunnilingus, GREAT but it’s not your goal.

Your goal is to simply let her know how sexually enriching cunnilingus is and that it’s another way you can enrich your relationship – sexually and otherwise. Good luck!

To learn many other SPICY secrets to satisfy her in bed, go to: HERE

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Help: Aphrodisiacs Don’t Work for Me and My Partner!

As I’ve said before, aphrodisiacs are a love them or hate them kind of thing. Unfortunately, most couples are a mix of both!

Take my clients Sam and Cindy[1] for example. Cindy is all for it and even went to great lengths to prepare a 5-course aphrodisiac dinner (do you know how hard that is?!?). Well, Sam appreciated the dinner alright… then went to the living room and turned on the TV!

Sam is completely aphrodisiac-challenged, while Cindi is the hopeless romantic so to say that there’s tension in their relationship is an understatement.


Where Cindi Went Wrong with Her Aphrodisiac Dinner…

I have ALWAYS believed in NOT forcing one’s beliefs on one’s partner. However, this does not mean you cannot help them ‘see the light’ J

What Cindi did wrong here is that she was trying to force romance. There was no ‘primer’ whatsoever. No hints or anything during the day that she wanted to be sexed up that night. So as far as Sam was concerned, it was simply ‘dinner time’. When asked if Sam didn’t get any hints since he was being served a 5-course dinner, he said “Cindi loves to cook. She cooks all the time! I thought she just got it in her head to be elaborate that day.”

Cindi also prepared a meal with aphrodisiacs that SHE believed in and may not necessarily be good for Sam. For instance, when pressed for details, Sam actually said he didn’t like the salad Cindi prepared because he hates arugula (rocket)!


Tips to Help Aphrodisiacs Work for You and Your Lover

To prevent the miscommunication and to ensure YOUR aphrodisiac efforts are a success, check out the tips I have for you below, or else, look at the free report that I give away in my page. Simply go to: HERE


Make sure you use aphrodisiacs that you think/know you’re partner will appreciate. Remember that the objective is to ‘increase his/her sexual desire’ for you so you should use aphrodisiacs that will work on him/her, not on you! As such, stop listing things YOU like and think of your lover.
For women, don’t focus on the chocolate, that’s mostly aphrodisiac stuff for you. Remember, men are ‘visual’ creatures so food that looks like genitalia is better! Go oysters. If budget is a concern, go for clams or mussels instead. For veggies, go for carrots (UN-chopped!) and asparagus as they resemble the penis.

Here’s a trick I use: I use only green asparagus because for me, they’re more appealing to look at and more sturdy after being boiled. Then, I dip the tips in butter and arrange them in a tall glass. What a visual treat! The glistening and dripping tops of the asparagus lend themselves to some horny fantasies!


Drop hints during the day. Ok, for people who are not into all this aphrodisiac stuff, you need to aid them here folks. So why not engage in some active foreplay during the day so your lover is more inclined to be in the right mood and frame of mind when you present your aphrodisiac treats? For more tips, go to HERE


Compliment aphrodisiac foods and drinks with a romantic setting. Trust me, no type of aphrodisiac will bring about love and naughty thoughts if the washing machines is blaring in the background, if the kids are running and shrieking all around the table and if the dog is barking like the devil himself.

What you need is a relaxing, soothing, and sexy setting. So tidy up the house, dim the lights, put on a Barry White CD and light candles all over the house. Your partner will be in the mood for sex even BEFORE he/she takes a taste of your aphrodisiac treats.

Learn how to drop hints DURING the aphrodisiac meal. For those who have partners that are truly aphrodisiac-challenged, don’t fret; simply drop hints while serving the aphrodisiac food and drinks.

For women, while serving those asparagus tips, start to put one in your mouth and then casually put it in and out as if you’re simply tasting the salted butter and then say ‘mmmm!’. When your partner turns to you, say “Hey, aren’t asparagus said to be aphrodisiacs?”... as if the thought just occurred to you.

For men, hey DO bring out the chocolates! But instead of simply popping them in your mouth, start to lick it. Make really wet, lapping noises. THAT will get her attention in no time!


Aphrodisiacs HELP in increasing sexual desire, they’re not a magical cure you can administer and simply get results. But with the tips above, you’ll get more success each time you use them than not. Good!

To learn more about the most common mistakes in bed and how to solve them, go to: HERE

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Female Orgasm - 12 Nights of Passion: a Sex Game to Be Carried Out in Days…

Sex games can be as easy or as complicated as you want them to be. There are those where you just whip out a sex game board and be done with it in a few minutes – nothing wrong with that! – but there are also those that take some time in its execution.

Your sex life should never be a routine. That’s why it’s important to engage in BOTH simple and more complex sex games. One benefit of the latter is that the longer you delay actual lovemaking, the hotter you guys are by that time!


12 Nights of Passion

This sex game is designed for super extended foreplay. The goal is to reach the 12th night without having intercourse, making the 12th night one of intense passion. Here’s a sample outline you can use.

Beware: before you DO have intercourse, you must be ready to pay up for all the expectancy that you created! To know how to give her the best orgasms of her life, go to: HERE

1st night – Have a romantic dinner either at home or at a fancy restaurant. While dining, play footsie and/or indulge in a little bit of groping underneath the table.

2nd night - Sprinkle red roses in bed, light some candles and play some soft music, and then just cuddle each other till you sleep.

3rd night – Play strip poker and once all your or your partner’s clothes are off, engage in a little dry rubbing, but that’s it! Don’t engage in having sex.

4th night – Play “silent dirty words”. Get a pen and blank sheet of paper each. Write a dirty word or phrase on the piece of paper, tear it off and hand it to your lover. Your lover reads it and then drops it in a bowl. Now it’s her turn to write another dirty word or phrase and hand it off to you. Do not talk in between this exercise. Just write, show the words and that’s it. The ‘loser’ is the one who runs out of dirty words first. (You will notice that at the end of this exercise, you guys have just collected a bowl of dirty phrases you can use for a future game!) After the game has ended, laugh it off, have a bowl of ice cream or something and go to bed.

5th night – Play sexy twister. Take out the twister mat or board and play a traditional game of twister… naked.

6th night – It’s the sixth day, give yourselves a little bit of reprieve by engaging in some hot oral sex. You can bring each other to a climax but do NOT engage in intercourse.

IMPORTANT: While engaging in oral sex, make sure to avoid the most common mistakes. Learn the proper techniques to satisfy your lover! Go to: HERE

7th night – “Accidentally” leave out some adult-rated reading material for your lover to see and glance over. Make sure the erotica is hot enough to really bring about lust in your partner. When she asks you about it, feign innocence!

8th night – Give each other a sexual massage. Be naughty and daring but do not engage in lovemaking. You can engage in oral pleasure but not to the point of bringing on a climax.

9th night – Give your partner a call at an odd hour of the day, say 2 PM or whenever she least expects it, and engage in some phone sex. Don’t go too far; just get each other excited. After that, say you probably dialed the wrong number and hang up, or change your voice to ‘normal’ and simply say “love you honey, see you tonight for dinner” and then hang up.

10th night – Go online together tonight and preview a few adult-rated literotica.

11th night – Send naughty messages to your lover all throughout the day! Send a sex joke via SMS, email a long and dirty joke, and others. By the time you see each other tonight, pretend like nothing happened!

12th night – Shoot a short erotic video of yourself. Don’t go all the way. Instead, at the end of the video, look into the camera and tell your lover where you should meet tonight. It can be a hotel room, motel room or your own bedroom but fancily dressed up. The minute your lover enters the location you indicated on the video, do not engage in foreplay whatsoever! After all these days, you’re pent up passions will be enough for one of the hottest moments of your life!

The 12 Nights of Passion is designed to bring about so many things in your relationship. It’s a sex game of creativity and control. But its real goal is to make each day one of heightened sexual pleasure and longing for each other. Can you imagine how you guys will come together by the 12th night after all that waiting and sexual highs and lows?!? Give this extended sex game a try and be sure to do it more than once a year!

To learn a lot more about games and tips to satisfy your lover in bed, go to HERE

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Female Orgasm - 10 Foreplay DON’TS to Remember

Sometimes, in our quest for better foreplay and better sex, we tend to get a bit carried away… to the point that we do things that TURN OFF our partners. Some of these mistakes are not just overzealousness but due to myths propagated in adult films and magazines.

Well, to avoid these foreplay booboos, here’s a list of Ten Foreplay DON’TS.


In General…

Take a shower and be properly groomed. I’m not talking about going to a salon here. Just ensure that your breath and body are clean. Also, if you’re planning to do some ‘poking’, ensure that you cut your nails down. Nothing hurts more than long nails, or can be more disgusting (in case you poke into something and er… take out something with your nails! Yuck!)
Put on some music. Foreplay can be a very embarrassingly noisy event (wet slapping noises, an escaped fart or two, etc.). To hide these sounds, drown them out with a bit of sexy music.

Don’t OVER-tongue him/her. Don’t ram your tongue into your partner’s eardrums or throat. It can be a complete turn off if he/she feels the need to tilt his/her head (from having clogged ears) or feels the need to gag.

Don’t embarrass him/her. I once advised a client to ‘start foreplay early during the day’ and mentioned some of my ‘foreplay moves’ like rubbing against each other, dry humping, footsie playing, etc. Well, I guess my client got carried away as she tried footsie playing with him during a business dinner. She thought she was being ‘naughty’, he thought it was annoying. Moral lesson? Know WHEN to make your moves.

Avoid those embarrassing mistakes and learn to be a great lover in bed. Go to: HERE

For Him...

Don’t twirl, tweak and twist her nipples hard. No. Despite what you often see in adult films, she really doesn’t like it if you play too roughly with her nipples. They need to be caressed, not manhandled.

Don’t be the one to request to turn the lights off. Almost all women have body image issues. So don’t do her a favor by asking to have the lights off. In contrast, she’ll immediately think you find her body offensive in some way. If she’s not exactly the ‘cover girl’ type, don’t over compliment her either because she’ll know you’re lying. Instead, just tell her you prefer women with ‘curves’.

Don’t go for G-spot stimulation if you don’t know what the hell you’re doing! Sure, G-spot stimulation can bring her almost sexual nirvana but it can be painful for her if you don’t know what you’re doing. I’m not saying don’t attempt it. Rather, be very attuned to how she responds to your fingers.

Learn more techniques to give her the best orgasms in bed. Go to HERE

For Her...

Don’t ask him to wear a thong. Ladies, despite what you hear about the ‘metrosexual man’, don’t ask him to put on a thong. It really does turn most men OFF.

Don’t smother him. He’s gone down on you and boy do you love it! You’re delirious with pleasure and because of this you… try to squeeze your thighs shut and/or start to grab his hair and knead his face against your crotch. Well, let’s see what you’re REALLY doing to him hear. With the first one, you’re like a praying mantis trying to squeeze and rip his head off. With the second one, you’re making it hard for him to breathe! Ease up girls. Show your appreciation the RIGHT way and he’s bound to lick you to the ends of the earth again.

Don’t expect him to read your mind. One of the worse things you can do during foreplay is to expect him to know exactly what you want to happen. With this attitude, you’re really setting yourself (and him) for a foreplay disaster. Let him know that you like what he’s doing to you, or better yet, TELL him EXACTLY what you want done. He’ll appreciate it and you get what you want. Win-win!


Foreplay is all about increasing sexual tension in a way that is pleasurable for you and your partner in more than just the sexual sense. It should be in an atmosphere of comfort and trust, and maybe even with a hint of sexual danger, and not be forced or selfish in any way.

Think about this the next time you engage in foreplay with your partner and you’re bound to have a great and sexually thrilling time!

To learn many more SPICY secrets to satisfy your lover in bed, go to: HERE

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Sexual Massage Techniques

A sexual massage is just something I LOVE to receive from my partner. It always relaxes my body and my mind, and never fails to stir my center till I’m all wet and ready to have mind-blowing sex!

I’m sure you want your woman to feel this too so I’m going to give you some basic sexual massage moves you can do tonight. Ready?

How to Give Your Woman a Sexual Massage

In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or place on the floor, etc.) and equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider making use of fabric or items made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different reactions from her. If you don’t have them, don’t worry. Nothing can beat the best part of this sexual massage session: you.

Firstly, ask your woman to undress (or better yet, undress her). Another tip here to ensure good hygiene is to give her a warm bath first. Either way, once she’s nude, have her lie face down on the area you prepared for the massage. While she has her back to you, undress as well.

To learn more tips about how to satisfy your lover tonight, go to HERE

Use your hot breath.
Make sure your body and hands are not cold and then lie on top of her (you facing the back of her head). Support your weight on your arms (don’t crush her!). This move does three things: it signals the start of the sexual massage by applying pressure on her whole body; it helps to warm her body and prepare it for the massage; and it starts to introduce sexual thoughts into her head because she can feel your penis between her thighs.

Now don’t get carried away here and start sex. Proceed with the sexual massage and you will be rewarded as the sexual tension builds up!

Now, start to breath on her neck and her back. Your hot breath should stimulate her sensitive skin.

Use your fingertips.
Now, pull yourself up and straddle her thighs (your penis resting between the backs of her legs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage her back with just your fingertips. Alternate your strokes. Apply hard, pressured ones with light touches.

Palm circling.
Progress from using your fingers to ‘palm circling’, which is basically massaging her back by applying the whole width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps her body really relax. As a general rule, never massage her on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine.

Gliding.
Scoot yourself lover down her body. You buttocks should be by her feet now. Now reach to the top of her shoulders and start doing the palm circling massage… but this time, glide down to her ass and start massaging there too. After a few strokes, you can be naughtier with this one.

Reach to the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass. (Like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass.

A slight – and naughtier variation – would be to lick her ass instead of breathing your hot breathe on it WHILE palm circling her back. (Hey, don’t forget the massage part even while you’re busy sexually arousing her.)

To learn more naughty tricks to give your lover an orgasm, go to HERE

Thumbing.
Go back to straddling her thighs, sitting up now, and use your thumbs to massage her lower back. You should make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb, moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue up the right-hand side of her body all the way to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back (just above her butt).

Now for the sexual part… continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down her butt. Part her crack and start to thumb massage her anus. She will try to squirm here but be firm! If she can take it, alternate between this massage and breathing your hot breathe on her anus.

Repeat all these back massages as long as you want! Just remember to oil up often as the warm oil and the gliding effect of your skin on hers does a lot of sexual magic!

Learn more tips to satisfy a woman in bed at: HERE

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Female Orgasm - A SEXUAL MASSAGE IN THE BATHTUB

 
One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really giver her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other ‘extra treats’ as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a ‘Proper’ Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you’re going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the… scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you’re using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don’t use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what’s mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you’re going to burn scented oils.

Also, don’t scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it’s not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It’s not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it’s not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don’t forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and will make you both last long during the sexual massage.

To learn more about the right techniques to satisfy her in bed, go to HERE

Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don’t join her in the bath just yet.
Start sexually massaging her while you’re still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck.

Learn a lot more positions in my free report! To get it, go to HERE

Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part… massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather!

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or ‘clean’ her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area.

Here’s a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try ‘shampooing’ her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and insert your finger in her ‘sweet spot’. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle while you finger her. The objective is not to make her come but to simply ‘connect’ with that special place as well. Good luck!

Try my HOTTEST tips to satisfy her tonight and you will have her begging for more tomorrow…and the next day…and the next day. Go to HERE

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Kunyaza or the African secret to the female orgasm

“Love is the answer, but while you’re waiting for the answer sex raises some pretty interesting questions”- Woody Allen

Experts say that 70% of women do not orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. Nsekuye Bizimana, the author of The Secret to African love, decided to help women all over the world by writing a book especially for men, in which he tells them about kunyaza, an ancient sexual technique practiced widely in Central and Eastern Africa.

Nsekuye Bizimana, the head of a research institute dedicate to kunyaza, is convinced that this technique holds the secret to female orgasm. Transmitted orally, the art of kunyaza, “the magical caress”, as they call it in Rwanda, is said to be so effective that most women have multiple orgasms and even an ejaculation.

Since I’m always eager to find out new things and experience as much as I can sexually, I went ahead and bought the book for my husband and we studied it together.

After trying the tricks they taught us, I must go ahead and confess: it was like nothing I have tried before! I experienced the fastest and most powerful couple of orgasms in my life! And it’s not hard to do either, so what are YOU waiting for? This is a nice substitute for oral sex, if you’re girlfriend is one of those women that don’t really feel comfortable with it.

The book is yet to be published in English, I read it in French, so if you don’t know the language, check out my resumed version of it bellow. I had to share my discovery with you guys, for once because I’m not selfish and I want other women to experience the joy and happiness I felt.

To watch a SENSUAL VIDEO about mastering the art of female oral sex, go to HERE

How it works.

It’s basically a really intense of a woman’s private parts. You have to tap the internal area of your girlfriend’s vagina with the tip of your penis either vertically or horizontally, or both, however you feel like it. Don’t forget to pay attention to the clitoris also, but make sure she is well lubricated, otherwise she might find the tapping on her most sensitive zone disturbing. If you do it well, your girlfriend should be able to have an orgasm in approximately five minutes.

What if I get tired?

I know, you’re putting a lot of pressure on your wrists to continually tap for minutes on end. When you feel your hand can’t take it anymore, pass the job to your girlfriend, she will love to be a part of it. Another way she could help you is by exposing her most sensitive parts, so that you have an easier access inside her. If you reach and tap your girlfriend’s prostate, located behind the G point, which is a highly erogenous point, Bizimana says you could consider the job done. She’ll orgasm before you even know it!

From kunyaza to intercourse

If you want to use this technique as foreplay, go ahead and do it. Your girlfriend will be ready and excited and, because of the tapping, your penis will grow more erect and hard, which would make intercourse a viable and pleasurable option. Also, if you’re fighting erectile problems, this method is great for curing them. Bizimana conducted a study that confirmed the effectiveness of this trick against issues like that.

Kunyaza + oral sex = A tornado of emotions!

A twist I suggested my husband to try was to mix this recent discovery with his oral technique. Man, I’m glad to have thought of that! The roughness of his penis tapping against my vagina combined with the softness of his lips and tongue kissing my labia was incredible. I don’t know how many orgasm I had, at one point I stopped counting, but I sure felt like a kid with Santa’s bag of gifts only to himself. Start by stimulating your girlfriend with your fingers, covering both the exterior and the interior parts of her sex, than move on to tongue stimulation, and finish her off with a nice dose of tapping. Don’t stop after the first orgasm, unless she had one so powerful that she needs a moment to catch her breath. If she’s ok with you guys continuing, go back to kissing and licking and then tapping again. She’ll reach seventh heaven!

To watch a SENSUAL VIDEO about mastering the art of female oral sex, go to HERE

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Female Orgasm - How to Give Your Woman a Sexual Massage

In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or place on the floor, etc.) and equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider making use of fabric or items made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different reactions from her. If you don’t have them, don’t worry. Nothing can beat the best part of this sexual massage session: you.

Firstly, ask your woman to undress (or better yet, undress her). Another tip here to ensure good hygiene is to give her a warm bath first. Either way, once she’s nude, have her lie face down on the area you prepared for the massage. While she has her back to you, undress as well.

To learn more tips about how to satisfy your lover tonight, go to HERE

Use your hot breath.
Make sure your body and hands are not cold and then lie on top of her (you facing the back of her head). Support your weight on your arms (don’t crush her!). This move does three things: it signals the start of the sexual massage by applying pressure on her whole body; it helps to warm her body and prepare it for the massage; and it starts to introduce sexual thoughts into her head because she can feel your penis between her thighs.

Now don’t get carried away here and start sex. Proceed with the sexual massage and you will be rewarded as the sexual tension builds up!

Now, start to breath on her neck and her back. Your hot breath should stimulate her sensitive skin.

Use your fingertips.
Now, pull yourself up and straddle her thighs (your penis resting between the backs of her legs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage her back with just your fingertips. Alternate your strokes. Apply hard, pressured ones with light touches.

Palm circling.
Progress from using your fingers to ‘palm circling’, which is basically massaging her back by applying the whole width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps her body really relax. As a general rule, never massage her on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine.

Gliding.
Scoot yourself lover down her body. You buttocks should be by her feet now. Now reach to the top of her shoulders and start doing the palm circling massage… but this time, glide down to her ass and start massaging there too. After a few strokes, you can be naughtier with this one.

Reach to the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass. (Like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass.

A slight – and naughtier variation – would be to lick her ass instead of breathing your hot breathe on it WHILE palm circling her back. (Hey, don’t forget the massage part even while you’re busy sexually arousing her.)

To learn more naughty tricks to give your lover an orgasm, go to HERE

Thumbing.
Go back to straddling her thighs, sitting up now, and use your thumbs to massage her lower back. You should make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb, moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue up the right-hand side of her body all the way to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back (just above her butt).

Now for the sexual part… continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down her butt. Part her crack and start to thumb massage her anus. She will try to squirm here but be firm! If she can take it, alternate between this massage and breathing your hot breathe on her anus.

Repeat all these back massages as long as you want! Just remember to oil up often as the warm oil and the gliding effect of your skin on hers does a lot of sexual magic!

Learn more tips to satisfy a woman in bed at HERE

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Secrets of Blissful Relationships - Cut It Out!

Relationships are built on time.  If you never spent a minute
with your sweetheart there is no chance that you would even be in
a relationship.  The more hours, days and months worth of positive
communicating you do, the stronger your ties become and the more
successful your relationship can be.  If you want a truly blissful
relationship you need to carve in a reasonable amount of time in
your schedule to be together.  Often, that means you need to get rid
of something.  So let's consider some ways to "simplify" your life
and create more time for relaxing and relating with your life mate.

Some of these will work for you, others will not.  Do what is
reasonable for you.

* Unless you really enjoy yard work, consider getting rid of your
lawn.  Many flowerbeds take considerably less time (and water)
to maintain than a lawn.  Or, move to a condominium or townhouse
where yard maintenance is taken care of for you.  Athena and I
have lived in condos and townhomes for much of our married life.
That is one reason we have the time to do so much fun stuff and
travel for long periods.

* All too often people "inherit" pets that they really never
wanted. If you are not strongly attached to your pet, consider
offering it to a family who would dearly love it.  Pets can take a
lot of your time (and money) so don't feel guilty for putting your
relationship first.

* When making a meal like lasagna or a casserole, consider making
two or three while all the ingredients are out and put the extra
in the freezer for a night when you want to relax.  Athena and I
bought an upright freezer just so we could do that.

* Unplug the television.  It saps more hours from most couples than
anything else.  Even worse, television entices you and your children
to buy stuff you don't need, making you work more to buy "stuff."

* Cancel sales catalogs, ezines and magazines you never read (or read
out of habit - not out of enjoyment).  Take the time to remove your
name from junk mail lists.  Here is a website where you can do that.

* Use automatic bill payment as much as possible.  Almost every
bill and mortgage can be set up.  Most employers are now able to
provide automatic deposit.

* If you use credit cards, consolidate all of them to one card that
you use and one as a back up in case of emergencies.  Set it up
for automatic bill payment too.  It will force you to pay it off
every month.

* Don't overwork your kids (and yourself) by signing them up for
every possible activity.  Let them choose one or two at a time they
are most interested in.

* Drop out of clubs/organizations that you don't enjoy or don't
have much value for you.

* Get in the habit of asking yourself, "will this
purchase/activity/experience help me to have a more blissful
relationship or will it put stress on it?"  The more deliberate we
are in our decisions on how to spend our time and money, the more
likely we are to make choices that will strengthen our relationships.

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Female Orgasm: On your marks, get set, ohhh!

“Anticipation makes the hard-on longer.” – Itsby Stevintary
Sex and the Olympics go together like Michael Phelps and water. At the Olympic Games in Beijing, athletes were provided with 100,000 condoms (that’s more than 10 each!), and things got even hotter with 150,000 condoms shipped into London’s Olympic Village this year. But it’s not just the athletes who might want some podium-worthy action – all that Lycra is getting us a little flushed, too. If you’re feeling a similar stirring, grab your nearest female competitor and gear up for some Olympic-inspired fun. Just work out your competitive sex styles and how you can align them and you’ll be out of the starting blocks before the gun’s even fired.
If you’re a sprinter
Sharing a bed but your climaxes aren’t even in the same postcode? Part of the reason could be that women can take around 20 minutes to reach full arousal, while you’re perfectly capable of enjoying sweet post-coital dreams by then. So how can you have her join in the hard-and-fast run without her feeling unsatisfied at the end? The key lies in separating mind and body – getting the former psyched for what the latter is about to experience. So take foreplay down a notch, speed-wise. While she slips into her lingerie, after having taken a bath, start touching her lightly, brushing her thighs and breasts will make it feel extra hot once you finally take over and do the deed. Then once you’re in bed with her, don’t settle for just one position. If you’re a sprinter, if you linger on one single way of doing it, you’ll finish even faster. Alternatively, you can choose a less familiar spot to get naked (kitchen table?) as it will get her adrenaline pumping. She could also take hold of your penis and squeeze just below the head – the pressure will push blood back down your penis and diminish the sexual tension. Finally, try some dirty talk to ramp up the tempo for her and have her crossing the finish line neck and neck with you – if not first.
Too fast… It could be that you’re suffering from premature ejaculation – not necessarily a problem as long as you’re both happy. If not, there are things you can do about it – from mastering techniques during sex, to using shallow movements instead of deep thrusts. And if you’re often over keen, you could be looking for swift release from stress, or you might be simply so into her. Yeah, I’m guessing that’s it.
If you’re a diver
Going down on a woman is one of the most intimate moves a man can make, so it’s no surprise 43 per cent of women are keen for oral sex. If you love diving down below, try this trick. Suck her gently, as if through a straw. Once she’s aroused, form an “O” with your lips, pulling and releasing. It can be intense, so you should follow her cues to ensure the pressure works. If oral doesn’t feature in your repertoire, too bad! Especially if you’re more than keep on her giving you deep-sea action. And don’t think she doesn’t want it just because she never asks for it. A woman will never do that, so take the lead and you’ll both reap the benefits.
Victory Lap… Win! You are now an unselfish lover who wants to showcase how dedicated he is to her partner’s pleasure as well as his own. Let the reciprocal loving… and blowing begin!
If you’re a gymnast
Men fall into camps: the “lie back and let me do my thing” variety, versus the guy who sees sex as an extension of his gym workout. If you’re type two and boast good upper-body strength, you’re suited for positions that require you to take your partner’s weight. Indulge your inner caveman by going for sex against the wall with your partner’s legs wrapped around your waist, or take it to the shower to steam things up. If that doesn’t work for her, start in the missionary position and kneel up straight, holding her hips so her torso is at 45 degrees to the bed. A rocking motion should have both of you grinding to a climax in minutes. On the other hand, she can hone her inner gymnast by training her pelvic muscles – strong muscles result in strong orgasms!
Flex your muscles… Showing off your super-toned body and demonstrating your strength and flexibility are classic mating rituals designed to impress. You’re an alpha male and you enjoy the feeling of being in charge in the bedroom. However, that’s not to say you shouldn’t accept some female domination from time to time. So by all means, feel free to let her take over the spotlight.
If you’re a marathon man
A major scientific sex survey conducted found the perfect sex session lasts between seven and 15 minutes- and that some of us think even three minutes is “adequate” (really?). However, forget what the scientists say – taking it slowly could be the path to your most mind-blowing orgasm ever (and hers!). And if you’re the type of guy who enjoys pleasuring your partner, tantric sex could reap huge benefits for you both. If you can keep going, you could be in for a marathon session. Tantra isn’t just about opening your chakras and trying not to picture Sting naked: it’s also about enjoying each intimate moment of sex, not just the race to orgasm. First, plan a sexy night at home and find a way to bond that doesn’t involve sex – whether it’s taking a bath together or sharing a bottle of red wine. Then, when you’re both totally relaxed, it’s time to explore what turns you on physically and mentally. Just about any activity can be made erotic. To find out what works for you, try playing Yin Yang – where each of you takes it in turns to be Yang, in charge of requesting pleasure from your partner. A massage? A little bit of oral attention? Gentle stroking? Aim to spend three hours over the whole experience and you and your partner will be feeling a connection for days.
Long-distance lover… If your grinding leaves your partner feeling sore or bored (of the 60 per cent of women who’ve faked it, many cite this as the reason), speed it up by switching to the girl-on-top position. That way she gets to set the pace.

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3 more hot lovemaking tips

Men love the feeling of being deep-throated but it is quite rare that
a woman can do that. Instead, extend your mouth by putting your wet
hand next to your lips. As your mouth moves up and down, accompany
the movement with your hand, which is wrapped around his shaft.



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When you are in the tub, maneuver your darling so his or her ge.nitals
are under the running warm water.



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Tap on the cli.toris repeatedly like you were tapping on a keyboard
with one or two fingers (some women prefer the rod to do the
tapping).  There are a few women who do NOT like the tapping but in
a survey I did, most of them did enjoy it.



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How to Know if a Man Really Loves You

7 Simple Questions that Prove How He REALLY Feels

Answer these questions and you will INSTANTLY
know if any guy is a keeper... or needs to be tossed.

For all the details check out here: 1000 Questions For Couples

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Tasteful, juicy ideas for more spark between the sheets

Some tips for you regarding items that are already in your house...

  * The bathroom item that can help prolong orgasms  enjoy a
  marathon session with your partner using this simple object

  * A simple way to add an extra inch to the length of your penis
  (No pills or medicines required!)  increase your confidence
  and feel better about your manhood's size with this trick

  * 13 unique sex games you can play with household items  4 games
  you can play with items that are already in your living room!

  * Want to get your lady in the mood? These two items from your
  living room will help get both your engines revving no matter
  how tired you are!

  * A simple way to keep your penis erect longer  increase your
  chances of lasting longer and give your woman more powerful
  orgasms

  * Your man rarely in the mood? A closet item that is sure to get
  your man more excited about making love  don't be surprised if
  he gives you the most passionate, deep and sensual kiss you've
  ever had after this

  * A small 2 x 2 inch household item that can have your partner
  'hot and heavy' the minute they walk in the door

See more Tips, visit: Great Lovemaking House

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